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Well thats me officially out - knew friday afternoon. Think this forum has made it abit easy. Expectations were realistic watching everyone elses results come in. It has been harder than i expected both physically from ec onwards and emotionally from Friday morn. I dont know hows you continue on. This was my one and only attempt at ivf. October brings me to 3 yrs ttc. I honestly believe its not in the plan for some ppl - me included. When i started off i couldnt give a sh*t but after about 18 months it had started to reel me in bit by bit.

Reading your stories has def helped. Good luck to all of you who continue to carry on xx

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C_L_A_I_R_E

Be kind to yourself E80 and do the things you enjoy again! Thinking of you x

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7AVA

Really sorry to hear this. Be kind to yourself today. Xxx

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Rainbow_86

So so sad to read this.... look after yourself... it a so cruel x

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Tugsgirl

Sorry to read this. Bfns are cruel xx

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E_05

Give yourself some time, BFN are heart breaking. Look after yourself - today especially xx

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teeny1966

Bless you lovely xx

Huge cuddles coming your way xxxxxx

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Sunshine09

So sorry, take time to heal, 😘 you will no in your heart what to next. Xx

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pm27

I'm so sorry, BFNs are so unfair unfortunately it's a lottery, the odds are against us. Take time to grieve and recover.

I'm really sorry... Give you time to heal. We really don't know what life will bring us and there are many things we can't change, so try and focus on those you can fight for. All the best and lots of hugs

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Hormomalmess

Big hugs xx

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Cinderella5

It is crap getting a BFN. I think you're right, being on here does make it a bit easier though not much. I hope you have something nice planned & wish you all the best with where you go from here!xx

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N_M_10

Sorry to hear your news! Take care xxxx

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