**sad news **

No heartbeat at 12 week scan 🙁 baby stopped growing at 9 weeks . We are heartbroken, so now we have to decide on whether to have medical management or wait for natural miscarriage . This Ivf is so hard! We’ve got 3 frozen embryos but don’t think I can go through this again 😪

[genten]

I'm so so sorry.

I cannot even begin to imagine the pain and heartbreak.

Sending you lots of love. Xxxx

[Hidden]

Oh my I’m so sorry for your news.😢I’m devastated for you. Thinking of you during this difficult time xoxo

[Cinderella5]

Im so so sorry. Lots of love and hugs to you both.xx

[Autumnmoon]

I'm truly sorry this happened to you can only imagine your heartbreak sending love and hoping you have lots of it surrounding you x

[Masha111]

Im so sorry for your news. Thinking of you x

[Hidden]

Sweetheart I am so terribly sorry to read this. Sending the biggest hug xxx

[MrsH007]

So sorry and sad to read this. 🙏🏻

[destiny121]

So so sorry to read this... life can be so cruel... take care of yourself my love xxx

[Lou7744]

I’m so so sorry to read this. My heart breaks for you both. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

[cryst4l]

So so sorry. Its such a cruel process. Take the time you and reflect on the positive - that you did actually get pregnant, so it can work. Dont give up. Sending you hugs 💕

[Tezzabell86]

So sorry for your loss xxx

[Scott1986]

Hi, I've never commented on anything on here before but this is exactly what happened to us in August. It is completely heartbreaking, all I can say is in the next few days and weeks do whatever feels right for you, talk with your partner & try and stick together. Don't worry about the future now. I don't know if it's something you'd consider but I've recently started counselling which has really helped me start to process the whole experience of ivf and loss.

Take care of yourself and although I'm not totally there yet, I promise you it does get a little bit easier each day.

Thinking of you and your partner, if you need anything/to chat please just say!

Sending lots of love x x

[ShinyStar]

Totally heartbreaking and I am sending you all my love, so so sorry, stay strong xxxxxx

[ICSI2018]

So so sorry this has happened. Sending hugs xx

[Jenjen84]

So so sorry to hear this.. Such devastating news for you both.. So much love coming your way xxx

[wemma83]

So sorry sweetheart, sending lots of love to you both xxx

[Dunla]

I’m so sorry, heart breaking news. Focus on getting through the next few days and weeks for now. Thinking of you both xx

[Lou9]

So sorry to read this xx

[kirstyblue]

My heart breaks for you. Sending you lots of love x

[Hidden]

Sending you hugs and sympathy, truly so sorry for you xx

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve just found out my baby is gone and I’m now waiting to miscarry. This is my second miscarriage and I’m just not sure if I can go through anymore heartbreak. Take good care and give yourselves all the time you need to get through this terrible time. Sending love ❤️

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Sending you love x

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

I feel exactly the same , it’s a hard one deciding when enough is enough isn’t it. We spend all our time trying to get pregnant then when we finally do we are walking on air and overjoyed , thinking we’ve really done it this time . Then the total shock of losing that miracle and having to face the future without your baby . I know miscarriages are common , I know lots of people sadly suffered then but they haven’t gone down Ivf route and likely conceive afterwards whereas it’s so expensive for us to keep trying . I’ll m not sure where you go from here like yourself. Sending you lots love 💕 xxxxx

[SeaChange]

Oh hun, that is so awful. I'm really sorry to hear that you have to go through this.

IVF is so so hard, sending lots of love and thoughts your way.

xx

[Hidden]

Oh no. I am heartbroken reading this. I really hope you can find the strength to try again at some point. For now you have to focus on healing. Lots of love xx

[Apples2665]

So sorry you’re going through this. Heartbreaking. Take your time and do what’s best for you. Sending you lots of love x

[Tugsgirl]

I’m so very sorry. At times this is unbelievably hard and painful. It will be raw for a while. I hope you and Hubby have lots of love and support to get you through this xx

[vic77]

Oh no hunny I am so so sorry and sadly I know this only too well.we opted for surgery but think about what is best for u..take time to grieve. .it doesn't feel like it but it does get easier..you will never forget your baby xxx

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry to read this,it really is devastating and there are no words that can make up for the loss you feel. Take each day at a time,there's no rush to decide if or when to try again xx

[Hidden]

I have been through this finding out at the scan baby had stopped growing at 9w no reason why I’ve had a blighted ovum too, if you ever need to talk. I’m so sorry your having to go through this x big hugs

[Hollibob]

Sorry to see this news x

[Kempton]

So sorry to read this. No advice but just wanted to say take care if yourself. Ivf is so bloody hard. X

[Noobs]

So sorry to hear this. Hopefully you’ll find the strength again💪Xx

[Hidden]

Thank you for all your kind words, We’ve been numb all day crying on and off. We’ve decided on surgery as I can’t go through the upset of passing the baby myself. You are all a tower of strength and understanding and I wish each and everyone of you all the best on your journeys 😘 x

[Clover5]

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s so cruel to get the 12 week point to find that out. Sending you love 🙏💕 xX

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry for your loss xxx

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry, sending you big hugs at this difficult time x

[RR11]

So sorry to hear your sad news. Look after each other. Sending big hugs xx

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's truly heart breaking to read posts like these. Thinking of you both at this difficult time. xx

[Core]

So sorry to hear this news, can't even begin to imagine what you must be feeling xx

[silverlini]

I’m so sorry to read this 😢 devastated for you. Sending love xx

[Devj]

So sorry to read this hun. Thinking if you at this really hard time ❤️ Xxx

[everhopeful83]

So sorry to read this❤️xx

[hifer]

So so sorry to hear this. Awful news. Hoping you have lots of support during this very difficult time x

[Orla9298]

I’m so sorry, thinking of you and sending love xxx

[Snez84]

I’m so sorry to read your post, Lollypop. I’m going through the exact same thing after a 10 week scan on Saturday showed our baby stopped growing at 8 weeks. I know how much you’re hurting and feel exactly the same as you - how can I go through this again? You may never forget this but you will get through it, I promise. Just make sure you look after each other xxx

[Littleflower82]

So sorry to read this news, absolutely heartbreaking. Thinking of you xx

[magda22]

So sorry, much love to you xxx

[Melissa11]

So sorry to hear this news, thinking of you. 💕💕

[Sunset81]

So so sorry xx

[Flimzee]

I am so sorry. Why does life have to be so cruel? Sending you love and strength xxx

[Missy_22]

I’m so sad to read this. I feel your pain. No words will comfort you in just so sorry xxxx

[City74]

Oh that is so sad. Am so sorry for your devastating news. xx

[Lizzielizzielizzie]

Oh I’m so sorry. This is awful.

[Shirazlover2013]

😢 it’s just not fair. I’m so sorry this has happened for you and your OH. Look after yourselves the best you can xx

[Dreamingofbaby]

So sorry Hun. That devastating for u. It is so hard. Big hugs for u xx

[Lucylu_88]

So very sorry for you. Be kind to yourself. Sending love xx