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Beta #9 and it has risen again slightly. I’m being sent to the problems in early pregnancy unit in the morning for them to take over and intervene medically.

I didn’t want it to come to this, I was hoping that my body would take care of it naturally and do it’s job. But unfortunately that doesn’t seem like the case as it’s now week 5 ☹️. My FS said she doesn’t want to wait any longer.

I’m scared, sad, nervous and all of the above. Luckily my OH can come with me in the morning. I don’t really know what to expect as my FS said it’s up to them now ☹️

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Hanneesweedie

Oh no 😔 so sorry to hear this! I was diagnosed with ectopic yesterday and I completely understand that you wanted to avoid the injection if at all possible. I was absolutely gutted at the prospect of waiting 3 months to try again. I’m currently on expectant management and was hoping that everything would resolve quickly, but it sounds like it’s pretty touch and go and could take weeks. I’ve just read through your previous posts and it absolutely sucks that you’ve been in this limbo for so long! Hoping and praying for you that they’ll test again and it will have dropped!!! If it doesn’t though, you’ve really done everything you could to try and avoid medical intervention, not that it makes it any easier to deal with. Glad to hear that your OH will be there supporting you, whatever plan of action you/they decide.

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Ajplus1 in reply to Hanneesweedie

I’m sorry to hear that hun. I hope that it resolves quickly with the expectant management. I’ve started spotting again this morning. But that has happened on and off for weeks now. Nervous to see what today holds xx

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Hanneesweedie in reply to Ajplus1

Good luck! Xx

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Cinderella5

I am so sorry that things havent gone well sweetheart and that you are still stuck in limboland, my heart goes out to you! I hope you get some kind of resolution to things put in place today. Thinking of you and lots of love.xx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you lovely. So nervous and sad. Hopefully they’re caring and we get some answers. Much love xx

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Cinderella5 in reply to Ajplus1

I can only imagine! Such an awful few weeks for you!! I really hope you get well looked after.😘xxx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you, me too xxx

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Kyell2

Oh no. I’m so sorry it had to come to this. It’s been going on for so long it must be mental torture.

Hope the EPU appointment goes as well as it can and it’s great that your OH can be there for you xx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Kyell2

It really has ☹️. Hopefully we get some answers and a proper plan today xx

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Tugsgirl

Sending you hugs and best wishes. I’m sorry to hear about all your struggles xx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you lovely. I hope you’re doing well xx

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Tugsgirl in reply to Ajplus1

Baby is fine. I’m struggling. Here is not the place to complain about that though lol. Seriously, I hope you get your answers and your holiday xx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Tugsgirl

Sorry to hear that. Hang in there sweetie xx

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purplerain2000

Bless you, sorry to hear of your emotional torment that you are going through, sending you lots of prayers and much love xx

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Ajplus1 in reply to purplerain2000

Thank you xx

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