Quiet a personal question

[Freckles28]

Since my transfer i havent done u no what the “deed”..... just wanting to ask as husband asking and i feel cheeky asking the hospital!! I also dont want to risk anything but does anyone know when u are allowed

[AJJ123]

My clinic said I could in the two week wait and we did it after a few days. Apparently it makes no difference and some research suggests it can improve implantation prospects. I know u don’t need help with this part now, but if ur ready for it, and it doesn’t hurt then enjoy yourself. The only thing is the darn pessaries they are bloody offputting - there’s no remedy for this xx

[Freckles28 in reply to AJJ123]

Aww thanks for telling me! I was googling and some said no orgasms and stuff i thought aw my god this will be hard. I just think some women dont no and they continue to fall pregnant. Xxx

[AJJ123 in reply to Freckles28]

Without being tmi you may end up o’ing in your sleep anyway if u leave it too long - if u have a normal s drive.

It’s so important to maintain a healthy relationship and that’s includes the sexual aspect xx

[Freckles28 in reply to AJJ123]

Thats it like the hubby is keep askingn now. Oh my god in my sleep! He works away half the week the neighbours would think i had a bloody man in hahaha x

[AJJ123 in reply to Freckles28]

Haha, well do whatever your comfortable with xx

[Lizzielizzielizzie]

My clinic said no in the two week wait. In the end we waited until our first scan.

[Freckles28 in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie]

Thank u for letting me know. Its really daunting. They havent really told me anything x

[Hope4usall]

I know you're question is applying to the two week wait, but when going through a donor cycle, is there any time you're meant to abstain from 'the deed' or use protection in the lead up to transfer?? I'm sure I remember during my last cycle we had to use condoms (last cycle was ivf with own eggs and not donor though) but is that something to do with the egg collection??

Sorry I have a memory like a sieve!! 😜

[Freckles28 in reply to Hope4usall]

Aww thank u for ur advise. 😊 hope all is well woth u xxx

[E_05]

My clinic advise not to ‘do it’ in the tww and if you’ve had previous miscarriages to wait until your viability scan x

[genten]

My clinic didn't state this but I would personally avoid in the 2ww. Xxx

[MrsH007]

My clinic said there is no risk at any time or in the 2ww so we did the day after transfer and we were successful (only 9 weeks) research says it can help with implantation and remember some people who fall pregnant naturally wouldnt even know at this point! Xxxx

[Cinderella5]

My clinic says no to this....the advice was "complete vaginal rest"! Ha ha ha Clinics seem to vary with advice but its only a short time to hang off for so worth it!xx