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Clinic tomorrow, eeek... How do you cope?

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So we’ve managed to scrape together the money to start the private IVF process...

Off to the clinic tomorrow for mine and my partner’s blood tests and a follicle count scan (the NHS one I had didn’t detail the number so Access Fertility wouldn’t accept it).

I’m really nervous at starting the whole thing! Some days I think ‘I’ll be ok’ and other days I get really jittery when thinking about it. I’m not really feeling excited at all.

I also have in my mind that it probably won’t work - it seems no negative, which is unlike me. Perhaps I’m tying to protect myself against having hope that might later be dashed.

How do you cope with the nerves?

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Eek indeed! Masses of luck! If I had one piece of advice - it may be coincidence but I’ve done three round so far and first and third I had sort of given up before they started - to protect myself - and they didn’t work. Second I was full of optimism and positivity and it did work... all I can say is channel the positive mental attitude! Good luck xx

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Thank you so much! Hoping for a little miracle xxx

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So today I had the dildo-cam scan, blood tests, and got taken through how to administer all the drugs...

What a journey, but feels good that I can finally do something about it all!

Really hoping you all have lots of luck and baby dust xx

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The piece of advice that I was given but took me a little while to do is be kind to yourself and take each day as it comes. Also, allow time out to be a couple, it will be difficult at times but wishing you all the very best 🌸

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