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Deflating Day By Day :(

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I was feeling good and positive.. now I'm feeling like it's not my time maybe... I have had no symptoms really I don't think maybe a few twitches in the first week... but I had no spotting, no sore boobs, just watery discharge just I put that down to the pessaries and the old headache that I put that down to stress..

my test date is friday...already booked the day off because I know I wont want to go.. scared to go to the toilet.. my head I think is playing games with me :(

glad to see all the lovely positive stories and BFPs this week happy for you all xxxxx

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Shivvyboom79 profile image
Shivvyboom79

Hi Gingergirl17,

I was thinking about you today.

Stay positive hun and wait till Friday to test.

Xxx

Sending you a big hug 🤗

As I’ve been told by friends and family members not all of them knew they were pregnant as they never had any symptoms.

They only realised when they missed their period. Xx

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Gingergirl17 in reply to Shivvyboom79

Thank you hun! Really Going to try xx

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TTCs

Hey Gingergirl17, i feel exactly the same as u! Im 8dp3dt and whilst i had some symptoms at the start i know only have the headaches and watery discharge that you've talked about. My boobs were sore but i tbink they're ok now! This 2ww is torture!!! My OTD is sunday. I hope we are both wrong xxx

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TTCs in reply to TTCs

I meant now* not know* xx

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Gingergirl17 in reply to TTCs

thanks hun, I Hope you get you your BFP on Sunday! xx

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TTCs in reply to Gingergirl17

You too 💞

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Lilli79

Hi Gingergirl17 please don't count yourself out already. I had exactly the same symptoms - very watery discharge and mild headaches. Nothing else. I had a few twinges and mild cramping and bloating on 9dpt but literally nothing else. I don't know if you normally have period symptoms but I think perhaps ladies who don't have many probably also won't have many symptoms during early pregnancy. It's just the way our hormones/body works. Good luck for your test day, stay positive ❤️

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Gingergirl17 in reply to Lilli79

Thank you hun xxx

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Leo2017

Hi, I can also totally relate, I’m currently only 5dp5dt and I’ve convinced myself that it hasn’t worked - no symptoms really other than what I’m sure is my usual AF full ache!! 😕

The 2ww really is torture isn’t it - you’re mind totally plays games with you!!

Wishing you the very best for the next few days and hope you get your bfp!! 🤞🏻xxx

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Gingergirl17 in reply to Leo2017

Wishing you all the luck too! xx

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Stepharni

Sit tight, sounds like it might be helpful for you to treat yourself to something nice, a pedi, massage, may help relieve some of the horrid anxiety around this time? Keeping everything crossed for you xx

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Gingergirl17 in reply to Stepharni

thank you x

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Penders

Try to stay positive. I've had no symptoms for the last week. I've not even had sore boobs this time round and I got my BFP this morning. Try not to read too much into symptoms xxx

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Gingergirl17 in reply to Penders

Really going to try! Amazing congratulations! xx

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Smang

Hi Gingergirl17, don’t worry about symptoms those are typically result of the progesterone. I was so worried during my 2ww, which really stressed me out. During my 2ww I was having period symptoms, but as soon I stopped the progesterone the symptoms went away and still haven’t a period for four days. That just goes to show you the symptoms are a result of medication. So try and relax and keep yourself busy.

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Gingergirl17 in reply to Smang

thank you hun, trying to forget till friday xx

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Violet5451

Hi lovely,

I was feeling exactly the same. It’s something we have all wanted for so long and it’s so scary taking that bloody test. It’s a lottery and can go either way. I will pray and keep all my fingers, toes and eyes crossed for you that it will be positive. Have you read the ivf success stories on the baby centre post? So many of them have said they have no symptoms what so ever and for a bfp so don’t loose hope!

I also used an app called mindful ivf (its a cloud with headphones graphic). That has a two week wait bit in it and is relaxation mindfulness meditations for each night which really helped.

Lots of love and hugs xxx

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Gingergirl17 in reply to Violet5451

thank you so much hun, I keep googling not to sure if I am doing myself any good or not.. I'll look into that hun might get me through the next few days xxx

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Violet5451 in reply to Gingergirl17

It’s impossible not to google stuff but if you can try and limit it. Everyone is different xxx

Try and go for a nice walk or do something to distract yourself. Xxx

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IMaman

Hi gingergirl,

I feel exactly the same. My test day is also Friday but tbh I’m feeling pretty sure it hasn’t worked. I had late spotting around 7dpt. I have a racing heart which I’m putting down to all the blood thinners but apart from that nothing. My boobs are sore but then I have that pretty much every cycle.

Fingers crossed 🤞 for test day this Friday.

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Gingergirl17 in reply to IMaman

Wishing you all the luck on friday! xx

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-noodles-

those 2 weeks are never ending!

sending positive vibes ✨💕✨

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Gingergirl17 in reply to -noodles-

thank you xx

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Dunla

Hiya, it is torture. I’ve been putting all my symptoms down to the pessaries too and am totally on knicker watch at this stage. I’m so afraid to look when I wipe 😖 I’m testing a day before you. Hoping it will be wonderful news for us both xx

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Gingergirl17 in reply to Dunla

snap! wishing you all the luck!!! xx

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sony008

Hello everyone..It's not my first BFP now it's my second-time BFP.First-time things were good and symptoms of my pregnancy are not too much uncomfortable.This time I had facing little bit difficulties.When I took my BFP My husband and I was together.I am praying that test could be positive after 10 times my husband take the strip and said yes you get pregnant.The joyful moment with husband and my 6 years old son.after 6 years I was pregnant with my second baby.I was flipping excited.I am in the first trimester and really expecting that this pregnancy is also same as like first because in first I eat anything, always in relaxing mood, no headache and not severe morning sickness.hope in this time also things are going to be fine and smooth.relax don't get scared.I hope that your BFP is also positive just keep positive and pray.we were blessed and wished you also blessed with the cutie pie.

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