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Devastated πŸ’”

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Looks like I will lose my precious little one. At my first scan it was not good news. The sac was very small and empty. I have been booked in for a repeat scan next week but I had a very bad bleed with extreme pain on the first day of our holiday and ended up in hospital Saturday night. They did a repeat scan on Monday and although sac had grown it was still empty.

I still have symptoms which had I not had the scan on Monday I might have assumed meant things were progressing but I know that it is more than likely that my precious little one will leave me soon.

Trying very hard to enjoy some of the sunshine at the coast this week with the inevitable hanging over me. Sometimes I find myself just crying 😒

Need a break for a while but with my age hanging over me it’s hard to know what to do. I know I won’t be able to try again for a while.

With 2 embryos now not developed properly I can only assume my eggs are not good.

The heartbreak is devastating πŸ’”πŸ˜­

Much love to you all ❀️

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Cinderella5

Oh gosh Im so sorry you're facing the possibility of another loss! This is so so cruel, have a good cry....there is nothing wrong with that! I really hope you get better news at your next scan!! Big hugs, thinking of you. Lots of love.xxx

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Masha111

Im really sorry to hear this. Sending all my love. Thinking of all of you in this situation. Please dont give up hope xxx

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Sweets1

Sending lots of hugs xx

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genten

This is heartbreaking, so sorry for your difficult news.

No words really but you are in my thoughts. XXXX

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destiny121

Absolutely heart breaking..... im so so sorry this has happened to you....take care of yourself my lovely xx

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Lucylu_88

So very sorry to read this. I hope that something good does happen. Be kind to yourself. Lots of love xx

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Penders

I'm so sorry to read this. Sending you lots of love and big hugs xxx

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misswinky34

πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’• I’m sorry xxx

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Leo2017

So sorry to read this, my heart goes out to you!! I’ve been there - now with 3 miscarriages - I’m also feeling age is against me and it’s my eggs!!

When you’re feeling strong enough ask your clinic about recurrent miscarriage tests!! My clinic have just started that process for me, It might be worth you asking!!

Sending you luv & strength for the coming days!! xx

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Mantaray75

So so sorry. Hold out until the next scan though. I had a massive bleed with clots and a scan showing an empty sac. I'm now 15 weeks tomorrow.

x

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Not holding on to any hope as there was no progress in a week. It would have to be a miracle.

All the best to you xx

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emmab178

So sorry to hear this news. Big hugs x

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So sorry to read this. I really hope you are some progress at the next scan xxx

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Msky

I really am sorry to hear this it's heartbreaking just to know what you are going through I could not imagine. The pain is excruciating and devastating it's like a blow to the chest it's so painful. I am praying for you. My heart goes out to you through this journey.

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Im so sorry for what you are going through. Really hoping for better news at your next scan. xoxo

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romaluna2015

I’m so sorry your going through this . I’ve been through blighted ovum myself and that was the worst loss I’ve had.

Here if you need a chat and lots of love xx

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Cindy1214

Hello there. How are you doing now? I am so sorry to hear about your loss. This is really a difficult time for you. I have never been through this. But still, I can feel your pain. I understand how much hard it is to accept it. You are a brave woman. You are handling it well. I wish you all the luck. Don't lose hope, my friend. Never give up on this. You will have your own babies one day. Just stay strong and positive. My best wishes are with you. More power to you. Love and luck on your way.

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