Looking forward to my glass of wine tonight!

Today was OTD and confirmed BFN.

I had already come to terms with this outcome after getting a negative on a first response 2 days ago at 10dp5dt. I'm obviously very sad and disappointed at this outcome but trying to stay as positive as possible.

I have a full month off from work this summer so will enjoy my holidays to the max! I'll do lots of sport, drink lots of wine, spend quality time with hubby and just generally enjoy getting my life back until September when I'll be starting my second round of FET.

Will enjoy my first glass of wine tonight after a very long time with no alcohol and very much looking forward to that!!

I may have lost this battle but I will win the war.

Good luck to the rest of you strong ladies wherever you are in your journeys xxx

[Steph254]

Tight hugs my dear .. so enjoy the break and make that a very big glass of wine .. you absolutely deserved it! All the best in your second round ... you no doubt have the right mindset and just keep the positive vibes going !❤️

[Hidden in reply to Steph254]

Thanks hun Positivity is so important. Good luck to you too, hope you have loads and loads of fertilised embies! x

[Mrsplant]

Thats so me when i get a BFN i have a cheeky drink. We all deserve it cuz of what we all go thu xx

[Hidden in reply to Mrsplant]

Exactly! It's the first thing I decided to do! x

[Tugsgirl]

Sorry to hear you’ve had a bfn. Enjoy your wine and your break xx

[Hidden in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thanks hun. Will definitely enjoy it, been a tough couple of months xx

[Hidden]

Aww enjoy all the things you have been denying yourself

Definitely a big glass of wine asap

Sorry to hear your news but hoping you have a good recovery and back when you are ready.

Xxx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thanks lovely, the wine was delicious

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

My treat was pizza and a margerita! xxx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Fantastic! My first two weeks of hol will be spent in Tuscany so I also intend to eat a lot of pizza! xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Wow - what a place to recover. Enjoy 🍕🍕🍕🥂 xxx

[destiny121]

Ahhh sorry about your bfn... but i think you’ve got a great plan ahead and better times ahead... enjoy your hols xxx

[Hidden in reply to destiny121]

Thanks hun, definitely looking forward to hols Good luck for your OTD xx

[Rachael_]

Sorry to hear that its bfn ... enjoy your wine and your hols Xx

[Hidden in reply to Rachael_]

Thanks hun, I certainly did enjoy that wine! xx

[Hidden]

Good for you!!! Enjoy your very well deserved glass of lovely wine xxxx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thanks love it was very lovely indeed Good luck on your TWW xx

[Hidden]

So sorry Renee but you have the right attitude and spirit to succeed. That’s what I’ve always done! Taken a little break post bfn/miscarriages and found ourselves again, nice meals, holidays, basically fun and then back on it with a clear head and renewed positivity. Enjoy your yummy vino tonight! Best wishes for the future xxx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thanks lovely, it definitely makes a difference to have a nice plan ahead and get back to doing things I love. We need it in this journey! xx

[Mifkipi]

Sorry to hear about the bfn. Keep up with the positive vibes I'm sure you will win the war soon xx

[Hidden in reply to Mifkipi]

Thanks hun, I'm looking forward to my victory dance already xx

[Mifkipi in reply to Hidden]

You have the best attitude to fight this war xx

[Cinderella5]

Excellent attitude you have there! Im gald to hear that you have some lovely plans ahead with hubby. As hard as a BFN is I think its important to try to get back to normal life and enjoy some of the things that you've been missing out on! Hope the wine went down well!!xx

[Hidden in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you hun It's also nice to no longer be in the tww and to finally know what's happening with my body (even if it is BFN). The wine was yum xx