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As many of you know 2017 has been particularly hard for me. I battled infertility and lost. I’ve lost two much wanted beautiful babies. It’s bought me physical and emotional pain. Surgery. I lost two of my much loved fur babies, three if you count the elderly (11 year old) bun I had pts in March. I’ve lost so called friendships along the way. I’ve had relatives I love deeply battle their own problems. I’ve had some clients I cared about pass away. I’ve been to more funerals than I would care to (I’m sure no one ever wants to go to those). We’ve had the new benefits system cut some of my OH’s benefits in all of their wisdom (just before Christmas) despite the fact that my OH is classed as severely disabled and always will be. 2017 you’ve been one of my toughest yet. I’m sure many of you have had your toughest yet too. And I sincerely hope 2018 is a better year for us all.

2017 has however, bought me new friendships. It was the year my OH asked me to marry him (we’re getting married June 2018). It has shown me how strong I am, more than I had ever given myself credit for. So although it mostly sucked, it wasn’t all bad...

So wherever you are on your journeys, good luck. May the new year make all your dreams come true ✨🤞🙏🏻 🌈 👶🏻 💕😘

Ps I almost forgot... 2017 was the year I got my fur babies Otto and Amber 🐰 xx

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lorraineb61

What a lovely post - hope 2018 brings us all what we are looking for! x

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Jonesjp

❤️

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Diamonddream

Great post hunni!! Let’s all pray 2018 is much kinder to us all!! 🙏🏻😘🤞✨👶🏼 Xx

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WeeMrsH

All the very best to you for a new year... and a fabulous time planning your wedding!! 💗

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Lovely post and 2018 will be your year hun. Congratulations to you both on getting married too lovely.

It's been a tough one but remember your tougher hun. We all are even when it feels we're not. Rip precious babies and fur bunny. You'll never be forgotten. 💗

Bring on 2018 so much positivity love and hope big hugs to you lovely 💗💗🤗😘😘

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cls37

Wishing you and your husband all the the best for 2018! Happy wedding planning xx hope that next year brings happier times xx

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Evie1

Wishing you a very happy 2018, I hope your dreams can come true, and all of the pain from 2017 can ease, as your life takes a new turn. So pleased to hear you will be married in 2018 that’s something wonderful to look forward to. Keep strong and I am sending you my very best wishes. I hope your Mum is ok I know she has struggled with watching all of your heartache, my best wishes to her xxx

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Tugsgirl in reply toEvie1

I sure have (unintentionally) broken my Mum’s heart this year. Hopefully next year I’ll make her happy again.. Best wishes to you too and well done on being a lovely supportive Mum xx

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vic77

woooooo hooooooo roll on 2018 and your wedding. .I remember hogmanay the year we were due to get married and it was such a fab time and toast😁. 2017 has been my worst year mind you I am sure I remember saying that last year but no this year topped that with 3 failed ivf to last year's one so who knows what 2018 will bring but I sincerely hope for all of us on here it brings our much longed for babies. ..I am also hoping it brings a little less weight 😂😂😂I am the biggest I have been in a long while but hey its not 2018 yet so where are the chocolates and wine 🍷🍷sending you much love misses your strength is to be admired...lots of love xxx

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Tugsgirl in reply tovic77

I hear you on the weight loss! I’m the heaviest I’ve ever been too 😕 No fad diets for me in the new year though, I’d rather be happier and curvier than thinner and miserable. I hope 2018 is your year too Vic xx

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Missy_22

Well said, 2017 has been my worst year of my life loosing my little girl. But roll on 2018 for all of us. Happy new year and all the my best for your wedding xxx

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Tugsgirl in reply toMissy_22

May 2018 bring you a 🌈 xx

Wishing you lots of luck and love for 2018. This year sounds as if it has been awful for you, but there is lots to look forward to it 2018 with Tommy's and your wedding. You deserve everything you wish for xxx

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Thank you so much xx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Love from me to you, OH and Otto. Diane xx❤️🐰❤️xx

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Tugsgirl in reply toDianeArnold

And Amber 😂🐰 Thank you Diane and thank you once again for all your help. Happy new year to you xx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK in reply toTugsgirl

Oops! Amber too! xxxxx

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Tugsgirl in reply toDianeArnold

💕 xx

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Poppy16

Your post brings inspiration to all that in spite of all life throws at us we are survivors and you certainly are one! Trusting and praying that 2018 will bring you and your OH much deserved happiness. Happy New Year to you both and happy wedding planning! Now that is really something to look forward to! Enjoy all the arrangements making. 2017 has been a painful year but tomorrow is a new year. May it be the year of all your hopes and desires.xo

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Tugsgirl in reply toPoppy16

Thank you so much xx

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vonny27

Beautiful post! Happy New year Tugsgirl xx

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Tugsgirl in reply tovonny27

Thank you Vonny. Happy new year to you and your little family xx

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katya38

Aww happy new year hope it brings your much wanted baby xx

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Pookymama

What a heartfelt post.

I wish you all the best for 2018 and beyond. Xx

Amazing post, wishing you a very happy wedding & hope that 2018 is your year xxxxxxx

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Tugsgirl

You are all so kind 😍 xx

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Amanda86

Lovely post. I know 2017 has been a really tough year for you but so pleased you’ve also had the good times too.

I’ve everything crossed that 2018 is going to be your year! 😘 xxx

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Tugsgirl in reply toAmanda86

Thank you xx

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Positive2022

Wishing you a very happy and healthy 2018 lovely. Take care xxx

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Manesp

Lovely post 😘🎉

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Fredaflintstone

Congratulations on your engagement and wishing you and hubby the best year yet in 2018! Xxx

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TTCs

I hope 2018 is your year 😘 xxx

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Tugsgirl

Thank you everyone for your kind comments 😘 xx

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tiger-cub

Beautiful quote . Absolutely choked reading through it . I hope this year is yours too. Happy wedding 🙏

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Tugsgirl in reply totiger-cub

Aww you know I hope it’s your year too xx

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bibi_16

how lovely to read your getting married wonderful news loads of hugs and kisses for you.xx

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tiger-cub

Aaawww so beautifully written .

Bless u my dear . Hope and pray d best for u . Xx

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