Dreading OTD

It's our OTD on Wednesday. Been feeling hopeful since transfer but today I have had some light spotting. Trying to think positive but in my heart it feels like the beginning of the end. After 4 previously failed cycles, this is our last go.

OH has a big operation on Wednesday (very bad timing) so I will be dropping him off at the hospital early in the morning and then going to clinic for blood test. So worried it's going to be negative and I will be on my own when I get the result. Going to be stressing that OH is ok too. Dreading Wednesday!

[Blondie_81]

Oh poor you - wishing you lots of luck - you never know. Hope the op for your partner goes well too - couldn’t have been worse timing. I really feel for you. We just had our 2nd failed FET and 4th failure in total so know how real the anxiety is. Hope you get your miracle - stay strong. Everyone’s here to support you xxx

[Hidden in reply to Blondie_81]

Thank you Blondie! Sorry to hear of your recent failed FET. Here's hoping we all get our miracle xx

[Tugsgirl]

Spotting isn’t always a bad sign. Wishing you lots of luck for otd. I hope all goes well with your Hubby’s op and that when he comes around he comes around to good news xx

[Hidden in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thanks, me too. Was concerned the spotting was the start of AF as had normal pre AF symptoms but seems to be holding off for now xx

[Masha111]

Hi

Well done for getting this far on an already difficult journey.

Sorry to hear of your OT having his op and that too on the day of your result. i hope he will be ok, he is in the best place.

I too was alone when i got my result. DH couldnt get the time off work. I was so nervous but like you tried to keep positive.... (even though i did POAS the night before and it came back negative...) but not long after i gave my urine sample the nurse confirmed my Pregnancy. I was sooo emotional. You need to keep the hope alive. Have your heart consoling you into saying it will be good news. I know there is alot of pressure (emotional/financial etc) try not to let the stress anxiety worry nerves get the better of you.

We will be here for you (regardless) i pray that you really get the news you have longed for. Good luck with OH operation too. You are a strong brave woman and you will fight to get your baby xx

[Hidden in reply to Masha111]

Thank you. I think it's a self-defense mechanism where I feel like it's hard to stay positive after so many failures but I have given myself a talking to and will do my best to believe it might happen. Congratulations on your BFP!! Xx

[wemma83]

Sending lots of positive thoughts and prayers to you 💕 xxx

[Kari55]

Fingers crossed for a positive result xx

[Hidden]

Here's hoping it's the result you want all around. As Tugsgirl said, spotting isn't always a bad thing. Xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thank you. Just had the fear it was the start of AF but she seems to be holding off for now xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Yay. Hang on in there x

[SeaChange]

That’s awful timing of the op! Fingers crossed it all goes smoothly and the recovery is swift!

I have my OTD on Wednesday too! I haven’t felt anything so not sure what to make of that so far. As others have said, spotting isn’t always bad (could be implantation!) hopefully it’s BFPs all round. Xxx

[Hidden in reply to SeaChange]

Thank you! Best of luck for Wednesday. The painful 2ww is nearly over for us xx

[Autumnmoon]

That all sounds very stressful here's hoping all is well and will give you both a boost fingers crossed it's a positive for you x

[Hidden]

I want to wish you the best for tomorrow & truly hope it’s good news. I had what I thought was period cramping 3 days before my period was due & it was implantation! They are very similar ☹️ 🤞🏻 for you it’s implantation bleeding.

Know that we are all here for you when you need a chat xoxo

[kirstyblue]

Wishing you the best of luck xx

[Osayuwa]

Hello dear, just like others have said, please relax and be calm. Wishing you all the very best and for your husband too.

[genten]

I'm hoping your spotting is a good sign and not bad. You may still get your positive.

Poor other half! And you obviously not great timing.

Hoping all goes well for both of you. Xx

[Cinderella5]

Best of luck for testing tomorrow, it is very scary! Hope your OH gets on ok with surgery too!xx

[Hidden in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you x