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It was as I feared 😢

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Third otd, third bfn.

I don’t think that I will ever see a positive pregnancy test.

I feel completely broken and exhausted. Really don’t know how much more I can take. Why does life have to be so cruel and hard. It shouldn’t be this hard to get the thing that you so desperately want.

I hope that others who are testing today are much more lucky. Xx

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Oh lovey I’m so sorry to hear this. It shouldn’t be so hard to have a baby it’s so cruel. I don’t have any advice but hope others might have. Hope you have lots of support around you xoxo

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Niki_B

I'm so so sorry 😢 xxx

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HollyT7

Thinking of you xxxx

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kirstyblue

I’m so sorry. How very cruel that you are having to go through this.

Take care x

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Kcrochet

I’m so sorry to hear that, please be kind to yourself 😢😘 xx

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Debrakay1704

sending you big hugs, please look after yourself. xxx

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Cinderella5

Im really sorry! BFN's are so disappointing and they dont get any easier unfortunately. I had 5 BFNs before we got our positive and although our little one didnt stick with us we have taken some heart that we have now seen a BFP.....its a bit like having a carrot dangled in front of us, its given us a little sign that maybe we can get there. Have you tried gentle steriod cover....as in prednisolone or would your consultant allow you to try it? Its the only thing that we have really changed this time and I cant honestly say hand on heart that it was what helped us get a BFP, could be a fluke but we plan to do this again next time. Massive hugs.xx

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Littleflower82

Ah I'm so sorry to read this, such a tough process xx

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emmab178

So sorry to read this. Big hugs x

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MrsE29

Sorry to hear this, take care xx

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Core

So sorry to hear this, had my 2nd BFN last week and like you I wonder if I’ll ever see a positive pregnancy test. Hope you are able to have some time to recover and plan your next steps xx

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Lou7744

I’m so sorry to read your news. I got a bfn 2 weeks ago. They are truly rubbish. Sending you big hugs 💕 XX

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hifer

So sorry to read this. It is so cruel and exhausting! Sending you hugs x

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Olaz

So sorry to hear this. Sending you hugs xx

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SunnyDream

Hi Jebby86!

I saw your post here and decided to write. I fully understand what you are going through now as I am preparing for my 2nd IVF, hoping to see a positive result. A long time ago I have tried IVF+OE but got bfn. I was in a hard depression but my DH helped me to go through this and we decided to try our luck once more. I strongly believe that I will work out, but if not, we will probably move to surrogacy. We really want to use all the options and chances to become parents. Please, do not stop trying! I know that it is very exhausting but as long as there is hope, there will always be chances, you only need to believe!

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