I'm so nervous!

It's my first every IVF/ICSI so obviously I don't know if what I'm feeling is the pessaries causing side effects or early pregnancy.

I've had 2/3 years of negative tests so I don't see how tomorrow's results will be any different. We've never fallen pregnant. Then again I've never had an embryo in my womb so this may possibly work??

Any words of wisdom to help keep me calm and positive. Just got the usual symptoms, sore boobs, cramps and horrendous mood swings (husband is loving my mood swings πŸ˜’)

Really want to make my husband proud!! He's so supportive but I wanna be able to have our own little family, especially when our younger siblings have them.

He's 32 and I'm 27. Thanks for reading xxxx

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  • Of course it may work! You have a better chance than you've ever had. Some women get symptoms and some don't, there's really no way to tell.. Good luck for tomorrow.. If you get that dreaded bfn then take some time to process it and come back fighting! You have got age on your side 😊 Any way, I hope to see your bfp news tomorrow 🀞 X

  • Awh thank you very much! I never really thought of it as I have a bigger chance now - which is true, your right! Husband is coming home from work soon so we're both gonna try and chill, have some naughty take out and just watch some films!

    Keep having dreams where my tests have come back positive! Hope that's a clue 😏

    Thank you, you've really cheered me up xxx

  • Have a lovely evening xx

  • Excited to see your result tomorrow! Lots of baby dust to you xx

  • Thank you 😊

  • Just wanted to say good luck hun! Well done for not caving in early and testing :) love how positive you are aswell! Best of luck xxx

  • It's been sooo hard to not cave!! Thank you xx

  • Good luck for tomorrow!!!! All my πŸ™πŸΌ for you, hopefully u will get a BFP xx

  • I'm so nervous 😩

  • Good luck lady! x

  • Thank you so much 😊

  • Good luck!!! X

  • Thank you 😘

  • Good luck for tomorrow x

  • Thank you 😊

  • Evening Lynsey

    Thanks for sharing...... I wish you all the very best for m tomorrow. Totally get s d understand what your feeling, me and the wife had just gone through our VERY FIRST ivf ( I'm 41 and the wife is 38), she's 15 weeks pregnant from FET of ICSI. Just remain positive, you've done so well to get this far & I'm sure your hubby is very proud with everything you have had to go through.

    If you need any further advise then please feel free to inbox and I'll be happy to help. We are all in this together and need to support one another throughout this journey.

    My wife used to listen on "Spotify" ( subscription music app you can download) and downloaded music by "Bree Taylor Molyneaux" - Relaxing & Meditation"

    ( it's specifically for IVF)

  • Thank you very much for your kind words! It's so stressful and hard not knowing! I'm so nervous to do the test!

    I'm so happy for you and your wife, it's comforting to know that it can work so there is hope!

    Thank you 😊

  • Just hold on to that hope Lynsey...will be thinking of you guys tomorrow and, just take it easy and have a relaxing evening

  • Thank you very much!! Your positive feedback has helped me out 😊

  • Good luck for tomorrow Hun, I will have everything crossed for you, and look forward to seeing your BFP news xxxx

  • Thank you very much!! Just so nerve racking! Xx

  • Oh Hun i know EXACTLY how you feel, I woke up the morning of my test day and I was trying to hold in my wee for as long as possible because I was so nervous, I held it for about 45 mins but then I thought I was going to burst lol. I was shaking so bad I couldn't even hold the test properly it was horrible. Xxx

  • Yeah that's how I feel! It's I'm the bathroom all ready and it's made it seem so real.

    Husbands unfortunately at work tomoz so we're doing it together in the morning!

    I kinda wanna do it without him because I'm embarrassed I'll have to tell him it hasn't worked!

    Either day we will never know until morning πŸ™„

  • Getting it set up just takes me bk to mine as I was exactly the same it's horrible isn't it.

    So you going to do it when you both wake up? Xxx

  • Yeah he starts work at 7am so gonna try and do it before then, otherwise I'll have to hold it in until lunch time when he pops home, think that'll drive me even more insane! 6 hours to go 🀞🏼

  • I was awake at half 5 and held on for 45 mins then had to go loo as couldn't hold it any longer lol. Well try and get your head done and not long now to find out xxx

  • Morning everyone!

    Just thought I'd update everyone seen as though you were all lovely and helped me keep sane last night!

    Well it's a BFP I can't believe it!!! I'm in sooo much shock! These past 2 weeks have been hell on earth, what with the emotions and the dreaded unknown but it does go to show that these thing can and will happen, so I wish everyone all the luck in the world! If I can, anyone can!

    Thank you so much to everyone who took the time to talk to me and shared your advice! You guys have no idea how much happier I felt reading all the comments!

    Miracles do happen!


  • This is literally the first thing I've read as woken up. So so so pleased for you! Congratulations! xx

  • Thank you I'm still in shock xxx

  • Oh wow congratulations!! What wonderful news!! Xxx

  • Thank you 😊

  • Congratulations 😘😘 xx

  • Thank you xx

  • Oh that's wonderful news. Congratulations. Xx

  • Thank you xx

  • Huge congratulations!!

  • Thank you 😊

  • Congratulations!!! Lovely news 😊

  • Thank you xx

  • I was thinking about you when I woke up, brilliant news!! So pleased xx

  • Awh bless ya that's lovely! Thank you so much xxx

  • Brilliant news congratulations!!! Ah what a lovely thing to read this morning xxxxx

  • Thank you sooo much for your kind words xxx

  • Congratulations!!!! That's brilliant news. So pleased for you & really gives me hope for my upcoming treatment xxxx

  • Thank you and good luck. Honestly I convinced myself it wouldn't work and now I'm in complete and utter shock!! Good things do happen and the miracle of science is amazing now a days xxx

  • Congrats so happy for you well done xxxx

  • Thank you very much xx

  • Congrats on your bfp.amazing news.inspiring to me starting another round tomorrow.enjoy your pregnancy

  • Thank you and good luck with this cycle!! I didn't think mine would work at all. Pretty much convinced myself i would never see those 2 little lines!! We can do this and we will together xxx

  • Congratulations. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy 🀞 xx

  • Thank you very much! Me too 😘

  • Congratulations!!xx

  • Thank you 😊

  • Congratulations xx

  • Thank you xx

  • Hurrah! Well done xx

  • Thank you xx

  • Congratulations Lynsey, thats amazing news. . .so happy for you !!

    Take it easy in the next few weeks until your 7 week scan. xx

  • Thank you! I have a 6 week scan a week today xxx

  • thats amazing, hope all goes well x

  • Thank you me too xx

  • Wow congratulations.... well done.. so pleased for you x

  • Thank you so much xx

  • As I didn't seen any post about your test results, I said to myself this morning I better check and see if you added any comments....i am so happy for u, as i am in a similar situation as u r, this give me a big hope!!!! Have a lovely pregnancy and all the best for u xx

  • Awh bless ya!! Thank you so much and fingers crossed for you. I convinced myself it wasn't going to work and it did first time! So there is hope after all xx

  • Congratulations lovely!!!! When i read your post i feel so happy for u, to see that miracles do happen. As i am in a similar situation as you are, this post give me a big hope 😊 i wish all in your pregnancy xxx

  • Congratulations xx

  • Thank you 😊

  • Fantastic ❀

  • Thank you 😊

  • I had AF ,day before the results :( Huge congratulations !!! Xx

  • I was told if it dosent work, chances are it could have had problems through pregnancy. Fingers crossed for you my love xxx

  • And thank you 😘

  • Fantastic news, had to check your update first and it was lovely to see this!!! All the very best from now on xoxo

  • Awh bless you that's so sweet! Thank you xx

  • Congratulations. Great news to wake up to x

  • Thank you so much x

  • Lovely news congratulations x

  • Thank you x

  • Hahaha I've been sat waiting for your status, but just realised you had put it in this one lol. Massive congratulations to you lovely, I had everything crossed for you. May you go on to have a nice healthy and smooth pregnancy xxx

  • Haha thanks!! I was gonna do a new post but I thought this was everyone who's messages me will get a notification! Aaahhhh can't believe this is real xxx

  • Aww bless you, it's so exciting for you, xxx

  • Congratulations :-) take it easy now for the next few weeks xx

  • Thank you so much for your advice. Currently snuggled on the sofa with the pooch πŸ‘πŸΌ Xx

  • Fantastic news... Congratulations 🎊 xxx

  • Thank you xxx

  • Best of luck xxx

  • Thank you 😊

  • Great news congratulations xxxx

  • Thank you xxx

  • Fabulous news !!! Congratulations xxxx

  • Thank you 😊

  • We wish you all the very best and I've responded via PM too Lynsey

  • Thank you 😊

  • Congrats Lynsey, chuffed at your post. Not long at all to wait for your scan. Wishing you a happy healthy pregnancy xx

  • Thank you my lovely 😊 I'm still suffering from my ovaries after egg collection but just hoping little bean isn't ectopic 🀞🏼

  • Could just be the implantation cramps xx

  • Still? Even though it's already implanted? Sorry to sound dumb πŸ˜‚πŸ™ˆ but I have no idea what to expect! Xxx

  • Hi PrincesLynsey, it's normal to get ongoing cramps and twinges in early pregnancy as the embryo settles in and your womb contracts. Hopefully all normal x

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