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Drama in the night. πŸ‘‡ Update!

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So everything was going so well until half an hour a go. I woke with a bad cramp bad enough to wake me and then I felt a rush of blood. Went to the toilet an a walnut sized clot came out. I have/had all the symptoms. High hcg which was doubling every 36 hours. I am not sure if this is the start of a miscarriage or can this happen for other reasons? Any comments greatfully received. Xx

So I had my scan and 2 embryos were found. One looking good. Faint heartbeat which the scanner thought had started today and measuring 3mm. The other sac had a foetal pole and measured 2.3mm but no heart beat yet... and more concerning is that it has an irregular shape. She is scanning me a week today to see it becomes viable. The reason for the bleed is that it is common with multiples and it's about fighting for room and apparently because with ivf they thicken your lining so much you are far more likely to have a bleed. Mixed emotions really. I am of course pleased but left feeling deflated which is stupid as I should feel really greatful.

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I'm really sorry I don't have any advice but wanted you to know that I'm thinking if you & that everything will be ok xxxx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply to

I agree and if it's not okay there is a damn good reason why not. Thanks sweetie. Xx

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London7

I also don't have any advice but wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you and crossing everything that this turns out to be nothing and all is okay. Hopefully you can speak to your clinic soon to work it out. Xx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply toLondon7

All a rollercoaster. Thanks for your kind words. Xx

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_MrsC

Oh dear! I'm sorry Hun. I hope everything is alright. Thinking of you. xxx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply to_MrsC

Ì appreciate that hunny. Xx

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Aleelilook

Don't panic just yet, I know bloody hard not to, phone your local EPU and they'll probably do another blood test, and phone your clinic also, good luck Hun, thinking of you xxxx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply toAleelilook

Thank you hun. Had bloods on Monday and they were 14111 which is high so I was very confident. In for a scan at 1pm today. Xxx

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emu2016

How are you? :( did you call the clinic? xxx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply toemu2016

Booked in for a scan at 1pm. I am not getting overly worked up now as I can't do anything but wait. Bleeding has stopped. Will keep you posted. Xxx

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emu2016β€’ in reply toHeelsandhunters84

Glad it's stopped. Thinking of you xx

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Tugsgirl

Thinking of you. Hope all is ok 🀞 xx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply toTugsgirl

Thank you xxx

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CountryCat

Hope your scan shows that everything is 100%! Will be thinking of you xx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply toCountryCat

Thank you. 😚

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CountryCatβ€’ in reply toHeelsandhunters84

Glad of your update but understand that you would have mixed emotions at the moment. At least you are okay and so far, your two twiglets are as well. Keeping everything crossed that it stays that way xx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply toCountryCat

Thank you. There is a bit of hope for the irregular one but as you say they are still both there. Xxx

Hope all is ok at your scan xx

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Lou290901

Hiya, I really hope you're scan this afternoon goes well, this could be nothing, we will be thinking of you Hunni. Fingers crossed x

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply toLou290901

Thank you. Trying to stay positive. Xxx

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72cloud9

Oh gosh that must have given u a fright!! I think from what friends have told me, this can be quite common & not necessarily a bad sign!! Hopefully your scan can put your mind at rest! Let us know xxx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply to72cloud9

Thank you. The lady at the scan clinic said it's not uncommon with ivf. Feel like my body has been saying something with mild light brown discharge. It's going to be a long morning waiting. Xxx

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Cinderella5

Oh what a worry, you must have gotten such a fright! Glad to head its stopped, hope all is well at your scan!xx

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Oakey80

I'm my goodness...what a fright! I'm sure it will all be ok though...let us all know how it goes xxx

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misswinky34

How frightening, hope it's good news for you xxxxx

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tiger-cub

Oh dear . Maybe it's just a clot and nothing much to worry about. However u won't b at peace until d scan confirm so . Don't worry dear . Ull b fine 😘

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Macca13

Hope all ok and scan goes ok later xx

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Jonesjp

I hope everything goes well with your scan hunny x x x

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tiger-cub

Any updates my dear

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply totiger-cub

Thanks hun. Update above xx

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emu2016

Just checking in on you xx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply toemu2016

Thanks lovely. Update above. Xxx

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emu2016β€’ in reply toHeelsandhunters84

Mixed emotions from me too! Look after yourself xx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply toemu2016

Thanks love. Need to get over myself. Xxx

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emu2016β€’ in reply toHeelsandhunters84

Not at all! It must have been a bit worrying xx

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Fredaflintstone

Hope all is ok x

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Tugsgirl

Read your update; at least it isn't all over which is obviously great news. Hoping that the second one soon catches up 🀞 xx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply toTugsgirl

Thanks hunny. Yes goes to show that a bleed and clot isn't the end of the world. Xx

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7AVA

Good to read your update. Hope all goes well xx

What an emotional day you have had, hope everything carries on progressing ok xxx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply to

Thanks Button. Think I am just coming down from it all. Xxx

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Lou290901

That is really good news after what you went through in the night. Keep positive. X

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply toLou290901

Thank you. Hopefully when people search on here in the future they will find a good news story to help others xx

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Oakey80

Aw what a day...but so glad it's good news. I was thinking about you loads! xx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply toOakey80

Really appreciate that. I opted to have 2 put in to improve my chances of 1. So feeling a bit better. You know more than anyone that it is such an emotional merry go round with very little merry. Xxx

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Oakey80β€’ in reply toHeelsandhunters84

I'm due my next transfer on the 22/6 and so want 2 put back in...but they don't put two in as standard until I'm 37...and I'm not 37 til November! Do you think it'll work if I stamp my feet and cry lol!! xx

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Heelsandhunters84β€’ in reply toOakey80

I tend to do that a lot as pointed out by my husband this afternoon. However it is going to be a well informed argument why you should. I understand they have relaxed the 1 embryo rule in this country. I say be awkward and no one likes a crying face. Xxx

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Cinderella5

What mixed feelings you must have after your scan! Just wanted to say that I'm thinking of you!!xx

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London7

I'm so glad to see the update. I've been thinking of you and will continue to do so - hoping the second one catches up and that everything progresses well from here. Xx

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