Mini meltdown.......test day.

[CJ104]

Help I'm being pathetic I know I am but after waiting all this time I can't bring myself to do a HPT. Just buying it yesterday gave me palpitations and I felt faint in boots! Today is my test day after FET on 27th February and I know it's ridiculous but im genuinely scared of the outcome. So today I've worked instead ....... what can i do? Xx

[Amanda86]

Your not pathetic at all! Test day is a massive deal and fills you with so many emotions.

It is best to test with first morning urine, so it might be best to now test tomorrow?

Maybe you could make some nice plans for tomorrow, so that whatever the outcome you have something to look forward to?

Good luck 🤞🤞 xxx

[Lilli79]

Not pathetic at all lovely. I think it's entirely down to you when you test, and definitely agree that whatever the outcome its better to test on a non work day so that you can do something nice whatever the outcome. I can totally relate to being nervous buying a HPT, that's why I always buy mine on ebay!! The first time I tested I was shaking like a leaf, you'll be OK. Good luck with it xx

[-noodles-]

awwww it’s totally normal lovely, there is just so much build up & expectation for us ivf warriors, in some ways not knowing is easier.

thinking of you & sending love & positive vibes xx

[Ap98]

Hi CJ,

This is absolutely normal, we all really understand what you are going through! This is the beginningbof a new chapter so not easy to do this test... I'm sending you lots of postive energy and hoping you will have good news for us soon! And don't forget that we are all here to help you!

Good luck

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Not pathetic at all. Test day is terrifying. Youve come such a long way that no wonder u feel scared and nervous. Do u have a friend that could come over ? Or is your husband around to test with you? Massive hugs you can do this xxx

[smithy1986]

I found the test so hard to do, even after doing the test it took my 30 mins to actually look at it. Don't put pressure on yourself hun, its completely normal xx