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Keeping my fingers, toes, everything crossed!!

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Hello you wonderful bunch!

So last Thursday I had a bleed after my BFP. I went for an emergency scan at the hospital with my consultant. And lo & behold there was 2x little ones with heart beats! He agreed that I could be scanned weekly due to my history. I had another small bleed on Tuesday. I had another scan yesterday and they are still going strong! Im 7.5 days & Measuring only a couple of days out. He noticed a small pocket of blood by the sacs, and said it must just be releasing a little bit at a time! Just to really stress me out! So it's another week down! And I get a scan next Thursday again. It's really helping my anxiety, So I recommend asking for weekly scans if you are stressing out too much. They may say yes!

Lots of love to you All! Becky Xx

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elle80 profile image
elle80

Aww what a lovely picture Becky!

It's really good they're doing weekly scans 💙 xxx

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Becky179 in reply to elle80

Thankyou! Not sure if they are being more helpful because we self funded! But it is a relief. To only wait a week each time rather than 5 weeks! Xx

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elle80 in reply to Becky179

Oh definitely!! I've Googled where they do private scans in my area and there's a good one that charges £89.00. So I'm thinking that I'll just pay and get extra ones, just to help calm my anxiety lol.

Good luck Becky 😘 xx

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Becky179 in reply to elle80

Thankyou! Have you asked for extra scans? Xx

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elle80 in reply to Becky179

Not even got to the stage of asking for one scan yet haha. Hopefully they won't fob me off again today. Xx

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Becky179 in reply to elle80

Lol oh yeah! Sorry my brain! Deffo ask when you go for your viability scan. Xx

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elle80 in reply to Becky179

Yeh I will. The last time I was pregnant was 15 years ago and I had a miscarriage at maybe 7/8 weeks, I'd only know I was pregnant for a week. Plus I'm negative O blood group, so that's making me feel anxious xxx

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Becky179 in reply to elle80

Oh wow! Bless you! I Hope this is your time! Xx

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elle80 in reply to Becky179

I'm going to phone the clinic now. I'm physically shaking!! Xx

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Becky179 in reply to elle80

Be stern with her if she's rude again! Xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to elle80

I’m negative 0 and so is my daughter. All you have to do if you do loose any blood at any point, phone the hospital and get the anti D injection. You will be fine , try not to worry xx

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elle80 in reply to Gillyc1

Thank you. Yeh just worries me. My mum and dad are both negative o, so it was never an issue for them. My husband doesn't know his blood group, but I think his mum said she was positive A or B. What if my blood rejects the baby!!! 😵 Xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to elle80

My hubby is positive B. I bled twice with my son and once with my daughter. I had the anti D and both were perfectly ok. My son is positive B so he would have been the one it affected but he was perfectly ok. Honestly, in this day and age it is no longer a problem xx

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elle80 in reply to Gillyc1

Thank you, for putting my mind at ease. The nurse did say that with my blood group I would be monitored more. Its a right pain being negative o, we can give everybody our blood, it's so good but we can't have a drop of anyone else's lol xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to elle80

I’m glad I made you feel better. Honestly, it’s not a problem having your blood group. All the females in my family have it xx

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Gillyc1

Ahhh that’s lovely. Did you have 2 eggs replaced xx

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Becky179 in reply to Gillyc1

Thankyou Gilly. I did 😁. Hows your daughter doing? Xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to Becky179

She’s doing great. We find out a week on Tuesday how many there are. Exciting xx

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Becky179 in reply to Gillyc1

Ooh! 🤞🥚🥚 good luck! Xx

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WaywardGirl

Congratulations!

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Becky179 in reply to WaywardGirl

Thank you! Xx

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Rachael_

Awwwww how lovely’s this congratulations xxxx ❤️❤️

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Thank you! Xx

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Cinderella5

Wonderful news Becky! Delighted for you!! Very exciting!🤗👏xxx

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Becky179 in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you! Just gotta get through the next 5/6 weeks! 😯 xx

Double Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉 glad your being monitored closely. Hope the bleeding settles down and you can enjoy being pregnant 😍 xoxo

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Thanks hon. It is a worry. But I suppose at least I know where it's coming from. I am soooo nautious too. So struggling to do anything! Xx

What a blessing!!! Mega congratulations Becky. I’m having weekly scans too and I think it will definitely help my anxiety as I constantly worry about lack of symptoms at 7 weeks now. Good luck!! Keep us posted xxx

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Thank you very much! So we're around the same dates then. Have you had your viability scan? My nautia has been awful since week 5, so I should have realised it was twins! However my boobs aren't as bad as they were! With my son my sickness didn't kick in until 8/9 weeks. So try not to stress if it's not started yet. Xx

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Buzzing for you!! I had 2 embryos put in and just one took and i’m so thankful after 6 losses. I had my viability scan on Weds and I can’t tell you how scared I was. Thank you for reassuring about the nausea, it’s a horrid thing but at least it’s a comforting positive sign. I’ve had it twice before and snacking every 2-3 hrs helped a bit, keep blood sugar even. I’m scared because I’ve had losses with hardly any symptoms and so hard not to compare it but i’m Just taking it step by step and counting my blessing. All fingers and toes crossed for us all 🙏🏼😘 keep the scan pics coming, love seeing twins 😊xxx

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Becky179 in reply to

Its so hard not to compare when you've had so many pregnancies. But each one really is different & i feel totally different now from my last one. I've had losses with symptoms & without. Fingers crossed for you & I'll keep the pictures coming! Xx

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Minchoo

Two beautiful baby beans - I hope they stick and I hope they are both lovely healthy bouncing babies. 👶🏼 👶🏼 - wishing you lots of health and happiness ❤️❤️

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Becky179 in reply to Minchoo

Thank you very much! Xx

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Millie198528

Aww I'm glad you have 2 little beans growing in there glad you getting weekly scans also help put your mind at ease 😀 xx

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Becky179 in reply to Millie198528

Thanks hon. Yeah it's deffo helping my anxiety (at the moment!) Xx

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Millie198528 in reply to Becky179

Oh I can't even imagine! Have everything crossed for you too. Hopefully once you get to your 12 weeks you can relax a little xx

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Becky179 in reply to Millie198528

Thanks hon. Me too! 😂 xxx

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julietyler

Wow congratulations on your baby twins xx

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Becky179 in reply to julietyler

Thankyou! Xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Huge congratulations lovely lovely pic 💝😘

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Becky179 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Thankyou! This was last week. Couldn't get a good one this week! Xx

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Leo2017

Aw huge congratulations!! What lovely pictures!! ❤️Xx

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Becky179 in reply to Leo2017

Thanks hon! Xx

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Daisy14

Amazing news! Everything crossed for you that the time passes quickly and easily xxx

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Becky179 in reply to Daisy14

Ahh hello Daisy! Thank you very much! How are things? Xx

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Daisy14 in reply to Becky179

Good thank you. Little one is walking now, not a baby anymore! We’re so lucky. Hope things are still going in the right direction for you xx

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Wishfully

So glad you’ve had good healthy scan results so far. It’s great that they’ll scan you so regularly... it’s so hard not knowing what is going on in there. 😊😊 My scan is on Monday, eek... me and hubby are both so nervous but we’ll just have to wait and see xx

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Becky179 in reply to Wishfully

Ahh I'll be thinking of You! It's awful not knowing. I recommend asking if you can have extra, to keep the stress levels down. Fingers crossed for you for monday Xxx

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Stepharni

Congratulations that's amazing news, great you're able to have the regular scans, must be so reassuring x

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Becky179 in reply to Stepharni

Thank you& yes it is!. Xx

Ah that’s fantastic news. So pleased for you!! This now gives me a little hope 🙏🏾

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Becky179 in reply to

Thankyou! A bit of hope works wonders. Xx

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emu2016

Wonderful! x

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Becky179 in reply to emu2016

Thank you! xxx

Hurrah!

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