After trying for a while i was told to go to a clinic and have the test and yes i have a low sperm count, we then got on the big roundabout of NHS fertility treatment and now after 2years of spinning round and round we have jumped off. as we are a little over 35 we can not get any advice or help.
I have had a retrieval operation so my little fella's are chilling somewhere in a freezer waiting to be called up for duty. My good lady has done so much research over the time on the web which has helped us through the maze but now is proving to be a hindrance as we feel every one is on the money grabbing band wagon and just telling us what we want to hear, all facts are contradicting themselves, we even went for a consultation and professional gentleman who said the opposite as to what he wrote in a journal.
My partner is at a all time low all we want to do is find a clinic where people actually feel like they care for us and what we are trying to achieve.
We understand that it may not work the 1st time and we understand that we should have a back up sperm doner and we understand that it will cost.
i am after some advice on clinics but also some counselling as i can't bear to see my partner go through this mental stress any more.
thank you for your time