Just letting you all know it's only been three days of waiting, and it's already emotionally getting to me. I don't want to physically feel this, at new year and my b day is 2nd Jan. Just want this all to be over with.
So iv chosen to go for medical management and theyve booked me in tomorrow for 11.
They'll give me, tablets anti sickness pill and pain relief to go home with. They said I'll need to have someone at home. So hubby won't be working tomorrow and hopefully the process of putting this behind us can start. 💗🤗😘
Written by
AllWeNeedIsluv
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
So sorry you are having to go through this - it’s so hard. But it’s good that you have a plan and can grieve your loss. I’ll be thinking of you and have been. Sending you hugs xxxxx
Ohhh I know exactly how this feels! I will be thinking of you lovely! Good to have a plan in place! make sure u take the anti sickness tablets and pain relief. I wasn’t give any and I was violently sick! I wasn’t even made aware of the sickness! I will be thinking of you!
Thank you hun. I think they don't really communicate good iv got a bad habit of asking them procedures what I need etc I asked if I can take my little girl they said yes they get that all the time at least that way hubby can get the shop open and prepare the staff. Sorry you've had to go through this hun.💗💗🤗😘
I know hun I felt real bad for you hun. Im scared but I'm getting prepared iv just been on a quick shop getting ladies bits. I'm gonna have a real deep clean today round house so I can rest over weekend. I'm dreading it but hopefully it will be over and I can try move on 💗💗🤗😘
Yes, you take it really easy! Ask for the highest dose of Codeine they can prescribe and remember you can take paracetamol and ibuprofen as well as the codeine.. get yourself some hot water bottles on the go too. You make sure someone is looking after you xx
They said they're going to prescribe dhydrocodeine iv got some strong ibuporfen ill get some paracetamol i need another hot water bottle iv got one. Hubby will be coming in afternoon after HeS opened up and set staff up. Iv just been having a deep clean so its out the way. Just got bathroom to do now. 💗🤗😘
It's horrible that you have to go through all this but I am really pleased that you are no longer waiting about for it all to happen. I trust that the tablets will work quickly for you and you won't require any more or indeed any more intervention. Maybe use a hot water too for cramps. You need a lot of tlc. So glad your hubbie will be at home tomorrow with you. Really thinking about you at such an awful time. You will survive this terrible chapter of your life. Much love.xo
So sorry your having to go through this, I totally understand how your feeling. Glad you’ve got a plan of what’s going to happen and you’ll be able to grieve for your loss. Will be thinking of you xx
Thank you hun. I know you know how im feeling im sad you do its not nice. Wish i could have waited it out but the thought of it not happening is too frustrating. Hope your ok as can be 💗🤗😘
It’s sad that so many of us have to go through this heartache. I don’t blame you for not wanting to wait it out, I found the waiting torture. I’m doing okay thanks xx
I know its awful. There's no words this site really does help though. Makes a, difference to me just to share with others that get it. The support is sincere also
Thank you hun. It really wasn't but the thought of waiting and it not happening is frustrating me its only been three days and its starting to affect me.💗🤗😘
Hi lovely, I just wanted to say hi.. again and I hope you are doing ok .. well as ok as you can be!! I had my medical management this morning! Here if you want anything xx
Ha ha hi Cat 😊 I’m doing ok thank you... things haven’t really got going yet 😔 just mild cramps.... anyway how are you? Im thinking of you a lot! I doubt I will sleep much tonight so message me if you would like! Xx
I will do if i cant sleep. Im not too bad just yet feel bit better now hopefully things are going to get a move on. Awww hun have you got pain relief for when it gets more intense? Message me anytime hun. Big hugs 💗🤗😘
It’s going to be really tough but you’ve probably made the best decision for you and your family. So sorry you have to go through this, I’ll be thinking of you xx
Just got home had the tablets. Hospitals timing is rubbish they couldn't find my file either.
Anyway had the tablets they are nasty don't like that chalky feeling take ages to dissolve. My head is pounding real bad and feeling quite dizzy. Side affects from them.
I'm going to save tissue this time so they'll see if they can find anything from that.
The, pains haven't started or bleeding I was expecting them to by now. But I feel so so tired and my heads heavy I'm not moving off the sofa. See what happensx 💗🤗😘
When I miscarried it did hurt quite a bit, like severe cramping but I miscarried naturally so I guess it's different from what your going through, I'd imagine what your going through to be more painful 🙁
So sorry, I do hope it eases up soon. Hope you've got some pain relief to help ease it a little. Did you antisickness medicine help? Xxx
All my others have been natural nothing compared to this hands down. The sickness tab worked yesterday but today I feel really bad. Hopefully will pass. Tugs has reminded me it's normal if it gets too much I'll be off for more pain relief they did say come back if it gets too much. Xxx thanks hunny xx
I'm not too bad hunny. Just sore back and tummy I naively thought once I passed bubz the pain would be less. I'm just resting up with my best friends hot water bottles thanks for asking. Hope your ok hun. 💗💗🤗😘
I'm ok thanks. Relieved you have passed everything now. Terrible experience for you. Keep resting and taking painkillers for your discomfort and pain. Thinking about you and your hubbie too.xo
Thanks hun bless you. I'm not sure if iv passed everything they said something about trying to save placental tissue to test aswel. and from past experiences I haven't passed that but I'm not sure what it would be like at 6 weeks my other losses were later and the one before this was just small clots. I don't know but I flipping hurts.
How are you doing today? Hope you aren't in any more physical pain. Do you have a follow up appointment at the hospital scheduled? Still remembering you.Hope you are resting when you can.xo
Yes my follow up is once iv had my period ill see epu if hpt comes back positive after 3 weeks. Pain calmed now just feeling really ill weak and sick. Thanks Poppy your such a caring soul. Bless you. Lots of love 💗🤗😘
I am really glad your pain has eased. You will be weak etc. Maybe you could get a tonic like Floradix to help you get stronger. It's a liquid and gentle on the stomach too. I've used it many times. You can get it from any pharmacy or even supermarkets. Like yourself I have lost quite a few times and completely understand all the ins and outs. You need so much support right now. I just want you to know that I am there for you! Sending you big hugs. Xo
Bless you Poppy. I know your there for me hun you've been all the way through. I will ask hubby if he'll nip to asda on way home and get me some. Thanks for that. Sorry you've gone through this a few times too. Natural losses are hard but physically this medical management is so much more worse I really hope no one has to go through this it's awful.
Thanks again Poppy you've really been amazing. 💗💗💗🤗😘
Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them.
Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked.
(Update results, TW) Dreading OTD tomorrow 😬
Embryo transfer tomorrow
Week tomorrow is DOT
Viability scan tomorrow 😬
Medical management of miscarriage 
