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So upset ! I thought this was it this time around I really did my husband and I both did . We did our first transfer just a few months ago had purchased 6 eggs three we lost they didn’t make it two didn’t work first transfer had our last transferred on the 28th I’ve been feeling cramps all week and not to sound gross even had those white dots on my ariolas I was sooo convinced only to find out we aren’t I took two pregnancy tests yesterday and this am and only shows 1 line going to the doctors for my blood test this morning I’m so upset but part of me still hopes we are wrong . If we aren’t we now have to Waite months as our insurance only covers one ivf cycle per calandre year we already had 2 and paid one plus the egg purchase at the same time as trying to buy a home in New York :( I’m so upset 😭

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genten

I'm so sorry to hear, I can only imagine the heartbreak.

Xx

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S1230 in reply to genten

Sitting at th doc now to do my blood test :( thank you 🙏 still some hope I’m wrong

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genten in reply to S1230

I hope so too. Xx

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andylins

I'm so sorry, honey..Feeling lack of words to make you feel a bit better. The thing I know for sure is that home cheapies aren't too reliable when detecting early pregnancy. I'd more count on the official beta testing which is hopefuly this morning for you.. Sometimes light crampings and spotting might be the good sign..Do keep sane for another couple of hours..I'm praying for you and have every bone in my body crossed for you xx

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S1230 in reply to andylins

Thank you I still have some hope couldn’t stop praying this morning I hope those tests are wrong ... it been a long journey at the doctors now :/

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Niki_B

Oh hun I'm really sorry there nothing I can really say, but look after yourself if it definately is a negative. It's just so heartbreaking and not fair sounds like you've been on this sometimes cruel journey for a long time 😓 I'm so very sorry please take care of yourself until you decide your next step xxx

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S1230 in reply to Niki_B

Thank you I’m at the docs now to do my blood work I hope 🤞 truly that it is wrong that I’m wrong with the home tests but inside I know there prob right . Thank you so much !

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