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Donor FET to-do list โœ… - ready for our flight! โ˜€๏ธโœˆ๏ธ

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Everythingโ€™s prepared and the suitcases are packed for our very early flight (5.50am ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ) Sunday to Greece. I think Iโ€™ve pretty much done all I can, now itโ€™s up to nature (and fate) to do the rest:

โœ… taken all the meds

โœ… folic acid

โœ… regular exercise/good diet

โœ… limited caffeine/no alcohol

โœ… pre-flight massage to de-stress ๐Ÿ’•

โœ… bikini line in-check (! ๐Ÿ˜ณ)

Now to keep all our fingers and toes crossed that we have a successful thaw and transfer on Tuesday.

Somewhat lacking in positive vibes and excitement, but holding onto the fact Iโ€™ve fallen pregnant with my own eggs our 3 previous IVFs, why wouldnโ€™t a pregnancy happen (and continue!) with our donor. I know you are all with us. Much love xxx


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Lots of luck and positive vibes being sent your way lovely, have a safe journey, will be looking forward to your updates. Big hugs and lots of love ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’

Thank you hon. Hope youโ€™re keeping well! x

I'm not too bad thanks ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ˜˜

Good luck xx

Wow, we are cycling together! Our wonderful donor had her collection this last week, and (God willing) we have a transfer on Tues! Things looking good so far, 6/9 fertilised, more news tomorrow. Well, will certainly be thinking of you too! I know how you feel re vibes etc, this will be our 6th transfer attempt, and I have never been pregnant....but only our second time w donor eggs. Sometimes I feel positive, and other times a bit going through the motions... Lots of love to you Mrs H! Xx

WeeMrsH in reply to Coracle

Oh wow hon this is amazing, Iโ€™ll be thinking of you Tuesday! Are you having this in U.K.? Itโ€™s so hard isnโ€™t it. I canโ€™t imagine going through 6 transfers- you must be made of very tough stuff xx

Coracle in reply to WeeMrsH

Yes, in UK. Xx

Good luck.. I'll keep everything crossed for you xx

Good luck x

Wishing you a safe trip and lots of positive vibes ๐Ÿ’• xx

Wishing you the very best with it weemrsh ; youโ€™ve had a heck of a journey and you are still fighting hard; you are made of strong stuff ๐Ÿ˜˜ you keep that positivity going your persistence will pay off ๐Ÿ˜

Wishing you a safe flight. Xoxo

WeeMrsH in reply to jess1981

Thank you Jess! Hope you are well on the mend after your latest laparoscopy. You and I have been kicking around on here so long now; surely we are due a break!! ๐Ÿ˜‚ xx

jess1981 in reply to WeeMrsH

I think so too! ๐Ÿ’ฏ ๐Ÿ˜‚

Iโ€™m currently on my first 2ww since the lap! ๐Ÿ™ˆ

Look forward to hearing your updates xoxo

WeeMrsH in reply to jess1981

๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’› for us both x

Wishing you lots of luck and sending positive vibes! ๐Ÿ’• Youโ€™re one very strong, brave and determined lady! x

WeeMrsH in reply to Hopeful1982

Thank you ๐Ÿ˜˜ lovely to hear from you. Hope your daughter is doing well - sheโ€™ll be getting big now ๐Ÿ˜ƒ x

Hopeful1982 in reply to WeeMrsH

Sheโ€™s doing great thank you. Just saw youโ€™ve had your embryo transfer. Wishing you all the best x

This is it lady! Safe flight. Stay in touch! xx

Everything crossed for yous ๐Ÿ’•xxx

Good luck and Greece is the best place to go! Just relax and enjoy your break too and looking forward to seeing that BFP in 2 weeks time xxx

Fingers crossed go you. All the best x

Youโ€™ll be there by the time you read this. Please know that I have EVERYTHING crossed for you this time xxxxx


Positive thoughts! Wishing you so much luck. Have a good trip xx


Safe flight and everything crossed xxx

Wishing you the best of luck xx

All the best and have a great flight. Enjoy your time in Greece also. Much love ๐Ÿ˜˜xxx

Wishing you all the very best x


Fingers crossed hope it all goes well for you Xx๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž

Thank you everyone!! ๐Ÿ˜ƒ Resting after the journey, taking in the gorgeous Aegean Sea, and the invigorating scents of pine and bbq ๐Ÿ˜- time to chillout xx

Sounds amazing enjoy hun ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’

Good luck with the transfer and hopefully enjoy the time away!

Good luck to you!! Weโ€™re going abroad in June as well. Keep us all posted positive vibes your way xxx

Sending lots of luck. Looking forward to updates. Xx

WeeMrsH in reply to daydreamer89


Wishing you the best of

WeeMrsH in reply to Asweetpea

How are you Asweetpea? Are you still in 2ww? x

Asweetpea in reply to WeeMrsH

I tested last Tuesday and got a BFP. Feel a bit in shock and an now on to the scan wait!! This whole process is just a waiting game.

I hope all goes ok in Greece. Are you staying on for a bit after the procedure?

Sending you lots of positive vibes. Iโ€™ll be thinking of you on Tuesday.xxxx

WeeMrsH in reply to Asweetpea

Oh wow Asweetpea, congratulations!! Thatโ€™s amazing news, gives me so much hope ๐Ÿ˜

Yeh we are here for 7 nights so have 4/5 days after transfer to relax more. I slept 10 hours last night after our mega early start for the journey, so should be raring to go tomorrow lol.

Congrats again. Are you getting a 7 week scan? xx

Asweetpea in reply to WeeMrsH

Thanks WeeMrsH. Keeping everything crossed for you.

Glad you have a few days to relax after transfer. Chance to put your feet up and enjoy some sun shine.

Prob worked well that you were shattered otherwise you may have been awake all night fretting. The early start worked in your favour. You can face things better after a good night sleep.

Am booked in for my 7 wk scan two weeks tomorrow. Trying to not freak out with all the possible outcomes!! Trying to enjoy the moment of being pregnant. All the waiting is so hard.

Hope all goes well over the next few days sending you lots of love. A.x

Good luck! I hope you get the chance to enjoy your beautiful surroundings too ๐ŸŒž xx

WeeMrsH in reply to Tugsgirl


Oh I missed this! Hopefully you're relaxing in sunny Greece as I type!! Good luck for the thaw!๐Ÿคžxxx

emu2016 in reply to Cinderella5

Sheโ€™ll be demanding alcohol free cocktails right about now I bet!

WeeMrsH in reply to emu2016

Thanks Cinders ๐Ÿ˜˜

Speak for yourself Emu ๐Ÿ˜œSaving them for the evenings! They donโ€™t have a big selection of mocktails at this resort so donโ€™t want to get my fill of them too soon lol. xx

emu2016 in reply to WeeMrsH

I found non-alcoholic beer in a shop last night while looking for paracetamol for my foot! ๐Ÿ˜‚ x

WeeMrsH in reply to emu2016

Good idea! x

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