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Just had a call i wasn't hoping to get.

My last remaining frosty didnt survive the thawing process.

Am absolutely gutted. This last 5 weeks of preparation have been a complete waste of time.

Im angry upset and totally at a loss.

Im gonna have a break now from the IVF and start enjoying my life again. Weve booked to go on holiday next month so will get some well deserved r and r.

Lots of love

Lynsay xx

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Oh I’m really sorry to read this. How absolutely devastating for you. The holiday sounds like what you need. I wish I had better advice but wanted to wish you the best. Perhaps the break will do you good, it can get a bit much sometimes. xoxo 😘

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry Lynsay! So gutted for you! I hope you manage to enjoy some time away. Lots of love & hugs.xxx

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Penders

Oh Lynsay I'm really sorry to read this. A holiday will do you the wold of good. I hope you have a nice time away to rest and regroup. Big hugs xxx

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genten

So so sorry to hear this. It's awful.

You definitely need some r and r, even just to get away.

Thinking of you.xxx

Sending so much love to you. Hope you get some rest and relaxation on your break, you deserve it ❤️

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Devj

So sorry to hear this, absolutely gutted for you. I can only imagine how heartbroken you’re feeling right now. A holiday sounds amazing and really hope you have the best time xxx

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magda22

Oh so sorry to hear this, truly gutting :( massive hugs and love for you. Take some rest and time off xxxx

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Dunla

Oh Lynsey, that’s devastating news. I’m sorry. I think you’re right to get some time away and have a much deserved rest and break from it all. Hoping you can enjoy your holiday as best you can. Lots of love xx

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Masha111

Oh no Lynsay. Im so sorry to read your news. I feel for you 😔not surprised you are feeling all these emotions. Enjoy your break and rest from it all. Wish you nothing but happiness especially after what you have been through xx

So sorry to read this Big hugs xx

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KJLee

So so sorry to read this 😞 this process is so bloody hard. Don’t think of the last 5 weeks as a waste, you’ll come out the other end of this a stronger person. A break and some time away will be just what you need, hope you and your OH enjoy the time away together. Sending best wishes xx

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Tugsgirl

I’m sorry. We lost one when we only had two left last time and I was really really upset so I know it must be much worse for you. I hope you can enjoy doing “normal” things for a while and that you have a great holiday! You deserve it xx

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Slewi

So sorry to read this 😢

Definitely would agree that having a break and a holiday to look forward to is the best thing to do in your situation. I had 5 good quality embryos not thaw and every time I prepared for transfer to be told it was cancelled was just disheartening and seemed so cruel! I had a few month break and enjoyed the odd night out before started on round 2.

Good luck to you xx🍀

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Orla9298

Oh I’m so sorry, that’s really gutting. I hope you can switch off on the holiday xx

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Mifkipi

Oh im so sorry to be reading this, it must be heartbreaking. Enjoy your well deserved holiday x

Sorry to hear this. Life is so unfair at times. Just relax and take time out. Take each day as it comes. Enjoy your holiday hun xx

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kelsbels88

Oh Lynsay im so so sorry. This is awful. I hope you enjoy your holiday and have a breaks lots of love xxx

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Mrsgled1982

Thank you all for your kind words. It does mean a lot to me. I know each and everyone one of you have your own battled to face.

I feel empty and lost. I should be nurturing my embryo willing it to grow but sadly it wasn't ment to be.

Im going to book my follow up appointment. And hopefully try again sometime in the new year.

Xxx

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Sending you love. You take care xx

Oh I am so sorry to read this. Sending you big hugs. I hope you really enjoy your holiday and are able to find the strength to do what you want to do when you come back xxx

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Lou7744

So, so sorry to read this. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

Oh I’m gutted for you. I’m so so sorry. 😢

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Autumnmoon

Oh no really sorry x hope your holiday helps you to heal and come to terms with this x

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hifer

Oh you poor thing. You definitely need a holiday. This whole thing is so unbelievably stressful. Sending lots of love x

I'm so sorry to read this, I can only imagine how devastated you must be. I hope you can enjoy your holiday and come back fighting fit in the New Year. Take care of yourselves. xx

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andromedae9

Hi just wanted to say I'm sorry to read this and sending you lots of hugs. I experienced something similar to this last spring when i had prepared and started to take loads of medication and also prepared mentally for a transfer and then the cycle had to be cancelled.

It sounds as if a holiday is just what you need and hopefully you will be able to switch off from IVF for a bit.

Take care

xx

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