So its been a bit of a crushing 2 weeks, after a faint faint positive clinic did bloods to reveal my levels were so low it had in fact failed. Emotionally it has been worst than last time, we have no embryos left and will need to have a fresh cycle again next time. Ive been quite shut down from it all, and basically trying to ignore it ever happened.
I looked into acupuncture before our first round in May and much to my surprise the clinic said not to bother with it. I have Raynaud's syndrome and i'm always cold, I raised this numerous times with the clinic and they reassured me that it wasn't a problem with IVF. I now feel like going in there and saying 'well you didn't listen and now look whats happened - 2 lots of IVF and still no pregnancy!'
Much to my disappointment they have told us we can go again in December with a fresh cycle and wait for it......they'll put me on aspirin to help with my circulation! Anyone else get the feeling they're not being listened to until you've had to go through the heartache of it twice?! We've decided to take a break and let my body heal for a few months before deciding anything!
Anyway I digress! I started acupuncture this week and to my surprise I actually loved it and there were also a few interesting things that came from my initial session, i have a cold uterus (i knew this i'm always, always cold thats no surprise) and apparently my liver is completely knotted (a term they use in acupuncture) and my Qi flow isn't flowing correctly, she found that my liver was full of anger and frustration! The acupuncturist seems to think if my liver is unblocked then there shouldn't be any reason why I cant conceive naturally as my health is overall very good, and fertility flows from the liver so thats the reason why I have an irregularity in my cycles, she's told me to keep my abdomen warm at all times and to drink warm lemon with water in the mornings to help with my liver function. She even recommended i sit with a hot water bottle on my lower back to warm me up, and its surprising how well it works!
So i've got a few tips for anyone who wants them, buy some haramaki's - these are essential to keep your kidneys, liver and uterus warm and originate from Japan, you can buy them in a few places online.
Always drink warm water and lemon as your first drink of the morning as this will help your liver detox
Keep your uterus warm with warming foods, no raw food (salads) in the winter as your body cools down to quickly whilst trying to digest your food.
keep to warm drinks as much as possible
and 2 books which were recommended to me which both seem very good and are by Emma Cannon who's an acupuncturist - Fertile (has recipes for warming foods in it) and The Baby Making Bible
Has anyone else seen a benefit from acupuncture and have any more tips for me and for others? I'd love to hear your views