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The pain of infertility and loss is never forgotten, no matter what your circumstances. I’ve felt it. I feel it. Be kind to yourselves today and always. May this time next year be your time ✨🤞🏻✨

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Em2405

What an accurate and beautiful sentiment. Although I am blessed this year to be expecting I am and still feel an infertile and always will be so I stand with all of you who yearn to be mothers. I stand with you and will never forget the pain. Love to everyone today and be strong ❤️ xx

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Tugsgirl in reply to Em2405

I’m blessed this year too. I know what you mean xx

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Charleexn2

After going through my Facebook and feeling a an immergence of the green eyed monster, and then feeling bad for feeling that way - I really appreciate this post. Thank you xxx

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Tugsgirl in reply to Charleexn2

You’re welcome xx

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Best thing to do on sensitive days is give facebook a miss if all it does is upset you.

Of course you are envious when you see others getting things when you don't and that's natural to feel like that.

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Scarlett13

A lovely quote. This time next year I hope I’ll be a mum or a mum to be. Maybe I need to go on that show for Davina McCall to sort it for me - This time next year I WILL be a mum. If only I could walk off through those doors and come back through them 5 seconds later with a baby in my arms!

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Tugsgirl in reply to Scarlett13

Hubby and I watch Grand Designs and can’t believe how many pregnancies and babies are announced most episodes. We always used to say that’s what we need to do, go on Grand Designs!

It’s not easy. Far from it. When you do get there it will be worth it and you certainly deserve it xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Tugsgirl

You’re right - they always have babies in the middle of building work and give themselves so much added pressure to get finished before babies arrive - just wait until you’re in your lovely new house! Xx

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AS100 in reply to Tugsgirl

I always think that about location location location! 🙈 people even said to us when we move house we’ll get pregnant 😂 🤔 xxx

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Tugsgirl in reply to AS100

😂 xx

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Ropa19 in reply to Scarlett13

I’ve just said the exact same thing to my husband, maybe davina can fix it for us! This time next year..... 🤞 xx

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Core

Thanks for sharing this quote, as you know this is such a difficult day and so great to have this forum xx

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Tugsgirl in reply to Core

❣️

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Sprinkles86

❤️❤️❤️

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Tugsgirl in reply to Sprinkles86

❣️

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Babyjoshua

Thank you I needed that encouragement because I wake up feeling very sad today. Thank u once again

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Tugsgirl in reply to Babyjoshua

You’re very welcome xx

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strong-girl

You are soo thoughtful tugsgirl I wish I had your positivity xxx

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Tugsgirl in reply to strong-girl

Thank you.

Happy first Mother’s Day to you xx

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Squeak2

💕 xx

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Tugsgirl in reply to Squeak2

❣️

We had a nice tranquil day despite some sadness initially and stayed away from the fancy restaurants that do mothers day spreads and had a nice long walk instead and it was nice and tranquil and stuck to the basic places for late breakfast who don't rip you off staying away from lunchtime and I don't think we missed much as there's lots of other opportunities to go out.

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Sounds like you had a lovely day xx

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