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Test day and as suspected it's a BFN! Not shocked as knew half way through tww that it was not meant to be! We have both been pretty gutted but we know it's not the end as we still get to try again soon so trying to stay positive for what is a truly rough journey! Congratulations to everyone who got their bfp so far it gives me hope that I'll get mine one day 😁 xxx

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Fredaflintstone

Sorry to hear that Robb. We always look for hope. Hope you and OH are ok. Look after yourselves. Big hugs xxx

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Tugsgirl

Sorry for your bfn xx

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Hannah143

Urg so sorry Hun, I'm gutted for you, be kind to yourself over the next few days. Sending you a big hug xx

So sorry to hear this look after yourself and sending hugs xx

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Ems83

Sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I was the same, also getting another shot soon so trying to be positive . Good luck xx

Take care x

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lorraineb61

so sorry to read this xx

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TeamMonkey

Sorry to hear this, I don't know you're story but for me I had a fail, well an early loss, then then next cycle worked, well has so far. I wish you all the luck in the world xx

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Leo2017

So sorry!! 😒xx

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C_L_A_I_R_E

So sorry to hear this Robb. Big hugs x

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Crowpingpongg

Do not give up hope you will get your happiness. I feel your pain big hugs x

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CountryCat

Very sorry you did not have better news. Thinking of you and admire your fighting spirit xx

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E_05

Sorry to read this, look after yourself x

Thank you ladies! Your all so fab! Not giving up yet xxx

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Amieha in reply to

Hi There,

So sorry to hear this for you, I am testing tomorrow super nervous. How did you know you were going to get a BFN?

If you don't mind me asking?

in reply to Amieha

Hi no its OK, I started bleeding heavily for two days 8pt5dt so I knew it was my period! Few days before it arrived I had period symptoms just guess I know my body too well! Wishing you lots of luck for tomorrow hope you get your bfp! Xxx

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Amanda86

So sorry 😒 Take care xxx

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N_M_10

So sorry to hear this. Take care xxx

in reply to N_M_10

Thank you! Good luck with your egg collection xxx

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Sherry07

So sorry about the sad news πŸ˜• Take care of yourself and stay positive love x

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Cinderella5

Sorry to see that you got a BFN, its so sad to get this result after putting ourselves through so much! Sending big hugs!xx

Really sorry to hear this. Hope you're ok. Good luck for your next round xx

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Elou81

Just wanted you to know i am thinking about you and how much i admire your strength and positivity. I remain hopeful for you and will continue to follow your journey. Wishing you all the best for near future success xxxxxx

in reply to Elou81

Thank you! 😘 congratulations on your bfp! Hope it all goes well for you xxx

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Elou81 in reply to

Thank you. I appreciate that :) xxx

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Prickler

Sorry to hear you got a bfn.

I'm doing my test tomorrow. I've been heavy bleeding since 8dpt. I knew it was period so I'm expecting the same result.

So disappointed xxx

in reply to Prickler

I'm sorry to hear this! Hope your OK take care of yourself xxx

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Persian40

I got BFN today as well hun. Thinking of you. Xx

in reply to Persian40

Aw I'm so sorry 😞 take time and take care xxx

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Persian40

Thanks. You too xx

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Hayley5385

Sorry for you bfn ... big hugs xxx

Oh no πŸ˜“ I'm so sorry to see this (sorry I'm a bit behind I've been away) I hope you're okay and feeling okay in yourself otherwise ❀️ what are your next steps from here? xx

in reply to

Will get an appointment for a review just to chat about treatment and ask any questions then I guess wait for a date to start again! How are you? Everything OK? Xxx

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Gemz29 in reply to

Hi I'm in the same position as you, I've got to wait 6-8 weeks for an appointment, did you have an NHS cycle or private? Xx

in reply to Gemz29

NHS so get two more attempts! No frozen embryos from last cycle so full treatment again I guess! Tough huh! Xxx

in reply to

Yes I'm okay thank you ❀️ rubbish you've got to start from scratch did you do the long or short protocol? Hoping everything runs smoothly for you from here xx

in reply to

I start day two of my cycle so short protocol?! Started in spray but didn't work so then was on injections so took longer but I guess I'll go back on injections so will be quicker this time xxx

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Gemz29

I've been told we were only entitled to one cycle on the NHS..... but In between completing this cycle we moved address, so I'm hoping that may make a difference, booked to see my gp to see if she will refer me again to the new bough we live in....x

in reply to Gemz29

I live in Scotland so slightly different here but depend on your fertility history also but we don't have kids so guess that's why we get three shots! It's not fair it's different rules for different areas! Hope you get another shot at it xxx

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cls37

So sorry to see your BFN- we're in the same boat. Got my BFN in July and seeing the consultant this week to see what happens next. We didn't get any embryos to freeze so will have to start from the beginning next time. Hoping that it will be a little easier as I know a little more about what to expect! Wishing you lots of luck for the future x

in reply to cls37

Thank you! I'm same I didn't know what to expect but I'll be more prepared next time round good luck with your journey hope you get your bfp this time xxx

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acquablue

Hi Robb,

I know its tough just had a negative result yesterday and I feel so heart broken... But I believe that there's a sun that shine after the rain. One day it will be our turn :-) take care

in reply to acquablue

Thank you yip we will get our bfp next time xxx

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