Tomorrow is my otd. I’ve been really good and haven’t tested early. This 2ww has been a real mix of emotions. I’ve had days where I’ve actually allowed myself to think that this could have worked, and I’ve had days where all I keep thinking is that I’m going to have another bfn. Today is one of those days. We are very lucky because we’ve still got one remaining frostie. However part of me thinks that if I get a third bfn there must be something wrong with me (other than not being able to conceive naturally) and what would be the point in having our last embryo transferred for it to be destined to fail. IVF is such an emotional rollercoaster 😔
I hope everyone else is having a much more positive Sunday xx
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Totally full of up and downs. Why don't you have a soak in the bath, pop some pj's on and have a Netflix kinda Sunday 🙂 try to be kind to yourself. This could of worked you know xxxxx
Can def relate to that I was a mess. Convinced it had not worked and already making plans before I knew. Then even when got my bfp I didn’t believe it ☺️. It a tough old journey. Good luck for tomorrow. Hoping for a bfp for u x
I’m in almost exactly the same boat as you. OTD tomorrow and have one frostie left previous transfer was bfn...
Unfortunately the odds are against us (I don’t know how anyone gets pregnant!) but there is still hope and it can still happen.
So I’m in for a relaxing evening and early night and hope you have the same. Sending lots and lots of luck for tomorrow. Let’s hope the odds are in our favour this time. Xx
The last few days before OTD I had terrible pain in the neck and shoulders just from so much tension. It's a torturous time!! We're always told to think positive but you don't want to let yourself dream in case it doesn't work and the disappointment is that much worse. Well done for getting through it and best of luck for tomorrow xxx
Good luck!! I was absolutely convinced it hasn’t worked for me and I was in total shock when I saw a BFP. Anything can happen! Wishing you all the best xxx
Know how you feel, I’m still a week away from OTD and it feels like it’s a lot longer and had yet another meltdown when I felt like I had pre AF cramps today, convinced I’m getting my period and it hasn’t worked then I feel “normal” and think ok this might actually work and that rollercoaster happens about 3/4 times a day and I’ve planned to seek out new clinics and treatment abroad that might help us 🙈 and I don’t know for sure this hasn’t worked yet!
Best of luck for tomorrow and hope you get your BFP 🤞 xx
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