No implantation bleeding but still bfp? Tww rollercoaster 🙈

[Catlady12345]

Hi ladies,

I hope you’re all ok. I’m in the dreaded tww and I’m driving myself a little potty looking too much into symptoms or lack of!

I’m 6 days after a 5 day frozen transfer and I’ve only had a few cramps for the past couple of evenings and then they’ve stopped. They were really mild too. When I first had a BFP last year (ended in miscarriage) I had spotting around this time (it was a fresh transfer) and I just wondered if anyone has had a bfp without implantation bleeding?

My test day is Sunday and I just want to fast forward the days 🤦🏽‍♀️

I’m on lubion this time so I wondered if that might block any bleeding too?

Thanks as always xxx

[McQueeny]

Hello I never had any bleeding when I was pregnant with my LB .... I was told implantation bleeding is reasonably common but is not the norm , so don’t worry, it doesn’t mean anything - good luck !! 🤞 x

[Catlady12345 in reply to McQueeny]

Thank you! I think I’m comparing myself to my first transfer but I need to get out of that mindset and accept each transfer is different!! Xx

[Vicky-01]

Hi, I got pregnant after a 2 day fresh transfer and had no implantation spotting at all. Good luck x

[Jen_jen]

Hi Catlady, I would say that’s a good sign, I also didn’t get any implantation bleeding when I was pregnant with my daughter.

Good luck and I have everything crossed for you, that you get a BFP🤞🏼

[Jam-master]

Hi, I didn’t have any spotting with my boy 3 years ago, it’s quite common but I think a lot of the time people don’t have it at all xx

[London_Lady1]

I had implantation bleeding when I got pregnant naturally last year and then miscarried. With my IVF cycle no implantation bleeding, but a BFP that is now due in a few weeks. Wishing you so much luck for your OTD. Xx

[Catlady12345 in reply to London_Lady1]

Thank you so much. It’s like torture every day during the tww as I’m constantly analysing everything and just don’t feel pregnant at all. Congrats on your bfp and good luck in a few weeks xxx

[London_Lady1 in reply to Catlady12345]

Yup it totally is. The only way to get through are distractions. Dr Google is visited far too much in those 2 weeks, and he is pretty useless.

I didn't feel pregnant at all during my wait. I just felt like AF was coming. My pessaries made my boobs feel a bit tender but that would come and go from day to day.

Maybe become obsessed with a box set or throw yourself into a hobby. Just anything to keep you off Dr Google! Xx

[Sophii in reply to London_Lady1]

Sorry , may I ask what is AF? My due date will be tomorrow ><

[Catlady12345 in reply to Sophii]

Period 😊

[Sophii in reply to Catlady12345]

Thank you very much for your clarification..I feel nothing now except slight AF feeling ><

[Catlady12345 in reply to Sophii]

Good luck tomorrow 🤞

[London_Lady1 in reply to Sophii]

Auntie Flow. Test day will come round soon. Wishing you luck. Xx

[Angels2us in reply to Catlady12345]

Hi just like to say I had a spotting with 1 positive test , which ended in a chemical, another chemical 4 months after no spotting And I think it’s the same when you have a successful pregnancy some do have spotting and some don’t , I know how your feeling, I thought I was going nuts 😩😩, but I think every one is different so it’s so hard to compare , sending you lots of positive vibes xxxx

[Catlady12345 in reply to Angels2us]

Thanks so much! I really do turn into an emotional wreck 😂 and I started off the week so well ha. Hope you’re ok and thanks again xx

[Rainbow1982]

Congrats on your bfp!!I had extreme bleeding and cramping with my FET and now 28 weeks pregnant. I think you need to chill out and take time for yourself. Keep yourself busy and try your very best not to stress. All the best xx

[Gillis]

With my first pregnancy I had implantation bleeding unfortunately that ended in a miscarriage.This time I had no implantation bleeding.

[Catlady12345 in reply to Gillis]

Thank you! I promised myself I wouldn’t overthink these two weeks but I’ve never felt worse so it really helps hearing other people’s experiences and differences! Congrats xx

[Gillis in reply to Catlady12345]

Its really hard not to worry about. I was really scared I'd miscarry again. I keep running to the toilet to check to see if I was bleeding.

[Gillis]

Thank youHope everything goes well for you.

[HollieW]

I read somewhere implantation bleeds occur in around 25% of pregnancies so common but not certain. My implantation bleed didn't happen until I was over 5 weeks pregnant last time. Every pregnancy is different but appreciate you will always compare xx

[Catlady12345 in reply to HollieW]

Ah thanks, that’s interesting to know. I think I’m just having one of those days where the hormones have the better of me and I just feel really negative and like it hasn’t worked! Will just try and relax and see what Sunday brings xx

[HollieW]

Oh I am with you 100% my hormones are all over the place. Thank goodness it is testing day for me tomorrow so I can be put out of my misery one way or the other. Good luck for Sunday xx

[Catlady12345 in reply to HollieW]

Oh good luck tomorrow lovely, let me know how you get on. Have you had many symptoms or feeling positive? Fingers crossed for you.

My husband doesn’t know what to do with me today as I’m just a wreck! I feel so bad on him now as I’ve convinced him it’s not worked so he looks so sad 😞 xx

[HollieW]

It is so hard and men just do not know what we go through as much as they try! I have had some cramping, constipation, sore boobs, headache, lower back pain and nausea. However, I know these can be side effects of medication and your period about to arrive so I'm not kidding myself it means anything. I just need to know now! I hope the next few days get better for you. It is a roller coaster of emotions x