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Early EPU scan tomorrow (2nd August)

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I'm so anxious about my early scan tomorrow . Last time I went in January it was a blighted ovum . We went in all excited but came out heartbroken and devastated . The morning sickness has well and truly kicked in now but for some reason it still doesn't make my anxiety any less . I have a feeling this will work out but I can not get past my fears of loss or another blighted ovum . I also have another hcg test tomorrow I wasn't feeling so good this morning and felt unwell .

Am I being over cautious about this pregnancy ? X

Hope you are all well at which ever point of journey you are at . Lots of love xx

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What your feeling is perfectly normal. Good luck and hope this time you come out excited xx

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Thank you I just can't shake the feeling of precious experiences x

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Angelita_ta

Fear Romanula!

I think you can't be overexcited :) I'm just at the beginning but sometimes just can't concentrate on work or anything. I hold my fingers for you and hope you're gonna be fine!!!

It is probably hard not to think about past experiences, but should find a way to. Cause it's really exhausting ... My experience isn't similar, but years ago (and I do regret it like nothing else in my life!) I made an abortion. And now, being in the beginning of the journey, I just can't get rid of the thought that I might not succeed because of that sin. That I do not deserve. And I know that this is a killing thought. But sometimes just can't cope with it. It's like ghosts, right? I hope you find your way to deal with yours. xx

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romaluna2015โ€ข in reply toAngelita_ta

At the time you made the decision what you thought was best for you.. your not being punished . I'm here if you ever need a chat xx

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Angelita_taโ€ข in reply toromaluna2015

Thank you, dear. I know you've wrote your post to find some support. But then maybe you can share how do you deal with those thoughts? That it might fail? You know, I realized typing this message that I never talked to anyone about that. It's like I really feel guilty and ashamed... yes, at that time I thought it was the solution ...

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romaluna2015โ€ข in reply toAngelita_ta

I don't always deal with my thoughts in the best way . I tend to get into a big anxiety panic before anything bad happens but if it doesn't happen then I've had a panic attack and an anxiety attack for nothing. I suffer with depression and anxiety anyway . But over the 4 years of my journey I've found it made it worse at times . I'm learning that I am stronger than I thought I was though because I keep going. But I never thought this journey would be this journey if that makes sense x

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Cinderella5

Well I've never been in your position but it must be so nerve racking!! Wishing you lots of luck for tomorrow, I've got everything crossed for you!!๐Ÿคžxx

All the best with the scan. I'm terrified about my scan. I hope it goes very well and see little ones heart beating ๐Ÿ˜ xoxo

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Oakey80

Hello, I'm sure nothing will put your mind at ease until you see your little one on the screen tomorrow! However even if it helps a tiny bit I read that chanced of a 2nd blighted ovum are ridiculously rare so I'd say you're good to go! xxx

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Lou9

Best of luck with your scan - sending positivity your way. Xx ๐Ÿ€

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romaluna2015

Thank you everyone . Hoping I see a healthy heart beating away xx

Good luck my lovely, looking forward to reading some good news tomorrow!! I'll be thinking of you xxx

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Hampshiregal

Hiya I just posted something similar. I've just over two weeks till my scan. I had blighted ovum last time. I sort of felt like my symptoms had gone. My OH was totally gutted not to see anything on the screen. I'm also constantly thinking the same will happen this time.

I really hope your scan goes well. Thinking of you xx

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romaluna2015โ€ข in reply toHampshiregal

It's such a horrible feeling isn't it ๐Ÿ˜ž . I'm on my way there now but feeling a mixture of emotions xx

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Hampshiregalโ€ข in reply toromaluna2015

Thinking of you xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Good luck for today hun. I hope your scan goes well. Sending lots of love x

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romaluna2015โ€ข in reply toAllWeNeedIsluv

Thank you :) xx

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Lucyloo81

Good luck today xx

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romaluna2015โ€ข in reply toLucyloo81

Thank you :) xx

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Tugsgirl

Good luck ๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€ xx

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romaluna2015

Thank you everyone ๐Ÿ’• Xx

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London7

I hope it goes well today! I felt the same way about my scan - it is a scary time especially after everything we've been through x

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