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did I dream I would be writing this this morning! NEVER!

We did it. Despite zero symptoms and a heavy dose of fatalism on my part, we got our first ever BFP this morning. I still cannot believe it. I was so sure it hadn't worked, that I peed into a cup and told my husband to do the test for me as I didn't want to even look at yet another negative!

Well, he came and sat down on the bed next to me and I said :"I don't want to see it" and he said "Oh yes you do!" and shoved the test stick under my nose. Well...I pretty much went hysterical for about 5 minutes...I cried and cried from sheer joy and kept saying "I don't believe it!".

I would never have survived this ridiculously hard process without the love and care showered on me by all the incredible women on this forum. I cannot thank you enough for this.

It is VERY early days still and we don't want to get ahead of ourselves, but just for today, we are allowing ourselves to feel pure bliss xxx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi CountryCat. Well done both of you! Sooo pleased for you. When you come back down to earth, speak to your clinic/GP about booking your first scan at 6-7 weeks, so you can get to meet your little "bean". Fabulous start to the week. Diane

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CountryCat in reply to DianeArnold

Thank you so much, we are delighted x

OH MY GOD! Wonderful news. Oh countycat I'm so happy for you! My sister also had no symptoms when she conceived​ my niece after TTC for over a year. Wishing the very best with the pregnancy- you really deserve this so much. Yes this site is an amazing community of wonderful people- I'd be lost without it. Congratulations. Enjoy 🎉🎉🎉🎉 x

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CountryCat in reply to

Thank you hunny, still in massive shock and hoping it's all going to go well xx

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_Rose_

What lovely news , enjoy your BFP and wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy !! Yay xxx

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CountryCat in reply to _Rose_

Aw bless you - thanks for the kind words xx

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emma-jane-30

That is amazing news congratulations to you both and I hope you go on to have a happy and smooth pregnancy xxxx

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CountryCat in reply to emma-jane-30

Thank you so much for the support xx

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72cloud9

Fantastic news! Much love xxx

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CountryCat in reply to 72cloud9

Appreciate the lovely words, thanks!

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emu2016

Now I'm crying!!!!!!!! Wonderful wonderful news. So very happy for you xxxxx

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CountryCat in reply to emu2016

YAY! Many thanks Guru! It has been the most manic day at work today - quite rotten actually - but you cannot wipe the smile off my face xx

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emu2016 in reply to CountryCat

Guru! Hahahahahaha! Can't believe you managed a day in work too! But I bet it was a nice feeling all day! x

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Cinderella5

Oh my goodness! Ive been waiting to hear from you today! Im sooooo glad and happy that you got good news! Absoutely truly delighted for you both!! Congratulations!!xx

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CountryCat in reply to Cinderella5

That is wonderful of you, thanks so much xx

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Gueritarubia

Huge congratulations!!

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CountryCat in reply to Gueritarubia

Many thanks x

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Fredaflintstone

That's such fantastic news Countrycat and husband. I'm so pleased for you! Congratulations! 😀😀😀😀😀😀 xxx

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CountryCat in reply to Fredaflintstone

I like that...and husband!

Thank you for your sweet words xx

Amazing!!! Huge huge congratulations to you both xxxxxx

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CountryCat in reply to

Many thanks! We are still floating on cloud 9.

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Kattalex1

Congratulations... Always nice to hear sucess stories... Keep us posted! :)

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CountryCat in reply to Kattalex1

Great to read your lovely words, thanks xx

Yeyyyyyy absolutely lovely news, massive massive congratulations!! So pleased for you.

Enjoy every minute xx

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CountryCat in reply to

Whoop whoop! Bless you! Thanks for the congrats xx

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Asweetpea

So pleased for you. Congratulations to you both.xxxx

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CountryCat in reply to Asweetpea

Thanks so much, it feels totally surreal but brilliant. xx

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NDE1987

Congratulations hunny so happy for you!!! Xx

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CountryCat in reply to NDE1987

It is so lovely of you to comment...I have been thinking of you today. much love and hugs xxx

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NDE1987 in reply to CountryCat

😗😗😗 enjoy this moment Hun! This is your time :) wishing you a healthy pregnancy xxx

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Tugsgirl

Ah I remember that feeling! It's wonderful despite being in floods of tears, happy tears! Enjoy it! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy xx

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CountryCat in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you hunny...your turn again soon I hope xx

Don't forget to post pics of your bun once he arrives.

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7AVA

Wow - that's incredible, I'm so pleased for you 😊😊

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CountryCat in reply to 7AVA

That's so nice of you, thank you for the good wishes xx

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misswinky34

Oh my goodness what marvellous news. Your always such a support on here. You truly deserve it. So pleased for you 😆

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CountryCat in reply to misswinky34

That is a truly heartwarming thing to hear, thanks...I couldn't get by without my 'ladies' xxx

Yippee great news, so happy for you congratulations xxx

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CountryCat in reply to

Thank you hun...hope things are continuing well for you x

in reply to CountryCat

So far so good x

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Lamb82

Congratulations! X

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CountryCat in reply to Lamb82

Many thanks x

Oh CountryCat I'm so thrilled for you. What absolutely fabulous news. Enjoy every moment! xx

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CountryCat in reply to

Never thought this day would come. Trying to be cautiously optimistic, but my heart is running away with the whole idea ;)

Thank you for the support and kind words.

Lovely news congratulations hope u have a happy and healthy pregnancy xx

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CountryCat in reply to

Thank you for taking the time to respond - much appreciated xx

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Ghappy

Well done!! Congratulations for both!! Lots of love❤️

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CountryCat in reply to Ghappy

Lots of love right back!

Country cat i just want to cry tears of joy for you what wonderful news wishing you all the best for the coming days, weeks and months xxx

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CountryCat in reply to

Such a beautiful thing to say...thank you. It has been a very tearful day today, but in a good way xx

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Leesalou

Congratulations xx

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CountryCat in reply to Leesalou

Lovely, thank you xx

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Scarlett13

Well that gave me goosebumps and brought a tear to my eye - I could visualise that whole scene and can only imagine the joy - congratulations and good luck for the rest of your pregnancy xxx

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CountryCat in reply to Scarlett13

It was a bit mad this morning, but very memorable. Thank you for the kind words xx

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Sprinkles86

Yessss!!!!! That's fantastic news I'm so pleased for you! Enjoy every moment xxxx

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CountryCat in reply to Sprinkles86

Thank you hunny xx

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ICSIBaby86

That is amazing ❤️ a dream come true xxxxxxx

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CountryCat in reply to ICSIBaby86

Thank you for the response xx

Yesssssss! So pleased for you and your hubby, fantastic news! Xxxx

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CountryCat in reply to

Bless you, it's all still sinking in! Many thanks!

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Amanda86

Huge congratulations 😀 Xxx

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CountryCat in reply to Amanda86

Thanks very much xx

The loveliest news Countrycat. Xxx 😚

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CountryCat in reply to Heelsandhunters84

Just been out to my favourite American diner to celebrate! Thanks for the kind words xx

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Krushby89

Congratulations!!!! 😍👍🏽👶🏽

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CountryCat in reply to Krushby89

Many thanks xx

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Lucylu_88

What lovely news. Congratulations!!!

Wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy.

xx

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CountryCat in reply to Lucylu_88

Appreciate the good vibes and positive wishes xx

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kelsbels88

OMG! Yay! Congratulations! So pleased for you! Hope everything goes well and Enjoy every moment 😊 xx

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CountryCat in reply to kelsbels88

Bless you, thanks so so much xx

Congratulations!!!! Brilliant news hun xxx

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CountryCat in reply to

Ta very much, lovely to hear from you xx

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_MrsC

Wow! What lovely news! Huge congratulations! x

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CountryCat in reply to _MrsC

The best!

Thank you for your wishes xx

Congratulations country cat.enjoy the pregnancy.you deserve to feel so happy about it.😄😄😄

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CountryCat in reply to

What a lovely thing to say, thank you xx

That is just amazing news and your post made me shed a tear. Huge huge congrats to you xxx

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CountryCat in reply to

Thanks very much for such a lovely sentiment xx

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Aleelilook

Congratulations!!!! Wonderful wonderful news!! Xxx

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CountryCat in reply to Aleelilook

Thank you xx

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lou79

I am so delighted to hear this!!!!! Many congrats to you and hubby! Wishing you all the best with your pregnancy xx

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CountryCat in reply to lou79

That's lovely of you, thanks!

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baby2016

Amazing News!!!! Huge congrats to you both xx

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CountryCat in reply to baby2016

Thanks v v much!

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Kyell2

Congratulations! Thats lovely news, even better that it caught you by surprise and you have a lovely 'finding out' story to tell 😊

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CountryCat in reply to Kyell2

Was completely shocked!! Best surprise of my life xx Thanks for the kind words.

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Flossy85

Aww huge congratulations 😀 so happy for you both! You deserve this after so many years, enjoy every minute xx ❤

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CountryCat in reply to Flossy85

It did kinda feel like it was some elusive dream that was never going to come true, but we are so pleased. Thank you very much for the good wishes xx

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NMP1026

Sorry it's a little late but so happy for you xx

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CountryCat in reply to NMP1026

Not at all! Lovely of you to comment, thanks xx

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Daxi16

Brought tears to my eyes! So happy for you both xx

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Daxi16 in reply to Daxi16

PS- so no symptoms was your symptom after all 😉 xx

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CountryCat in reply to Daxi16

LOL...yup,absolutely none...too weird 😵

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Magc27

Lovely news. Wishing you a healthy and smooth pregnancy. X

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CountryCat in reply to Magc27

Appreciate the good wishes, thank you xx

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Llama1

Yippeeee! Such great news. Congratulations! xx

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Llama1

Yippeeee! Such great news. Congratulations xx

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Gem11

Great news xxx

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Rosalietea

Wahooo!!!! That is great news CountryCat!!! So pleased for you. Well done you clever thing. Just goes to show positivity isn't the be all and end all. Enjoy every moment of happiness this brings you both. Sending hugs x

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CountryCat in reply to Rosalietea

Thank you so much xxx

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Sunshine09

So so pleased 😁 for you both, congratulations, keep Believing 🌈❤💋💋

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CountryCat in reply to Sunshine09

We are SO happy, thanks for the good wishes xx

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Abbie25

Congratulations I'm so happy for you...your post brought tears to my eyes...I hope I will be sharing my BFP soon. Have a healthy happy 9 months.

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CountryCat in reply to Abbie25

Lovely response, thanks! Appreciate it enormously xxx

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MichM

Lovely news, so pleased for you, congratulations ❤️ x x x

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CountryCat in reply to MichM

Thanks ever so much xx

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anna0908

Huge congrats. Amazing news. Hope the wait for your scan doesn't drag too much! It's amazing to see your little bean for the first time. Especially when you had given up hope of it ever happening xx

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CountryCat in reply to anna0908

I was a bit shocked when the midwife said I would only be scanned at 12 weeks for the first time! We weren't happy with that so are having a private scan at 8 weeks...not patient enough to wait that long!! Thanks so much for the kind words xxx

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anna0908 in reply to CountryCat

We booked a private scan too as couldn't wait til 12 weeks. Worth every penny! 8 weeks is a good point too as more to see than at 6 weeks, and much less chance of miscarriage following a positive 8 week scan. Did give us a lot of reassurance xx

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CountryCat in reply to anna0908

Fab, good to hear 💖

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Bsrtaycaeny

Lovely news 💕💕 xxx

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CountryCat in reply to Bsrtaycaeny

Bless you! Thanks!

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Caz87

Congratulations! I love to read these ones! 😁 Sending positive vibes for a happy and healthy pregnancy xx

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CountryCat in reply to Caz87

Very much appreciate the kindness and good wishes xx

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Sez73

I've never been a fan of eggs benedict but for you, I'll make an exception!! Thrilled to read your news, am so chuffed for you and you so deserve to have a little ray of happiness shining right down on you! Appreciate it's v early days, but here's to many more happy weeks and months ahead for you & hubbie. I'm embarking on donor treatment soon and there's been some great success stories recently which have really boosted me up and given me hope in what has been very dark times. Hopefully the success stories will keep on spreading for more lovely ladies out there. Big hugs and huge congrats...you only went and did it!!! 😘

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CountryCat in reply to Sez73

Thanks very much indeed!

I wish you all the best with your treatment. Any form of IVF is stressful, anxious, tiring and hard, BUT I cannot fault my clinic...they have been superb and they made the whole process uncomplicated and simple. I really hope that your experience is the same and that there will be some life-changing news at the end of it for you. I will watch the boards for updates. Good luck xxx

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romaluna2015

Lovely news congratulations x

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CountryCat in reply to romaluna2015

Thanks so much for the support xx

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Suze4

Congratulations, enjoy this moment x

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CountryCat in reply to Suze4

Thanks a lot!

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emden6

Congratulations lovely news x

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CountryCat in reply to emden6

Bless you, thanks for the wishes xx

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Hollibob

Great news...congrats x

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CountryCat in reply to Hollibob

Thank you!

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Ditsy21

Whoop, whoop!! Congratulations, such fantastic news! X

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CountryCat in reply to Ditsy21

Appreciate the good wishes, thank you xx

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Ro5ie

Wow congratulations hun wishes for a happy and healthy pregnancy xx

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CountryCat in reply to Ro5ie

Read your incredible news today...double joy!! So delighted for you xx

Thanks for the kind response!

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Ro5ie in reply to CountryCat

Thank you ive tried to get round to responding to everyone im going to be a very busy mum we already have a 14 month old so were like omg theres gonna be 2 more haha xx

I know this is old, and I've just seen your scan thread, but I was interested in seeing your story and this just made me well up over my lunch. It gives me hope. Congrats again. Xx

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CountryCat in reply to

Bless you, that is really good of you! Thanks for the kind words xxx

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CountryCat in reply to CountryCat

Fingers crossed for a great result for you xx

in reply to CountryCat

Thank you xx

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tiger-cub

Well done my dear

So so happy for both of u

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