Secret Facebook Group!

Hi everyone,

I hope that by writing this I do not offend anyone or upset you. I cherish this group as it has helped me through my IVF journey. I still pop in everyday to see how you all are getting on.

Since finding out I am pregnant with twins I have found myself lost a few times in my new journey. I have often private mailed others to ask questions as I don’t want to upset the group.

How would some of you feel about a secret Facebook group? It would be somewhere to post questions, tips photos etc. The group would be set so it was only members who could see who’s in it and can’t be seen by non-members. Which means it would be safe if you haven’t announced your pregnancy.

It’s only an idea. I hope your all well xxx

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  • I think this would be a great idea xxx

  • You can help us with our questions 😘 xx

  • If you PM me your email address I will add you xx

  • Hi there I’d like to join. While I feel incredibly lucky I am also feeling a bit scared at the prospect of having twins and it would be good if we could continue to support each other. Xxx

  • Great I will get one made up later today xx

  • Don’t worry your not alone I’m super nervous at the prospect xx

  • If you PM me your email address I will add you xx

  • It’s a great idea but worth mentioning that there is one on there from fertility network uk. It’s private and is for pregnant women after ivf. I joined but left after my last miscarriage xx

  • Ah is there but is it secret tugsgirl?xx

  • Yeah it’s a private group. One of the admins posted it on here a couple of months back I think. No reason why you can’t still set up your own though xx

  • Hi Vicky, do u remember the name of this one as I tried looking for it some weeks ago but with no joy?! xxx

  • Sounds great x

  • If you PM me your email address I will add you xx

  • Sounds good x

  • If you PM me your email address I will add you xx

  • Please let me know the details once it's set up.

    Thanks x

  • If you PM me your email address I will add you xx

  • Where do I join xxx

  • If you PM me your email address I will add you xx

  • Sounds fab x

  • Can everyone who wants to be apart for the group private mail me their email address xx

  • Nattycakes31@googlemail.com x

  • Id like to join please ashleighknight1@hotmail.com

  • great idea x

  • Great idea xx

  • Hi, I joined one on FB a few weeks ago. It’s not very active at the moment but if a few of us from here went on it I’m sure it would become more active.

    m.facebook.com/groups/46699...

  • I think that’s the one I was thinking about ☝️ It’s the fertility network one? xx

  • Oakey80 here it is ☝️ xx

  • Thank you I might join it later in my pregnancy as it’s not private.xx

  • It’s a closed group which I think means that people can see you’re in it if they search for the group but you joining the group and any posts shouldn’t show up on your newsfeed. I can understand you not wanting to take the risk though. Maybe PM the admin to suggest it’s turned to a secret group?

  • Thanks, I’ve made the new secret group now but I will join that soon too xx

  • Please add me Loyce Perseverance is my Facebook name.

  • I need your email lovely xx

  • Thank you Lucyloo.

    Email address is Loyce.Madhava@gmail.com

  • So have been playing on FB tonight and it turns out that it recommends closed groups that it thinks you may like to join (presumably based on your other groups or some other cookie related intel). And shows pictures of your friends in those groups. So your friends may find out you’re in that group. So maybe not a good idea to join unless a) people know you’re pregnant and b) you don’t mind people knowing you’ve got/had fertility problems.

  • That’s why I have made it secret lovely. The group is called “secret group” and nobody can see who is in it. No one unless there a member will see anything xx

  • I would like to join your fb group

  • Just pm me your email address and I will add you xx

  • I would be interested in this, thanks x

  • Just pm me your email address and I will add you xx

  • That’s me added everyone I think 🙈 if you don’t get added just message me again xx

  • x

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