Test day looming 😳

Hi everyone, so my 2ww is almost over and tomorrow it's test day which I'm terrified about. This is our last chance for me to have my own baby due to my age so its either going to be the best news I've waited my whole adult life to hear or it will be a devastating end to my dreams of carrying my own child. I'm back at work today trying to keep my mind off it but it isn't really working, it's all I can think about 😟 πŸ™πŸ» Any tips for keeping calm? Xxxx

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  • Really hope you get the best news tomorrow. My test date is coming up on Friday but AF is due tomorrow and I can feel it there so not feeling hopeful at all (I haven't made it to test day on any of previous cycles as AF shows before), so can only think you reaching OTD is a positive sign :-).

    Have you had any symptoms?

    Wishing all the luck x

  • Thanks lovely, I've had period-like crampy feelings since Saturday but no bleeding (touch wood). AF came day after test date last time so hard to tell if this is s good sign or not. Fingers crossed! Good luck for Friday πŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€ xx

  • Oh Hun nothing I say will help you to keep calm but I do so very wish you get the best news, sending lots and lots of baby dust your way!!! Just keep on breathing and go for a walk if you can xoxo

  • Thanks hon, I'm hoping & praying our dream will come true too xxxx

  • Keep believing not long to go now xxx

  • Ah thanks hon xxx

  • I'm not doing too well on the calm side either Hun so probably not the best advisor but can totally empathise as in very similar boat. I'm wishing u all the best & sending u lots of positive vibes for a BFP!!! xxx

  • Thanks lovely, it's so hard isn't it. Best of luck for your test date too πŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€ xxx

  • Wishing you lots of luck for tomorrow. I also have my test day tomorrow so nervous.

    Just keep positive an calm that's all we can do really. X

  • Many thanks and best of luck to you too xx

  • Thank you xx

  • Wishing you all the best and tons of positivity, hope that you get a bfp tomorrow, sending hugs too xx

  • Many thanks lovely, hope you're doing ok xx

  • Good luck!! πŸ€

  • Thank you 😊

  • Good luck 🀞🏼 Xx

  • Thanks Kloulou83 πŸ‘πŸΌ

  • Wishing you so much luck for tomorrow CheshireKit xx

  • Thank you lovely 😊

  • Hey there hope u get the bfp fingers crossed do u have any interesting symptoms. Xxx

  • Thanks so much. I've had some weird crampy feelings in my tummy since Saturday but no sore boobs some any of the usual signs but I'm still really hoping we'll get our BFP πŸ™πŸ»πŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€πŸ€πŸ€ xx

  • I know exactly how you feel cheshirekit. I am feeling exactly the same about my test date esp when i have period pains now and would be due today so that has worried me more. What about going out for a nice meal with your other half tonight to take the presdure off. When you get back put a good comedy on to make you laugh and hopefully distract you for an hour or so. Its our last chance to have our own baby as we dont have anymore embryos left sadly. I am keeping everything crossed for you. Im sure you will get your bfp xx

  • Thanks hon, some very good advice, sadly I got held up at work sorting an issue and my OH has man flu so couldn't convince him to go out so we ended up watching depressing drama about the Shannon Matthews case 😬 Still it was a distraction for a little while!! Best of luck with your test day 🀞🏼 πŸ€ Xx

  • I have been thinking of you..will continue to send good vibes your way for tomorrow..got everything crossed xxxxxxxx

  • Thanks so much vic77 i feel I need it at the mo. Keep crossing til I tell you to stop! πŸ˜‰πŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌ Xxxxx

  • Still crossed xxx

  • Aww CheshireKit, I was wondering how you were doing. Sending you bucket loads of good luck and BFP vibes for tomorrow, I have a feeling it will be good news for you! Xx

  • Many thanks lovely, we really hope so too πŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€πŸ€πŸ€. Hope all's well with you xxx

  • Ah cheshirekit I've been wondering about your otd. Sending you lots of positive thoughts, we are all rooting for you! Xxx

  • Fab stuff πŸ‘πŸΌ Many thanks Strawb86 please do keep up the positive thoughts πŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€πŸ€πŸ€ xx

  • Good luck for tommorow it's such a difficult journey isn't it praying for some positive news for you xxx

  • Thank you lovely xx

  • Best of luck Cheshirekit!! It's close now... πŸ€

  • Too close!! Thanks πŸ‘πŸΌ Xx

  • Good luck for tomorrow, I really hope now is your turn! Lots of love xx

  • Will be praying all goes well, and you get a BFP, rest up, have an early night and relax. Maybe listen to some calm music. My wife's been listening to this meditation music on Spotify...it's by Bree Taylor Molyneaux ( it's to do with fertility mindset)

  • Ooh sounds interesting I'll have to check it out, thanks for the tip

  • Thank you all so much for your fab messages and positive thoughts. It means the world to me to have your support and you've all been such an amazing help through this challenging journey 😊 Fingers crossed for everyone testing this week and sending all the very best for everyone's journeys 😘 πŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€πŸ€πŸ€πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ» Xxxx

  • Good luck xx

  • Thank you! 😊 Xx

  • Good luck for tomorrow. I'm a couple more days away from otd but finding it harder as it gets closer. So hard when you have decided it's your last go and feels like your life is about to go in 1 direction or another. This was going to be our last go but now its so close, im not sure we are ready to call it quits. It is such a hard decision to make. Hoping tomorrow answers all your prayers. Sending all the positive vibes I can πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€

  • Thank you for your positive vibes, please keep them coming!! πŸ‘πŸΌπŸ™πŸ»πŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€πŸ€ xx

  • Good luck for tomorrow xx

  • Many thanks Kelly-03 xx

  • I just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you this morning and wishing you all the very best for a positive result. Fingers and toes crossed for you! X

  • Good luck xxπŸ’‹

  • Good luck!!

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