Pain after orgasm 2ww

[Sausage11]

Anyone had really bad cramps after orgasm? I’m talking really really bad pain. I’m scared I’ve ruined things by having sex now that I feel like this. I know it’s my uterus contracting and that’s normally what happens after an orgasm but this pain is INTENSE.

[lucylob]

I had this once on my 2ww I wouldn’t worry about it too much! If it could do harm they would advise you not to have sex ! Xx

[Sausage11 in reply to lucylob]

Thank you for your reply 😊

[Niki_B]

I didn't think you were suppose to have sex straight after transfer and during the 2ww. Well my clinic says it's a no no. But I hope everything's ok, everything down there like your ovaries etc will be swollen so maybe that's why your having pain xx

[Sausage11 in reply to Niki_B]

Our clinic said it was fine to have sex, it’s on the sheet they’ve given me. It’s too late now anyway, just have to hope everything is ok.

[Niki_B in reply to Sausage11]

I'm sure it will be, hope the pain has gone away now xxx

[Hidden]

I don’t know much about IVF, but I don’t think you’ve ruined your chances. Perhaps it’s things just calming down from the whole procedures? I’m sure the other ladies can throw more light than me!

When women who aren’t planning a pregnancy they have sex regularly & it doesn’t prevent pregnancy occurring!

I think that if a pregnancy is viable there is very little you can do to harm it.

All the best with your 2ww hope it’s successful 😘 xoxo

[Sausage11 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you 😊💕x

[Tugsgirl]

We’re advised not to. But if your clinic say it’s fine then hopefully it is. Perhaps it’s just extra sensitive because of procedures and drugs xx

[AnnieAnnie]

Both my clinics have advised no sex during the 2ww but if yours has, then I'm sure you will be fine. Your body has been through a lot so could be from the procedures, it can take a little while for every thing to go back to normal. Wishing you luck in your 2ww xx

[Sausage11]

Thanks for the replies but not very reassuring to hear what your clinics have said now that it’s happened. I guess I was looking for reassurance but now I feel even worse!!

[Hidden]

My clinic says it’s fine to have sex, just not on day of transfer.

I reckon it’s prob just the muscles. I’m glad you felt you could do it, I’ve been putting it off as it’s a mess down there with these pessaries I’m using!

[Sausage11 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you for your message- I do the pessaries the other way- no mess and once the first ones over it’s not so bad!!

[Missy_22]

I’m sure you will be fine. Our clinic in Cyprus said no sex for 12 weeks 🙄 very hard but so far we have followed it xxxx take care

[shelley967]

I have a whole website I'm working on dedicated to this

! It truly affected the quality of my life and was even happening when I had sex dreams. I would orgasms in my sleep and be woken up by the pain. I'm still working on the website and my therapist and doctor are writing contributions. I also have a contact form on there and am available through here for support.

painafterorgasms.com

[Sausage11 in reply to shelley967]

Thanks for your reply. I’ve looked at the website after getting excited that someone could relate but sadly our symptoms are very different

[shelley967 in reply to Sausage11]

oh no! I'm sorry My pain was excruciating period cramps

[Sausage11 in reply to shelley967]

Yes a similar type of pain but the causes are very different! Mine is after I have ovulated, I’m fine the other two weeks of the month.

[Sausage11 in reply to Sausage11]

As in it is a physiological rather than a psychological issue, but thank you anyway 😊

[shelley967]

I see, I genuinely hope you find some answers and wish I could help

[Rfletcher]

My clinic advised no sex until 12 week scan if positive. It was hard but we managed it. You will just have to ask your clinic. Xx

[Sausage11]

Thanks but it worked out ok 😊 I’m 40 weeks on Monday!x

[Hidden in reply to Sausage11]

Congrats really happy it worked well for you 🙂 You’re 2 weeks ahead of me! Wishing you the best with having your baby 😍👶🏻 xoxo

[Same0508 in reply to Sausage11]

Can you say how many days before positive you felt horny..

[Same0508]

Hi... I had transfer on March 23 2020. Had severe back pain may be due to implantation I guess. Had orgasm on April 1st... Having cramps... Need to check for positive on 3rd and 5th April.

Feeling very scary whether it come spositive or not!!! Wish could have controlled my hormones... Is it normal to feel like that anyone help!!!!