Got a bfn second time

[Ssharu123]

I had written a post a few days ago

Yesterday was my beta hcg and it back negative

This was my first fet and despite of having top quality embryo and a fantastic uterine lining which was 13.5 mm before transfer with a triple line appearance the embryo failed to implant

I still have one frozen embryo left

But my doctor wants me to go for a fresh cycle because in next transfer he will put in two embryos

In Japan they only transfer one embryo below age 35

But because two transfers have failed this time they will go for two .

But before that he asked us to get done another test for anti phospholipid antibody test

So yesterday my blood was collected and I will get the test results in 10 to 15 days

Does anyone has any experience regarding anti phospholipid anybody test

I would like to know about successful pregnancies

[Tugsgirl]

After three miscarriages, two of them being mmcs, I was finally tested under a miscarriage clinic and have now had two positive results for lupus anticoagulant, which comes under anti phospholipid syndrome. On my last fet I had to take a daily aspirin and Heparin injection alongside a Lubion injection. Sadly we still got a bfn. So sorry to hear of yours, they are really hard. I hope you get some productive news soon xx

[Ssharu123 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thank you dear😊

We will try our best

It’s quiet difficult because I have severe endometriosis with hypothyroidism

I hope the test for anti phospholipid syndrome comes negative

Because that will make things more difficult

We may have to opt for surrogacy in that case if I dnt conceive in the next cycle

Because I dnt want to wait years for having baby

And I hope you get success soon, I know how hard it is to wait.

We actually understand each other in this journey

This is the same emotion we all share

Anyways I am visiting my family in India soon so that I can rest for a while and that will definitely help me in reducing stress!

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

I Ssharu123. "Tugsgirl" has said pretty well what I would have advised. all the best with the result and good luck with your round of treatment. Diane

[Ssharu123 in reply to DianeArnold]

Thank you dear😊

I am gonna just relax

We can’t keep punishing ourselves for things which are not in our control!