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So I have a BFP after 3 years of infertility. I am still in shock and want to be excited but I am so so nervous as only 3 weeks since transfer and so worried something will go wrong, I can't quite believe we are this lucky finally, and so many couples have been trying so much longer than us. I had a minor bleed which seemed to be implantation, and still having some cramps. Any tips to stop being so worried ?!?!

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Emma04

No tips on not being worried but just wanted to say a huge congratulations on your BFP and enjoy that feeling your worked hard to get there xxxx

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Noobs

Congratulations😀. Just take each week at a time is all I can say. It’s worked for me so far.xx

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destiny121

Congratulations.... just take each day as it comes and see each day as a milestone as lil baba is growing so rapidly... and just think that you are pregnant and that is possible xx

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Luna11

Congratulations that’s great news!!🎉 I’m in the same boat, trying to be positive but worried all the same!! Xx

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Capps8 in reply to Luna11

Congratulations to you too. Excitement and nerves this is true!

Huge congratulations. I’m really happy for you. Enjoy this moment it’s magical ✨

As for tips my best advice is to take your pregnancy one day at a time & try to enjoy each day as it comes, you’ve gone through a lot to get there 😘( I’m 6 weeks 5 days pregnant after TTC over 7 years)

Wishing you the best with your pregnancy xoxo

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Capps8 in reply to

Oh wow congratulations to you too after so many years! I’m 6 weeks tomorrow. Can’t wait to get to 12 weeks and then I think it might feel real!

Congrats xx

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Sibbo84

Congrats! Again, no real advice I’m afraid. I 6 weeks now and worrying until we have our scan next week. I was given advice from other ladies on here just to take each day as it comes and to enjoy the time being pregnant xx

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Capps8 in reply to Sibbo84

Thank you, congratulations to you too. Nice to have he support on here everyone at the same stage feels the same!

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Sweets1

Congratulations on you BFP xx

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genten

Congratulations 💐

No words of advice that you probably haven't heard but just generally trying to relax, keep yourself busy but don't do anything strenuous.

I've haven't got this far but I can imagine the level of worry and anxiety.

Try to enjoy your wonderful news, anyone who's ever been on this journey deserves every bit of happiness. Xxx

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Capps8 in reply to genten

Thank you so much really kind words and wishing you success in your TTC journey x

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genten in reply to Capps8

Thank you so much. 💖

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Apples2665

Congratulations! Xx

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Strawberrychaos

Congratulations on your pregnancy!! 😁.

I had a minor bleed at implantation then I had cramping until about 8 weeks so that can be normal. Unfortunately I don’t think you stop being worried but it gets less intense when you’ve had your scans. We booked in for several private scans and bought a fetal heart monitor just to check. But after 7 years of infertility we needed the reassurance. Luckily it was all fine and we have an amazing 12 week old boy xx

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Capps8 in reply to Strawberrychaos

That’s amazing new congratulations on you little boy. Nice to hear cramping still at this stage can be normal. Every pain I freak out a little! I’m 6 weeks Tomo and have my first scan in 2 weeks!

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LKT1

You’re a mum now you will be worrying for at least the next eighteen years ❤️. Congratulations and just relax as much as possible xx

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Capps8 in reply to LKT1

Haha good point thank you!

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precioce

Not sure you ever stop worrying but congratulations and I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy.xx

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Capps8 in reply to precioce

Thank you x

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CC2018

Congratulations! We were the same, nearly 3 years and nothing until we had our first round of ivf. I'm nearly 16 weeks now and the worry doesn' t get any less but I think once you have the first scan you will feel it' s real and that made me feel better x

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Capps8 in reply to CC2018

Thank you. Good advice! 2 weeks until that scan!

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