Sad news at viability scan. Feeling heartbroken 😢

[SianieShorts]

We had our viability scan yesterday and I should have been measuring 7+4 however sonographer said she didn’t see what she was hoping for. They say I’m measuring more like 4-5 weeks with a heart rate of about 56(apparently should be about 145).

They are rescanning me in 8 days which feels a lifetime away but they didn’t fill me with any hope.

I guess I’m clutching at a chance everything might be ok but realistically I know it’s over.

Just devastated x

[Millbanks]

I’m so sorry to hear this 💔I know nothing I say will help right now so just hope you are looking after yourselves.

Sending much love xxx

[SianieShorts in reply to Millbanks]

Thank you x

[FrancyItaly]

Sorry to hear that. I’ve been through it. Hoping for a different outcome for you 💕

[SianieShorts in reply to FrancyItaly]

Thank you. I am so sorry for your losses, I have just read your journey, what a rollercoaster. My heart goes out to you. Wishing you lots of luck for your Frosties xx

[FrancyItaly in reply to SianieShorts]

Thank you so much! x

[KiboXX]

I’m so sorry to see this lovely. Sending you a big hug today xxxx

[SianieShorts in reply to KiboXX]

Thank you so much x

[Picalilli99]

I’m so sorry to hear this. We have experienced similar in the past, so devastating and the waiting is just horrible. Sending lots of love your way xx

[SianieShorts in reply to Picalilli99]

Thank you. I am so sorry for what you are going through too. Stay strong ..sending lots of love xx

[Fudge1980]

Aww am so sorry to hear this 😞 keeping everything crossed for your next scan 😘💕xx

[SianieShorts in reply to Fudge1980]

Thank you so much and good luck on your journey too xx

[AuroraXen]

Thus must be just devastating. So sorry 😞 Hoping things could still be OK for you xx

[SianieShorts in reply to AuroraXen]

Thank you for your support and good luck on your journey…it looks like you have been through the mill xx

[JenRoy]

So sorry to hear that. We had the exact same thing 5 weeks ago although we had no heartbeat. It was so crushing & devastating. I’m definitely feeling a bit better but still very sad. I know the waiting is agony. Sending hugs xx

[SianieShorts in reply to JenRoy]

Thank you for your support. I am so sorry for your loss..the pain is crushing xx

[Belangalo]

I am so sorry. IVF is so brutally hard. Hugs 🫂

[SianieShorts in reply to Belangalo]

Thank you for replying. I have just read your story…you are inspirational. I am so sorry for everything you are going through. Life can be so cruel. Sending lots of love x

[Belangalo in reply to SianieShorts]

I don't feel inspirational at all. But I can tell you that I understand how hard IVF is and that the fertility issues we are handed are completely and utterly unfair. Take care of yourself and I hope that you can keep pushing forward on your journey when you are ready. Hugs.

[FrancyItaly in reply to Belangalo]

How are you doing Belangalo?

[Belangalo in reply to FrancyItaly]

I have a pretty awful existence right now and it's hard but thank you for asking. I really hope that you are well. IVF messes with your head and I haven't found my pregnancy enjoyable. For me it's been riddled with stress, worries and complications! But baby is doing OK and I'm almost 34 weeks now. Too be honest, I can't wait until I give birth. It will stop so much of the worry of carrying her and hopefully end a lot of my painfully bad health issues. That would be a bit of relief! Xx

[FrancyItaly in reply to Belangalo]

Hi Belangalo, I hope you due date will come around very soon and that you will get to enjoy life with your little miracle! If you want to talk Pm me xxxx

[MissSaoPaulo]

I'm so sorry hon. We went through the same thing earlier this year, although no heartbeat. Sending you the biggest hugs xxx

[SianieShorts in reply to MissSaoPaulo]

Thank you. So sorry for your loss…how are you doing now? X

[Icsi_Wincy_Spider]

I'm so sorry Shorts, thinking of you and have everything crossed xxx

[SianieShorts in reply to Icsi_Wincy_Spider]

Thank you. Not looking hopeful but I appreciate the support. How are you getting on? X

[Icsi_Wincy_Spider in reply to SianieShorts]

Don't worry about me - just focus on yourself beautiful. Sending positive vibes your way 😘😘😘 xx

[Hidden]

Thinking of you, had similar in August but no heartbeat. Sending hugs xx

[SianieShorts in reply to Hidden]

Thank you. Sorry for your loss. I hope you are beginning to heal xx

[lnf17]

I am so sorry SianieShorts 😢 sending you love & hugs ❤️xx

[SianieShorts in reply to lnf17]

Thank you for your support x

[Daughterofaking]

So sorry to read this. I wish you all the best inyour next scan. xx

[SianieShorts in reply to Daughterofaking]

Thank you xx

[Jess1981]

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I had this in March but they couldn't see where baby was so it was pregnancy of unknown location until my bloods showed my levels were halving so concluded it was likely a miscarriage. It was awful being in limbo. I hope you have better news at your next scan Xx

[SianieShorts in reply to Jess1981]

Thank you for your support it means a lot x

[Solly-44]

I’m so sorry, sending hugs xx

[SianieShorts in reply to Solly-44]

Thank you xx

[RecipIVF]

I’m so so sorry. Sending massive hugs xxx

[SianieShorts in reply to RecipIVF]

Thank you x

[try2020]

So sorry to hear that, there are no words of comfort, sending you love and hugs x

[SianieShorts in reply to try2020]

Thank you x

[Sandyels]

I’m so sorry you are going through this. We experienced the same but without heartbeat. Still had to wait. I felt it got easier emotionally after that one week wait when miscarriage was confirmed, but it’s so hard to be in limbo since we cannot do anything but have a little hope. Sending you hugs

[SianieShorts in reply to Sandyels]

Thank you for sharing your experience-it does really help to know I’m not alone. I am so sorry for your loss xx

[80sDiva]

So sorry to hear this I have everything crossed for you 💕 xx

[SianieShorts in reply to 80sDiva]

Thank you and good luck to you on your journey xx

[SianieShorts]

Just to update that there was no growth and no heartbeat at my second scan yesterday and I have started bleeding today at 9weeks. A very sad day 😢💔Thank you to all those who have supported me xx

[Littlepeax in reply to SianieShorts]

I'm so so sorry ❤ this must be devastating 😔 thinking of you xxx look after yourself xxx

[SianieShorts in reply to Littlepeax]

Thank you x

[Bella_Bee]

I'm so so sorry. So many of us have been where you are now. We know and can feel your heartbreak. Hang in there. Better days will come.

[SianieShorts in reply to Bella_Bee]

Thank you x

[Chiefy]

Sending love x

[Icsi_Wincy_Spider]

I'm so sorry to read this SianieShorts , similar thing happened to me earlier this year in April 😔 there's still a chance though (unlike me as no heartbeat 💔) so have thing crossed for you. Thinking of you xxxxx

[SianieShorts in reply to Icsi_Wincy_Spider]

There was no heartbeat at my second scan and I started bleeding test 😥Thank you so much for your support and sorry for your loss xx

[Picalilli99 in reply to SianieShorts]

I’m so sorry to hear this. We have been in a similar position before so can understand how totally devastating it is. Take care of of yourself lovely. Sending huge hugs 💞 xx

[SianieShorts in reply to Picalilli99]

Thank you. I am keeping you in my thoughts on your current journey. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy xx

[Picalilli99 in reply to SianieShorts]

Thank you xx