Hi everyone

[Melanie13071988]

I'm Mel I lost my unborn baby at 5 weeks pregnant and it has been weeks since I found out it was failed as the sack was there but no baby but now my hgc level has gone down to 12 and I have been told i do not need to go back but I want to know if I can start trying again

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

Hi

So sorry for your loss hun.

They advise you to have a least one period before you start trying so that it's easier to date the pregnancy.

Good luck and big hugs

😘💝

[Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

That’s standard I agree but also gives your body a little time to heal. Sorry for your loss xx

[Melanie13071988]

Thank you everyone for your advice

[Sez73]

I’m so sorry to hear you lost your baby at 5weeks. I really hope you can start trying again love and really hope the stars align next time for you.

Could I possibly ask...I lost mine at just over 6wks, a week before my first scan was due. I got given no feedback whatsoever from my clinic as to why what happened happened. You mention about finding out there was a sac but sadly no baby, did your clinic scan you to be able to give you more info? I knew I was losing mine and had a week of spotting then bleeding but they just said that was normal and didn’t advise anything. Next time if the same happens I’d insist on a scan but it was the first time I’d ever got pregnant. If you’re able to give any background that would be really helpful but totally understand if you don’t want to talk about it. Take care x x

[Melanie13071988 in reply to Sez73]

No information about it and I only had little red or pinkish bleeding no pain so I was confused

[busygirl]

Sac but no development is generally called a blighted ovumn, a blighted ovumn is truly just a bad egg that didn’t develop into the fetal pole. This is somewhat different to when u see a fetal pole and then miscarry. I have had both. My blighted ovumn needed no treated but my missed miscarriage at almost seven weeks needs to be treated with meds as the HGC keeps going up and show no signs on passing on its own, my blighted ovumn just reabsorbed by my body.

Regardless, a loss is a loss and hurts either way!

[Challotte321]

Hi, I am so sorry to hear your lost baby as well. I did the first time and failed. It is very sad for me as well but I hope you can try again as soon as possible. May I ask you some questions? Did you work after you had the implementation and what have you eaten every day?

[Melanie13071988 in reply to Challotte321]

No I didn't but it was my third pregnancy I have two lovely boys

[Challotte321 in reply to Melanie13071988]

Oh sorry, I thought you did the IVF. I thought this web is talking about the IVF. Anyway, hope all best for you and your family!