It's definitely a negative .after the heart break hubby suggested IVF abroad

[Benjaminy14]

So we are back to square one , I'm cramping like crazy .

Hubby said next time we should go for IVF aboard as cheaper and a holiday soon would be good we haven't been on holiday for five years because of saving for IVF ,

Has any one got any helpful information about the best clinic etc

Any light of hope would gratefully be received right now x

[Hidden]

I’ve got no advice but sure someone else will, just wanted to say I’m sorry and send you lots of hugs xxxx

[Benjaminy14 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you I feel awful but know I have to move forward again . Xx

[Cinderella5]

Im so sorry you've had a negative! Im doing IVF abroad, its definitely has its pros and cons, being away makes you relax being away in differen surroundings but it does take some planning for treatment and days off work etc which can be at short notice!xx

[Benjaminy14 in reply to Cinderella5]

Does the clinic help with things like accommodation ? I've seen a few advertising but how do you go about checking the clinic out ect also read some horrible story's of scams aboard , not sure where to start x

[Cinderella5 in reply to Benjaminy14]

Yeah there are some that advertise but I think its important to gather a few bits of info, email requests and perhaps even do a skype chat it some to see what you think of communication and get a feel for what you like. Our clinic suggested some accommodation but we decided to use air bnb to get an apartment for our visit as we went out for 11 nights the first time. I think in terms of looking for clinics asking here for recommendations in a post as there are quite a few of us going abroad. The other place to look at is the website fertility friends as this has a section on going abroad to read through by countries depending on where you would want to consider going.

I guess the biggie is where suits you guys for getting flights and costs. I'll send a wee PM.xxx

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear this, BFN are so cruel. Look after yourself and sending huge hugs x

[Benjaminy14 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you xx

[Tugsgirl]

Sorry about your bfn xx

[Benjaminy14 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thank you the support on here is great couldn't not of found all you wonderful lady's at a better time x

[Amanda86]

Sorry to hear about your bfn 🙁 Xxx

[Benjaminy14 in reply to Amanda86]

Thank you Hun

I've crashed but won't be out for long ,

Looking for different IVF options is keeping me going x