**Update 2*** Sensitive post.... Advice needed....

[Buttons21]

Today I woke up with cramps (I have been cramping for a few days) and have been have dark red bleeding. Not enough to fill pad but enough to show up on liner and wiping at bathroom. Certainly enough to think game over. I’m 9dp5dt and my official test date is tomorrow. Just before I reached for the wine bottle I thought I’d do a test and this appeared. Do you think it’s been a chemical? I’m still cramping and there is def blood when I wipe and spotting on my liner.

**update*** 2 tests done this morning and both still positive. Still bleeding slightly so being very cautious with the result. I had lletz twice in the last year (Oct last treatment) and am wondering if the bleeding is from my cervix with the cyclogest. Who knows. Will see what the weekend brings.

*** update 2... Sadly game over. Tested again today and 2 negative tests. Heartbroken but will get there....

[Cinderella5]

Definitely dont grab the wine just yet. Some ladies do have some bleeding still have a successful pregnancy. I would re-test tomorrow and see how things look, this could just be some implantation bleeding. Fingers crossed for you!xx

[Buttons21 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you for your reply. My head is such a mess and don’t want to tell my hubby incase it gets his hopes up 🙈. I hate this process....xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Buttons21]

I would tell hubby so you can be there for each other! I meant to say that's quite a convincing BFP there.....only time will tell as you say but meantime that line is there, congrats.xx

[MamaVe in reply to Cinderella5]

Well, the test pic does seems like a full-proof BFP. It should be as long as the OP spotted it well within the timeframe. Evaps do not get this dark either and there's no other possibility than a BFP. I totally agree with you that she should test again and preferably in 2-3 days not right away if she wants to just re-check and reassure herself she is pregnant.

[Buttons21 in reply to MamaVe]

Thank you for you reply. Will need to test tomorrow for clinic as it’s my otd but will see after that... 😘

[MamaVe in reply to Buttons21]

That's even better. Wish you luck then... not that you need it considering the test pic but then that's the only thing I thought you'll need for tomorrow. I'm pretty sure everything will be alright. Just stay positive, there's still no reason for you to hover on the otherwise. Will look forward to your update then.

[Buttons21 in reply to MamaVe]

Hey, repeated this morning and still holding on. Will see what the weekend brings.xx

[Hidden in reply to Buttons21]

Great news. A chemical would mean you had a positive that then turns negative, so that's that ruled out.

Keep positive and somehow relaxed. Xxx

[Buttons21 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you. Cautiously happy. At least we are still in the game. 🤞🤞🤞

[Lynnr54 in reply to Buttons21]

It’s definitely a good strong line. When you phone your clinic then mention the blood to them to see what they say. There are plenty of stories on here about ladies who bleed and go on to have successful pregnancies. Hopefully you’re one of them.

[Buttons21 in reply to Lynnr54]

Thank you 😘

[Buttons21 in reply to Buttons21]

Sadly day 3 after first positive and it’s negative today...

[jm22]

I didn't start bleeding with my chemical until after the test went negative, I think other ladies on here have bled and everything has been ok. I would test again in a few days, good luck xox

[Buttons21 in reply to jm22]

Thank you for replying so quickly. You can imagine my panic and confusion. Will see what tonight/tomorrow brings.....

[jm22 in reply to Buttons21]

Really hope u get some reassurance in the next few days xo

[Kempton]

Looks like a positive to me! I had period like cramping and spotting right when my period was due and it turned out my FET had been a success!

I just found out I'm pregnant again and I cramped for days. I knew it was unusal as my cramps normal last a few hours so I took a test when AF didn't arrive.

Cramps is definitely a good sign so hold off the wine!

[Buttons21 in reply to Kempton]

I’ve resisted the temptation. It’s going to be a long few days....x

[destiny121]

I think it’s a positive... line looks a bit strong to me... ohhhhh I really do hope so xx

[Buttons21 in reply to destiny121]

🤞. Trying so hard to be positive tonight. Will wait and see what the next few days bring.xx

[Tanwa in reply to Buttons21]

Baby Dust... truck loads 🤞🤞

[ICSIBaby86]

That looks a good strong line too me, I’ve noticed lots of women having early bleeding through ivf it seems quite common ! All the best to you ❤️. Xxxx

[Buttons21 in reply to ICSIBaby86]

Thank you...xx

[Tugsgirl]

Of course a chemical is possible but lots of women bleed in the tww and even in early pregnancy and all is fine! It’s probably more common than you think, not normal but common! And the cramping is completely normal. Retest in the morning and then ring your clinic with your result. Good luck xx

[Buttons21 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thank you xx

[emmab178]

I had cramping with my bfp. Felt i was sure that my period was coming so tested early and all worked out perfectly. Hang in there x

[Buttons21 in reply to emmab178]

Thank you 😘

[tiger-cub]

I think hold d wine bottle and just rest

[Buttons21 in reply to tiger-cub]

It’s def stowed away in the fridge at the moment....xx

[Cinderella5]

That all sounds promising! Fingers crossed for you!xx

[Buttons21 in reply to Cinderella5]

😘 thank you xx

[Jonesjp]

Fingers crossed hunny as this looks like a BFP and as the ladies have all said there is lots on here that bleed in the 2ww 😘

[Buttons21 in reply to Jonesjp]

Thank you. Think I’m going to be spending a fortune on tests over the next few weeks xx

[mimisquiz77]

Hi,

Some women do bleed during embryos implantation. Please do not reach for the wine yet. I think you should call your clinic for advice. But it looks very positive too me. Best of luck 🤞🤞🤞🤞💕

[Buttons21 in reply to mimisquiz77]

Thank you. I think it eased slightly so just having a lazy sofa day...xx

[mimisquiz77 in reply to Buttons21]

Very wise. Best of kuxu🤞🤞🤞🤞💕

[Niki_B]

That's a good line many congrats to you! Xxx

[Sweets1]

Crossing everything for you xxx

[Buttons21 in reply to Sweets1]

Thank you xx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Button. Try using the pessaries in your back passage, to give your front a rest. Put your feet up for a bit too. Good luck! Diane

[Buttons21 in reply to DianeArnold]

Thank you Diane. Today is a better day than yesterday so fingers crossed.xx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to Buttons21]

Hi. That’s good to hear. Diane xx

[Cinderella5]

Awww I'm so sorry buttons! Huge hugs.xx

[Buttons21 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you. It’s been a difficult morning but trying to be positive and look to the future.....xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Buttons21]

I'm glad to hear it! Allow yourself a little time to grieve and maybe try to do a few treats.....be kind to yourselves!!xx

[Buttons21 in reply to Cinderella5]

Lots of treats have been booked today. It’s tough on me but I didn’t appreciate how devastated my husband would be. That has been the most heartbreaking to see....

[Cinderella5 in reply to Buttons21]

I truly is heartbreaking to see our other halves broken. It's hard on you both! Hold onto each other tight!xx

[Kyell2]

So so sorry to see your update😔. Look after eachother until you can start planning your next move xx

[Buttons21 in reply to Kyell2]

Thank you 😘