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I had a blood test today but I decided to do a urine test instead because I already knew it didn’t work. I have had fairly heavy bleeding for the last two days. I emailed my clinic who advised me to continue with meds. Feeling so low. I’ve had 6 embryos inside me (4 fresh and 2 frozen) and all have failed. I wonder what I need to do to make this work for me. Feel like I’m being punshed. Yesterday my sister in law gave birthday to my niece. When I held her I just cried.

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I'm so sorry to see that this cycle didn't work Sweetheart, bloody gutted for you. I know it's bad timing but I hope you enjoy your new niece while your taking time to heal. I felt like you when my SIL had my nephews but those boys have honestly given me so much strength during my darkest times. I really hope you stay strong, fight on & somehow get a precious baby. Lots of love to you xx

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Wishfully

Oh I am so sorry to hear this, how heartbreaking 💔 Sending you enormous hugs xx

Is your consultant able to offer you any further testing or change anything in the process for your next transfer? I hope you get some answers and the positive outcome you so thoroughly deserve x

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cryst4l

Im really sorry to hear this rainbowhope. Take some time out before you consider the next step. If you can have some counselling that may help too. Enjoy the time if you can with your niece. You really will have that lovely bond and learn to love her regardless of what we are going through. Big hugs sent your way xx

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Tugsgirl

Oh I’m so sorry to read this. Bfns are crushing and cruel. I’d just like to add that given the circumstances it was so brave of you to see your new niece yesterday. I hope you’ll be able to enjoy her xx

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elle80

Sorry to hear this. Big loves xx

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that, its tough having mulitple failures! Sending massive hugs.xx

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Caza2009

So sorry to hear your news! Sending you lots of love xxx

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angellllll

Hey, I am extremely sorry to hear about your failed cycle. I can understand how much devastating that must have been. However, don't worry and don't lose hope. I am sure God can never punish His own creation. It is just that people on infertility journey have to go through a very tough time. I myself am on the same boat as yours. Therefore, I can understand how this all must be like. My case, however, is much more worst. Doctors, when had diagnosed me, had already told me that IVF wouldn't even work for me. They also told me that even if it did work it would lead to an MC. When I was told this I got extremely upset. Now DE is the only option I have. I hope things get better for you. Research and make sure the clinic you have opted for your process has a high success rate. Best of luck sending baby dust your way.

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Autumnmoon

Bless you how difficult it must be for you there is no fairness in this process hope you have good people around you x

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Dreamingofbaby

So sad for u. Sorry to hear this. Def brave is u to see your niece still. Take good care xx

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Missy_22

I feel your pain. I really do. I’m so sorry. No words. Maybe you can try again?? But in the mean time look after YOU! xxx

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Missy_22

I feel your pain. I really do. I’m so sorry. No words. Maybe you can try again?? But in the mean time look after YOU! xxx

Oh no. I hope your miracle happens. So gutted for you xxx

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Debrakay1704

Hi Rainbow, I am so sorry that your treatment did not work xxx I hope that you do not mind me getting in contact, i can see that like me you had treatment in Greece at the same clinic, i have my blood test tomorrow, can i ask how you got the results, did they call you or email you or skype? xx

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Rainbowhope

I didn't do the blood test because I started bleeding heavily. I'm not sure how you get the results but best of luck for you. X

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