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Update 8dpt.. red blood

So yesterdays spottting tailed off towards the evening and i was more at ease.

Went to the loo this morning 6:00am all good.. took both pessaries rectally last night thinking they were irritating my cervix n that was causing bleed.

Woke at 10:00 with cramping, after wiping had lots of bright red blood... its the dredded af im sure...something inside me was crushed

Also my bbs have stopped being sore in a night... they werent too sore all week but hurt to touch.. now no pain just horrid horrid period pain

I think its def all over.... my emby lasted a week im devasted

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Awwwwww my love I'm soooo sorry. people on here have bled hun and gone to test and they've got their bfp, fingers crossed this is the same for you my love. Sending you big hugs 💗🤗😘

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Very worrying for you but all is not over yet. Trusting in spite of all this you will get your bfp. Nothing is impossible. Take care.xo

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Hope it's not over for you yet. Xxx

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Me too im just soo upset

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Keeping my fingers crossed it’s still a bfp for you!! Lots of rest and looking after each other tonight, take care x x x

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Thank u.. have lounged on sofa all day really weepy

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Aw-fingers crossed for you. It’s a bit early for AF I think. Don’t read too much into the symptoms-I think we always have ourselves convinced of the worst during the 2ww. Hopefully it will all come good.x

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Thank u! The nurse said it was really early but my bleed is just like my usual AF and just as heavy and painful

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Just read your post.. Gosh, im in the same boat this afternoon!.. Im on 8dp5dt.. Just when I wasn’t ‘knicker watchIng’, red spot just slapped me on my face!.. Just so hard not to panic.. I am still praying that this is not AF!.. Still holding on to that fine kine that this is just normal in 2ww.. OTD is on fri..

Hope you are feeling bettew now.. How are you?..

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Hi.. wish i had better news to share but i dont im afraid..so after some spotting on friday that stopped towards evening i had bright red blood saturday on and off...sunday lots more cramps pain and more bleeding..yesterday horrid cramping backache clots and heavy bleeding all day.. and today looks the same so far..definitley feels like AF.. been heartbroken since saturday..

Called clinic nurse said it was still quite an early bleed.. and to continue cyclogest pessaries till saturday which is OTD..

this feels pointless but will do as instructed and pray for a miracke although it seems a million miles away at this point

I hope and pray urs is just a light spot and that u get ur BFP soon xx

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Oh Im so so sorry, its devastating to have this happen! I had this happen too, twice and like you, I just kind of knew. Sending you massive hugs xx

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Thank u! Its so hard.. i have kind of accepted it mentally but my heart still aches and it just seems so unfair...

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It certainly does feel unfair. I know what you mean, to not even get to the end is so upsetting isnt it and it does feel pointless to carry on but hang on in there. At least then you know you've done everything you can. It hurts like hell for a while unfortunately. Maybe try to plan something nice to do afterwards as something to look forward to in a few weeks!xx

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How are you doing? Xxx

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Not great still bleeding im sure its af

Lots of cramps too

How r u?? Spotting stopped?

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