So we have one embie on board. I hoping beyond all hopes and crossing everything that it’s a sticky one.
Especially considering the lab just called and said they’re going to discard the other 3.
Feeling really disheartened by the news especially after transfer yesterday and they said the others were on track. But I guess this is the IvF roller coaster!
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In both my cycles I've only ever had 1 get to day 5 and none to freeze. I know how disheartening it is to have none to freeze and it seems like everyone else did, however you only need the one to stick. Did they say anything about the quality?
I didn’t have anything to freeze either, it’s frustrating without a doubt but you still have one on board which is fantastic and exciting. I think it’s the worry of having to go through EC all over again. (Well for me anyway)
Concentrate on the one on board not the ones lost, best to focus on the positive not the negative as much as possible in this game
I know it’s a disappointment to get your hopes up and then get them dashed, that it’s hard to stay positive but this one made it. It’s a fighter. There are ladies on here who’ve been in exactly the same position and got their bfp. Good luck xx
Sorry to hear that, it is disappointing when we feel we could do with that back up. I mever had any to freeze in my cycles so know how you feel. However, you have a special fighter on board and hopefully it's a sticky one at that!! Good luck!!🤞🏻xx
It is a roller-coaster, hun. I'm glad, you've accepted it. The TWW can be really tough. Best of luck to you! All's good that ends well, right? Here's to hoping you get a BFP! You can do this!
Hi hun I’m feeling much better 2day . I being up and down to shop tidy up the staff in a home so I can relax bit after my transfer this Sunday. Yeh I just had a call from embryologist with update how my baby’s doing . So transfer is this Sunday 11.30 am . How u feeling hun?
Good idea hun. Glad you’re feeling better. Wishing you the best of luck for transfer. I’m alright. Bit crampy from the crinone. Just trying to focus on the one we’ve got on board. Xx
Myself and 3 of my friends ended up with one on board and none to freeze. 3 out of this bunch of 4 got a BFP!! So it can happen, got to stay positive. And if the worst happens then you’re in good company here with me and all these other fine fertility warriors. Xx
We only had one blasto in the end had none to freeze. I am writing this as my 5 month old sleeps beside me. It only takes one so don’t be disheartened xxx
My situation was very similar. I had a ‘good’ quality transferred on day 3 and the other 2 didn’t make it to day 5 to freeze but after the 2WW we got a BFP! Don’t feel disheartened. Keep your hopes up. Stay busy. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for a BFP on your OTD! Xx
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