Tww to test early?

[Apples2665]

I’ve really been struggling with anxiety over the last few days about testing. I’m due to test on Wednesday 14 dp5dt. I’ve been thinking about testing early just to get it over with. I’m 99% sure treatment hasn’t worked and just want it confirmed so I can move on. The problem is I want my husband with me but he’s away until Thursday. I thought i was dealing with everything well, but the last few days have been horrible 😞

[CindyWeze]

Ah, the tww! I'm sorry, you're having to go through this. It can be so tough. I know, I've been there. It's the thing I hated the most about the TTC journey. Just want to wish you the best of luck. Hang in there, girl, you can get through. It's a little early, though. You can test if it helps the nerves! Keep us posted on how it goes!

[Apples2665 in reply to CindyWeze]

Thank you. Decided to test Thursday with my husband. I think it would be selfish to do it without him as we are in this together x

[Jm82]

Just wanted to say good luck, the waiting is horrible but if you can I would try and hold out till otd as testing early could give you an incorrect result. Your nearly there, you can do it xx

[Apples2665 in reply to Jm82]

Thank you. Decided to test Thursday with my husband. I think it would be selfish to do it without him as we are in this together x

[Ruby26]

I would hang in there til hubby is back. It’s better to find out either way together. Easier said than done I know. Good luck xx

[Apples2665 in reply to Ruby26]

Thank you. Decided to test Thursday with my husband. I think it would be selfish to do it without him as we are in this together x

[emmab178]

Bless you. Its the end of the tww getting to you. Don't worry about not getting symptoms, that can still be ok for a bfp.

If you do test make sure you have him on FaceTime or something for the result. Either way he should be in on it.

With my first icsi i was absolutely sure it hadn't worked and tested two days early with him on the phone (phoned him as i was waiting for the lines to show up so he couldn't tell me not to test early!). Turned out a bfp so glad he knew the same time i did.

[Apples2665 in reply to emmab178]

Thank you. Decided to test Thursday with my husband. I definitely want him there x

[emmab178 in reply to Apples2665]

Well done you. Not sure I'm going to be so patient