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One on board none made it to freeze 😓

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So we have one embie on board. I hoping beyond all hopes and crossing everything that it’s a sticky one.

Especially considering the lab just called and said they’re going to discard the other 3.

Feeling really disheartened by the news especially after transfer yesterday and they said the others were on track. But I guess this is the IvF roller coaster!

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Mainecoonfan

In both my cycles I've only ever had 1 get to day 5 and none to freeze. I know how disheartening it is to have none to freeze and it seems like everyone else did, however you only need the one to stick. Did they say anything about the quality?

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Ajplus1 in reply to Mainecoonfan

They said it was good quality. But that was it. I know some people get ratings but we didn’t get told one. Thinking back we should have asked!

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3005

I didn’t have anything to freeze either, it’s frustrating without a doubt but you still have one on board which is fantastic and exciting. I think it’s the worry of having to go through EC all over again. (Well for me anyway)

Concentrate on the one on board not the ones lost, best to focus on the positive not the negative as much as possible in this game

Best of luck x

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Ajplus1 in reply to 3005

Thank you hun. I definitely agree. It would have been nice to have a back up or two but I will focus on the one on board! Xx

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Tugsgirl

I know it’s a disappointment to get your hopes up and then get them dashed, that it’s hard to stay positive but this one made it. It’s a fighter. There are ladies on here who’ve been in exactly the same position and got their bfp. Good luck xx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Tugsgirl

It definitely is! Thank you hun. Hope you’re well xx

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that, it is disappointing when we feel we could do with that back up. I mever had any to freeze in my cycles so know how you feel. However, you have a special fighter on board and hopefully it's a sticky one at that!! Good luck!!🤞🏻xx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you hun. Crossing everything xx

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Sweets1

It’s a fighter I’m sure, crossing everything for you. Good luck xxx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Sweets1

Thank you hun. Hope you’re doing okay xx

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Taraa9

It is a roller-coaster, hun. I'm glad, you've accepted it. The TWW can be really tough. Best of luck to you! All's good that ends well, right? Here's to hoping you get a BFP! You can do this!

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Ajplus1 in reply to Taraa9

It definitely is a roller coaster, things can change any second! Thanks hun!

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Olivia1980xxx

Fingers crossed for u hun . It take just this one 🙏xx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Olivia1980xxx

Thanks hun. Let’s hope this is the one. How’s your pain going? Have you had an update? Xx

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Olivia1980xxx in reply to Ajplus1

Hi hun I’m feeling much better 2day . I being up and down to shop tidy up the staff in a home so I can relax bit after my transfer this Sunday. Yeh I just had a call from embryologist with update how my baby’s doing . So transfer is this Sunday 11.30 am . How u feeling hun?

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Ajplus1 in reply to Olivia1980xxx

Good idea hun. Glad you’re feeling better. Wishing you the best of luck for transfer. I’m alright. Bit crampy from the crinone. Just trying to focus on the one we’ve got on board. Xx

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Drives

Everything crossed for you 🤞

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Ajplus1 in reply to Drives

Thank you x

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kirstyblue

Wishing you the best of luck xx

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Ajplus1 in reply to kirstyblue

Thank you x

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SConnor

But one is on board!! Crossing everything for you! 💙

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Ajplus1 in reply to SConnor

Thank you x

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Shirazlover2013

Myself and 3 of my friends ended up with one on board and none to freeze. 3 out of this bunch of 4 got a BFP!! So it can happen, got to stay positive. And if the worst happens then you’re in good company here with me and all these other fine fertility warriors. Xx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Shirazlover2013

Thank you for your kinds words hun. We definitely are all warriors. Sorry to hear to didn’t get your BFP xx

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Violet5451

We only had one blasto in the end had none to freeze. I am writing this as my 5 month old sleeps beside me. It only takes one so don’t be disheartened xxx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Violet5451

Thank you hun. Congratulations on your 5month old xx

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Violet5451 in reply to Ajplus1

Thank you. Will keep everything crossed for you xxx

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Violet5451 in reply to Violet5451

Sorry I know “don’t be disheartened” is easier said than done. I was very disheartened but it turned out amazing in the end xxx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Violet5451

That’s totally fine. I understand what you mean. Hopefully I can have similar success xx

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CJones40

My situation was very similar. I had a ‘good’ quality transferred on day 3 and the other 2 didn’t make it to day 5 to freeze but after the 2WW we got a BFP! Don’t feel disheartened. Keep your hopes up. Stay busy. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for a BFP on your OTD! Xx

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