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*sensitive post* In total shock!!!

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So this morning at 4am 9dp5dt we got a BFP!! I was 100% certain it hadn’t worked absolutely no symptoms, no cramps just slightly tender breasts but they were sore prior to transfer.

We are now so nervous having experienced a miscarriage last year I know we have a long way to go but just so so happy to get over this hurdle.

Thanks as always for all your support.

Please please embryo stay with me and be my baby.

Love and baby dust to you all 💜💜💜💜

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Woo hoo nice stong line there....congratulations!! Fingers crossed for a sticky one!xx

Thank you! Huge luck to you for your FET in jan xxxx

Thanks so much!xx

Congratulations on your bfp xx

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Beechnut1 in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you xxxxx

Woohooo a hurdle crossed.... massive congratulations xxz

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Beechnut1 in reply to destiny121

Thank you 💜

Congratulations to you both! You will have an awesome christmas and a jolly new year! Best news for you guys, how exciting👍🏼🤞💕🤰🏻 pray your embie sticks. Take it easy and enjoy taking in this news. Take each day at a time and keep positive, it will be hard but you will do xxx

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Beechnut1 in reply to Masha111

Thank you! I will definitely try my best. One day at a time with a definite few melt downs along the way 😂 xxx

Congratulations 🤗💕xxx

Thank you xxx

Hooray hooray HOORAY!!! Sooo super chuffed for you and what a strong line too! Congratulations was sooo hoping you would get your BFP - thrilled for you! Maybe dodgy left ovaries are ok after all 😂 xx

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Beechnut1 in reply to Daisy1245

Ahhh Daisy thank you so much!! Yes to dodgy left ovaries and determined consultants! 🤣 How are you getting on? Lots of love x x x

Big congratulations 💝

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Beechnut1 in reply to Anya80

Thank you xxx

Congratulations 😀😀

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Beechnut1 in reply to Alisha79

Thank you xxx

Many congratulations xx

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Beechnut1 in reply to Steadman80

Thank you xxx

Congratulations! 🎉

What a Christmas present! Xxx

Thank you xxxx

Ah, so much for your gut feeling it had failed!!! Big congratulations hon xxx

Thank you! Gut feeling and self preservation run side by side at the moment! Xxxx


Thank you xxx

Congratulations 🤗

Best of luck for the next stages xxx

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Beechnut1 in reply to CatDV

Thank you xxx

Many congratulations xxxx

Congratulations to you.

Congratulations so pleased for you. Sorry about your loss, I had one last year it’s heartbreaking. My best advice is to take a day at a time; today I am pregnant tomorrow I might not be but today I am so I’ll be happy. It worked well for me ( until I had spotting) I’m now 16 weeks. Just remember just because the last pregnancy didn’t work out doesn’t mean this one won’t; lots of women who have a miscarriage will go on to have a healthy baby 😍 Wishing you the best with your pregnancy xoxo

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Thank you so much Jess I’m going to try my best and take it a day at a time. I have to take my own advice that I give to women at work everyday!! I really really hope that this is it this time ❤️❤️❤️ thanks for your words and I hope you have a smooth and wonderful pregnancy xxxx

Aww congratulations ! What lovely news and a good solid line too!

Fingers crossed this one sticks all the way xxx

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Beechnut1 in reply to Saya85

Thank you! Yes really happy with the line. How’s the 2WW going? Xxx

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Saya85 in reply to Beechnut1

Not sure ! I've been getting cramping on and off since ET and this low grade fever /temperature feeling.

I took my temperature yday and it is in line with the rise that happens post ovulation or early pregnancy ! So I'm hoping lol.

I've had early bleeds in previous cycles but last cycle I had no Symptoms until day before otd. I'm not sure if all these symptoms are good or not.

But I'm furiously wiping away and no spotting ! Although at this rate I'm probably going to cause a bleed just scratching my skin away lol.

We have two on board and I'm on lots of meds and thyroid controlled so I'm hoping we get at least one stick.

My cousin who had IVF just delivered her twin babies this weekend so I'm hoping the baby dust is around (!)

Hubby refuses to let me test early this time and for once I want to enjoy or share it with him on the same day.

Our OTD is Xmas Eve and clinic closes at 12.

I'm worried I'll miss the stick when trying to pee on it and will be stuck waiting for another (!) 🤣

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Saya85 in reply to Saya85

Ooooh I just realised youre the midwife going through IVF!!

Omg now I'm wanting to do cartwheels around the room and even more overjoyed !!!!

But I'm.cramping and in bed....and I can't do cartwheels anyway ....

But in spirit I'm.there ! Yay 🙌

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Beechnut1 in reply to Saya85

🤣😂🤣 thank you lovely! It all sounds really promising especially the temp bit. Everything crossed for you. This was my 4th transfer and the most detached I’ve been in the 2WW which I think has actually helped me cope and stay a tad more level headed. Was convinced it was negative until the second I turned the stick over absolutely no symptoms and still none!

I’ll be thinking of you on Xmas eve!! Good luck and be easy on yourself x x x x

Congratulations to you! I am so happy that things finally worked for you. You must be so excited. Just take extreme care of yourself. Eat healthily and just relax. Apart from this make sure to visit the doctor regularly as well. Good luck to you on this journey. I hope things go smoothy.

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Beechnut1 in reply to hannahding

Thank you! I’ll definitely be looking after myself. Getting the GP to amend my duties at work so no labour care to keep the stress levels down! 💜

Congratulations what lovely news xx💙💚💛💜

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Beechnut1 in reply to Rowly88

Thank you x x x

Congratulations!! I have been trying to convince myself not to test on 9dp5dt but your line is so strong!

I’m convinced this cycle hasn’t worked for me. Feels no different from my last failed ICSI cycle and I kind of think I’m trying to keep myself from being too disappointed. What test did you use? My OTD is Boxing Day. Not sure I’m going to be able to hold out this time... always worried I will get a negative and be devastated earlier and still then have to test on the OTD.

Anyway congratulations!!! So happy for you and your sticky bean! What a amazing Christmas present for you both. ❤️ everything crossed for you! 🤞🏻 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

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Beechnut1 in reply to Em2405

My OTD is Sunday but clinic wanted me to test on day 10 to allow time to sort out extra lubion for over Xmas! I choose day 9 purely because it was my day off so I’d have the day to feel crap if it was a BFN. Only you know what feels right. Last night I felt like I really didn’t want to test! What day post transfer are you on now? I’d try to hang off to as close to OTD as possible to minimise any uncertainty. Wishing you so much luck absolutely everything crossed for you! Xxxx

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Em2405 in reply to Beechnut1

I’m 6dp5dt today so definitely not going to test yet, going to wait until at least Friday if I do but not sure what I feel like doing yet! I guess 9dp the embryo is really 14 dpo cus it was a 5dt. That’s forward thinking of your clinic, I only have enough progesterone until the 28th and I’m visiting family in North Wales for Christmas so maybe I should ask for a little more just incase against all the odds it is positive! Ha not sure I will ever believe it will work.

Did you have any symptoms at all?

Thanks xxx

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Beechnut1 in reply to Em2405

You should be ok if your using suppositories as most pharmacies have them in stock or you can pick meds up from clinic. Lubions not stocked and my clinic is a 4hr round trip away.

I’m sure it will work, that’s exactly how I felt this cycle I was convinced that IVF would never ever work.

The only symptom is slightly sore boobs but they hurt before the transfer so was trying to not think to much about it. I’m an obsessive boob poker!! 😂 other than that nothing at all x x x

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Em2405 in reply to Beechnut1

Haha! Boob poker! Me too! Just to check they are still sore lol! Aw thanks for replying. So happy for you. Keep us updated of your progress, so nice to read positive stories. Xxx

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Beechnut1 in reply to Em2405

You too lovely I’ll be thinking of you 💜💜💜

Congratulations! Good luck for the next steps xxx

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Beechnut1 in reply to HollieW

Thank you xxx

Such great news, I'm so happy for you. Congratulations x

Thank you xxxx

That’s a good strong line for day 9! Congratulations and I’m sure this will be your baby xxx

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Beechnut1 in reply to Scarlett13

Thank you so much I’m so sorry to see you had a BFN this time they are just the worst. This is such a hard journey sending you lots of love xxx

Congratulations 🌈 🥰

Congratulations!! 🤗Xxxx

Congratulations! Wishing you all the best xx

Congrats xx

Congratulations xxx

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