Gave in 9dpt 3dt BFN 😭

[Littledee88]

This morning I just felt like i had to test got a BFN I know it's still early but I have reed a lot of ladies got BFP after 9dpt. My test date is 22nd I feel I want to do few test before then to prepare myself for the bfn😭 still clinging onto hope that it could turn around but not holding my breath for it. Has any ladies tested early got a bfn then it turned into a BFP? Xx

[Lynnr54]

Sorry to hear it's a BFN, could you test again in a couple of days time as it is still very early. I think a lot of the 9dpt BFPs I have read about have been following 5 day transfer so I think there would still be time. Good luck!

[Littledee88 in reply to Lynnr54]

Thanks lynn here's hoping xx

[Cinderella5]

This is still early for a 3 day transfer!! My friend had a 5 day transfer with a negative on day 10 but positive on day 14....just had a beautiful baby girl. I don't want to get your hopes up too much but things can change!xx

[Littledee88 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thanks that story has give me a little bit of hope. Xx

[Amanda86]

I agree, still very early for a 3dt. I'd wait until OTD to check again, if you feel you can't I'd wait at least a couple more days before you test again. Good luck xxx

[Littledee88 in reply to Amanda86]

Thanks Amanda thought the injections & egg retrieval was the hard bit but this is the hardest bit of my journey so far. Xx

[Amanda86 in reply to Littledee88]

Yeah it's definitely hard!! Hope in a couple of days the result changes 🤞🤞 xxx

[itsworks17]

I think it a bit to earlier for 3 day embryo as some women need more days to realise this type of hormone. Don't panic. Lots love to you and hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[Littledee88 in reply to itsworks17]

Thanks Hun I do wish it does turn around xx

[Filmgirl101]

Give it 2 more days minimum and test again! Scary and distressing, but my positive only came through 13 days post 3 day transfer!

[StephyBuch]

Hey, don't be sad just yet. An HPT typically requires around 25 mIU, one needs to reach that threshold to detect a BFP. Now the rate of hormone increase varies in women hence it takes some people more time to reflect a BFP than few others. 9dp3dt can said to be around 12dpo on natural cycle and it's quite early. In spite of having a twin I has my BFP around 15dpo. So, just wait a couple of days and test again. There's still hope at this point of time. Sending you baby dust!

[Littledee88 in reply to StephyBuch]

Thanks Steph going to try again tomorrow got 4 cheap test to take Monday to Thursday before test day on Friday. I feel like if I do this sure if it's bfn then it will soften the blow on Friday of a bfn on test day. I know it's not all over yet but I just feel like shit and have a feeling it's not worked and we had no left overs to freeze so if it's bfn that £5000 down the pan I know I should not look it that way but I can't help it. A lot of money time and tears then nothing at the end of it is just a big kick in the teeth. Xx

[StephyBuch in reply to Littledee88]

Hey, I'll again say - don't feel all negative just yet. Not only there's still time to conclude but you of all need to feel positive at this point of time. Trust me on this, optimism is a boon to pregnancy. You must feel happy ( you need endorphins in your body), don't stress and think of a positive outcome. Don't give up on hope just yet, please!

I totally understand your situation. You may feel like it's all been a waste but deep down you've got to believe it's not over and that you have as much as the chance of a BFP as BFN. I wish you get a BFP and I'm gonna surely pray for it.

[C_L_A_I_R_E]

I think this is too early wait at least till 12dp3dt. 🤞🏻

[Littledee88 in reply to C_L_A_I_R_E]

Thanks going to test again tomorrow got 4 test going to do one every morning before Friday. If they all are negative I think this way will soften the blow on Friday. Is it crazy I am scared of being upset and depressed😞xx

[sanchia46]

I tested early and got a BFN. Tested OTD and the day after did a HCG both results were then BFP.

[Cinderella5 in reply to sanchia46]

Just caught your post! Congratulations Sanchia!!xx

[sanchia46 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thanks Hun. Re-doing the HCG Blood test tomorrow to be sure.

[Cinderella5 in reply to sanchia46]

Woo hoo, best of luck!! Keep us posted!!xx

[StephyBuch in reply to sanchia46]

Congratulations! That's actually a great story and will inspire many to not get disheartened over early BFNs. There can still be a BFP if it has been BFN early. Thanks a ton dear!

[sanchia46 in reply to StephyBuch]

Yes indeed. I had actually given up.

[StephyBuch in reply to sanchia46]

Sometimes things just happen when you least expect it. That's why I keep telling everyone in here, hold onto the hopes. Thinking positive may actually turn the odd events into good ones. I had been through all sorts of primary treatment for my first baby - Stimulations, multiple IUI and a round of IVF too. My infertility was tagged as "unexplained" - don't know if anyone has gone through IVF without considering the actual reason behind infertility. We decided not to go for a second round (no point trying without knowing whats causing it). Like a miracle, I got pregnant naturally after around 8 months. All I know is I believed that this can't be the end.

Maybe, that's a muddled up perception when it comes to reasoning. Maybe the scientific explanation would emphasize on the medications I had earlier. But I know there's more to what meet the eyes.

[Littledee88]

That's wonderful news sanchia congrats on ur BFP and too a healthy happy pregnancy xxx