Normally when hubby and I get a BFP I’m adamant that we don’t tell family till after 7wk scan, we always get to see a heartbeat at the 6wk one but by the 7wk scan it’s sadly always stopped.
However, maybe it was the Xmas feel but we decided to announce yesterday round the table that I was pregnant! We’ve never had such a lovely reaction as we are normally not only telling them it’s bad news but also that I had been pregnant but not no longer was. So yesterday was truly lovely and no matter what happens will be a day I will treasure forever for the happy memories! Everyone cried and was so happy for us. I thought it may add more pressure in the run up to my scan, but actually its been the complete opposite as now don’t have to come up with excuses why I’m not drinking etc, and I know they will all give us so much support what ever the outcome. For now I’m still feeling chilled, we are not having the early 6wk scan but will be approx 7wk4days by the time of my first scan of which will be a hugely crucial time.
But for now I can happily feel pregnant knowing that our news made Xmas that little more special this year and hope that the positivity and calmness remains and our pumpkin keeps growing stronger and stronger 🎃💪🏻💕