Had my first scan yesterday at 8 weeks and I keep replaying over and over again the nurse saying it’s not good news.
I was so sure this was my time, I hadn’t prepared for bad news. I have done nothing but cry since the appointment. I’ve had no bleeding or spotting at all but I suppose my boobs stopped hurting a week or so ago.
I know time will heal but at 43 I don’t have time on my side.
I have to go back next week and they’ll decide how to manage it I guess.
I am broken😢
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Oh no Sharon, how awful. I am so sorry to read this. Sending you huge hugs xx
I am so sorry 😢 I can’t even begin to imagine what you are going through. To have failed cycles is bad enough without getting a positive then more heart break. I wish I could find the words to make this better for you. We are all here for you if you need absolutely anything. You can get through this. Huge hugs xxx
I am so very sorry to hear your news. Truly devastated for you both. I had bad news at my 6 week scan last year, but as I had heavy bleeding @4.5 weeks I was prepared to hear the worst. You on the other hand had no indication of anything being wrong it must have been an horrific shock to you both. 😢 All I can say is time is the best healer & you will get through this. For now you need to grieve this huge loss. I really hope you have plenty of support around you & am thinking of you during this awful time xoxo
So sorry for your loss. Give yourself time to grieve and i hope you have the support you need around you. Wouldnt wish it on anyone. I cant even imagine how you must be feeling. Thinking of you and sending hugs xx
Hi im so sorry it is the worse feeling I have been there twice but at my 12w scan totally devastating hearing the words. I still play back in my head sometimes it still upsets me. I'm getting an early scan with this pregnancy and tbh I'm anxious and scared of the actual procedure of them turning and saying the same thing I'm just emotionally getting over the last one from July. I felt the same way with age not being on my side aswel im 38.
Thanks for all your support ladies. I know lots of you have been through this as well. Can I ask what happens now given I’ve not bled? I’m back at the clinic next Tuesday.
And (I know this might seem too soon) but I need to know there is a future-when can I try again??
Have your clinic referred you to the early pregnancy unit? My doctor said that I can begin my next FET on my first day 1 once the miscarriage is over. Obviously being physically ready doesn’t mean you would want to start again that quickly necessarily xx
Im so sorry to read this. I hope you have lots of support around you.x
I’m so very sorry you’ve had such terrible news. When it happened to me at my 12 week scan I was referred to EPU and I went the next day and they talked me through my options as I hadn’t bled either. Right now you probably feel numb and nothing anyone can say is going to help at all. Sending love and thinking of you x
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