I hope everyone is doing as well as can be expected whatever situation you are in wherever you are in your journeys.
It has been a bit of a rollercoaster with several things happening out of my control sent to test me. My husband and I have stuck through it and on a positive note I have my exploratory laparoscopy booked for February where they will hopefully tell me what is going on and why we havenāt yet had our miracle.
I hope everyone is ok and I will slowly be catching up with all the stories I missed whilst away.
I send hugs to those who lost š¢, congratulations to those who got BFPs āŗļøand lots and lots of baby dust āØāØāØ to those of us still going.
Be kind to yourself everyone
Kelly xx
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Hey, sorry youāve had such a tough time of it! Glad to hear youāve got your laparoscopy booked in though and hopefully it gives you something to focus on xx
Itās funny because they always say when youāre not thinking about it it will happen so you live in that hope that it might. One of my fur babies was in a car accident so I have been so busy worrying about him that I didnāt even think about all of this and then this month like clockwork right before Christmas flo came and I just feel like Iām in a funk.
Iām hoping (so badly) that this lap is going to show something otherwise I have no idea what Iām going to do. Thank you for asking
Thatās true but itās hard to not constantly think about it though isnāt it. Oh no, hope heās okay?
I hope it will bring you answers, it definitely did for me as I wasnāt aware I had any problems (otherwise than like you being so frustrated it wasnāt happening) before my lap xx
It is so frustrating having another month go by with no signs of anything just the agonising pain each month as a physical reminder that it hasnāt happened again.
I think itās harder knowing ppl who didnāt want kids yet or who just started and itās happened straight away. I always worry as we have been dancing since last June and we havenāt even conceived and itās not stuck. Weāve literally had nothing... even though everything is working as it should.
I donāt know weāll see fingers crossed this lap will either show something or they can clean it out or something...
Best of luck for the laparoscopy. We managed to get answers with mine. Not the best of news but at least we knew ivf was our way from then on. Finally got our bfp on our 5th go so there is hope. Just hope this one stays as already had 2 miscarriages.
Thank you for the reply and the positive story I really hope it sticks too.
I hope I get some answers like you ladies have I just donāt like the not knowing even if it was bad news at least Iād be able to look forward but at the moment I feel like Iām in limbo xx
Wow February is when I had my lap and they found endo and partially blocked tubes they told me go for ivf or I'll end up ectopic high risk. I didn't listen did research and took serrapeptase cleared, my tubes although I haven't got my happy ending yet. Iv defied them iv got pregnant 3 times although lost them not been ectopic hoping this 4th one isn't.
Just sharing my story with you I'm sure I have before too good luck him trusting you get the, answers you need and be able to move on with having your baby xxxx
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