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More bad news I’m afraid 😢

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We had our scan today should of been 7+5 and the baby measures 7+1 but no heartbeat 😢 totally gutted !!

I have to go back next week for another scan and if I haven’t passed it myself by then they will refer me to EPU for medical management 😔😔😔

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I'm so sorry to hear this. Been there myself so understand just how awful it is. Sending you my love ❤ xx

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Thank you just don’t know wot to feel I don’t think it’s sunk in yet 😢

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elle80

Sending you a hug xxx

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Stepharni

So very sorry to hear this,it's heartbreaking. Take time to really look after yourself xx

Oh no my love how truly heartbreaking. I had a early miscarriage last year and it was so devastating. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better. I’m so sorry for your loss so sorry you’re going through this truly awful xoxo

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So gutted 😔

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The sense of loss is indescribable and unimaginable. But I promise hun this will get better with time; a day at a time. I wish I could give you a hug I know it’s worst pain ever. I’m so sorry for what you are going through it’s so cruel xoxo

So sorry to hear this, life is so cruel .

Sending big hugs x

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E_05

I’m so sorry to read this, it’s absolutely heartbreaking xx

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Tugsgirl

Oh no 😞 I’m so sorry xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Oh lovely, I'm really sorry to hear this sending you a huge hug hun, be kind to yourself, we're all here for you. Lots of love

💝💝😘

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Rowly88

I'm so sorry to hear your news xx thinking of you and your partner and sending loads of love during this difficult time xx

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daydreamer89

Oh I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending you lots of hugs. Heartbroken for you xx

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Lisaworthy1981

Oh no I’m so sorry!! You must be heartbroken 😔 sending big hugs at the sad time xxxxx

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emu2016

Lots of love to you. Thinking of you and sending strength xx

So sorry to read this xxx

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Leo2017

So sorry to read this, I had a missed miscarriage recently so know the pain you are feeling!! Sending you love and strength!! xx

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Autumnmoon

Bless you so sorry sending love x

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Kathryn1984

I’m so sorry. I’m going through this too today. I hope we can rest and recover, and grieve going forward. It’s really is horrible and unfair

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I was reading urs just now so horrendous, totally dreading it coming away 😔😔 hope ur doing ok xx

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When I first started bleeding I was adamant I wanted surgical management if it went that way. In the end I’m glad it went the way it did. Yes, there was loads of blood and clots, and it’s not nice. But it’s given me a kind of full stop to my pregnancy. It’s not the worst memory I’ve been left with. The ultrasound was the worst bit for me, because that is when my last tiny straw of hope was gone. If you want to ask me anything at all, message me any time. Thinking of you xxx

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Thank you so much for thinking of me when ur having such a hard time urself xx

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Penders

I'm so very sorry to read this. Sending love and hugs xxx

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Poppy16

I am really sorry to hear this devastating news. Know from my own losses what you are going through. Thinking about you and sending you a big hug. Xo

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Lou7744

I’m so sorry to read this, it’s truly heartbreaking. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

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dmccmky

Oh no 😢😢 I've just seen that, I am absolutely devastated for u I'm so so so sorry ❤️❤️ xx

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lorraineb61

So sorry to hear this, there are no words - just know that everyone is here for you x

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Smang

I’m so sorry for your loss xx

So sorry 😢 I’ve had this twice and I know the pain and sadness well 😣 Sending lots of love and strength 🙏🏼Xxx

So so sorry to read this. Sending you massive hugs and wishing you strength xxx

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NDE1987

I am so sorry to read this Hun. It's so cruel. I have my scan in 2 weeks time aswell and this is a fear that I have everyday. I don't feel pregnant. I have only been getting cramps here and there. Sending you hugs x

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Em2405

I’m so sad to read this and so sorry for the pain and loss you are suffering. Life seems so cruel, we try so hard to get pregnant to then have this happen. Take care and time to grieve. Look after yourselves and know that you are strong and you will get through. The pain must be devastating and I am truly sorry. Sending love to you xxx

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Noobs

So sorry to hear this.x

I'm so sorry. Thinking of you xxx

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Ekjones86

Oh I am so so sorry to hear this. What devastating news for you 😢

It's so difficult as you start planning everything in your head from so early on. Sending you lots and lots of hugs 🤗 look after yourself xxx

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Catlady2013

💔 I’m so sorry to read this. I’m thinking of you x

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vic77

my heart goes out to you..sadly I know exactly what you are going through...we miscarried last week and I in today for surgical management. .it is just so so unfair and cruel..the ladies sorry warriors on here have been an amazing support to me...I hope you get some comfort from their support too xxxxx

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Just so cruel isn’t it getting this far in such a hard journey for it all to be snatched away at this stage 😢 hope ur doing ok xx

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Thinking of you today Vic 😘🙏🏼Xxx

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Dreamingofbaby

Big hugs. Is so unfair a. Take care xx

I'm so sorry to hear this :( xxx

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Maikai

This makes my heart so sad. I had a MMC last year. It’s horrid and nothing anyone can say will make it better. You will be sad and angry and grateful it worked at all and disappointed and frustrated and then eventually you’ll be ok. Sending you much love.

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mimisquiz77

Ooh dear, this is awful. I am so sorry for you. This is awful. All my thoughts are with you in this difficult time. Take care 💖

Sending huge hugs. I’m so sorry you have to go through this xxx

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CheshireKit

Oh no, I’m so so sorry 😢 Sending you huge hugs. It’s heartbreaking and seems so unfair.

I’ve just had my second missed miscarriage and had medical management at home.

There’s nothing I can say to make the pain go away, and it never entirely does you just learn to live with it, but please know I’m thinking of you xxx

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry to read this! Thinking of you!xx

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Becky179

Oh I'm so sorry. Thinking of you & please take care. Xx

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Missy_22

This is so sad I’m sorry. I have had this experience and I know how you feel.

Look after yourself xxx

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