12dp5dt - Otd is tomorrow

[savido1]

Yesterday (11dp5dt ) was the worst day ever! I really thought as we were shopping that AF had started. I became really tearful as I was trying to look for a toilet to check. My poor husband doesn’t really have any tacked when it comes to asking questions (especially in public) which made it worse. I really did feel for him but the last thing I needed was attention from passers by. Luckily , it was a false alarm. I felt like I ruined the day by being the way I was. The combo of oestrogen and progesterone is really playing with me. Today is 12dp5dt and Tomorrow is suppose to be OTD (Sunday ) . As the clinic will be closed tomorrow I have made a decision not to test until Monday. I don’t think I can cope having the results and not being able to tell them for another 24hrs

What do you guys think?

What were your symptoms at 12dp5dt ?

[Hidden]

I had cramping (still do) at 14dp5dt i got a BFP at 6dpt. The oestrogeon and pogesterone are a killer. Im sure thats what gives me the cramps. Ive not had any other symptoms except cramps. Good luck for monday 🤞🏻🤞🏻Xx

[savido1 in reply to Hidden]

Wow! Congratulations! That’s amazing news!! Yes the cramping has been very on/off. Between 1dp5dt to now I’ve also had occasional sickness , headaches and backache. Sore boobs have been constant. Today everything seems to have calmed down. Don’t know if that’s a good thing or not

[Hidden in reply to savido1]

I did have sore boobs before transfer but stopped after. Hopefully its a positive thing for you. Just remember everyone is different. I dont have any other symptoms other than cramping and always worrying im not pregnant because of it but i am so need to accept that. Best of luck with your test 😘xx

[Hidden]

Aww it’s so difficult isn’t it.

And I haven’t had IVF ( I had 3 surgeries to treat endometriosis) so imagine 2WW is even worse then.

Both times I fell I had no symptoms perhaps a bit of breast pain but felt like my period was coming both times &( one in 2017 where I miscarried at 4.5 weeks & this pregnancy where I’m 33 weeks) I had cramping like you I kept checking because I was convinced that period was coming! I wanted a answer , being in limbo is worse. Obviously AF didn’t arrive. Unfortunately the early pregnancy symptoms are so very similar to AF there is no way of really knowing. My “first” sign was a missed period which prompted me to test but I was so convinced it would be negative ( hubby believed it would be positive so much more optimistic than me!!) so got my hubby to hold the test😏!!! After so long of trying (7 years) we gave up it would happen for us & we planned how on having IVF ( before my endo re grew which is fast at recurring 🤦🏽‍♀️) we are still shocked it happened for us!

As for when you decide to test that’s a very personal decision you must make, only you know what feels right for you. Do use first urine & a sensitive test as it would be such early days. My tests showed positive 16/17 days post Lh surge & I used clearblue digital conception pregnancy test. I thought there’d be no confusion over results!! I would have hubby there too for support. Also ask yourself how you’d feel going to work after a neg result if you’re working Monday ( not saying it would be) I tested in the week & prepared myself for a neg test ( I was happy to wait it out but hubby wanted to know either way!!)

Anyway having waffles on wishing you good luck when you decide to test & really hope it’s a BFP 🤞🏻✨❤️ xoxo

[savido1 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much for sharing. I hear you regarding the pregnancy / af symptoms. I have just found 2 unused pregnancy test in the house and guess what ...... they are both past their exp .

I’m self employed so testing on Monday isn’t that much of an issue. I just didn’t want to test tomorrow and have to wait till Monday to tell the clinic. Saying that I am going to purchase so more tests tomorrow (just in case )

[Pozzag83]

I burst into emotional madness like you. I was randomly crying on two days. Looking back it was obvious. I had a full feeling but apart from that, all the other signs like sore boobs I thought was the drugs. I tested BFP 11dpt. Good luck, hope it’s the same for you x