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[Liz22]

Hi im liz and new to this. Have had 2 ivf attempts (1 fresh 1 frozen) both resulting in early miscarriage. Am now waiting to be tested for natural killer cells.

[Hidden]

Firstly really sorry to hear of your losses 😢 and welcome to this site. It's brilliant being able to talk yo others going similar situations and having others understand. No matter how hard friends and family try to understand unless you've been through this you can't understand the full impact this has on your life. I've just my nk blood test this morning! Should have my results back next Tuesday. Wanted to have this ruled out before I commence any treatment. ( been ttc 5 years with so called unexplained hmmm!) I want to wish you the best with everything and I hope you get some answers that bring you closer to having your baby. Not that you ever get over a miscarriage X

[Liz22 in reply to Hidden]

Thankyou so much for your reply. Yeh i have really supportive friends and family but its so hard for them to understand. Its such a long slog isnt it, weve been trying for over 4 years now. Didnt realise you could have nk test as a blood test ive been told i have to have a biopsy for it. Really hope your results are ok let me know how it goes xx

[Lamb82]

Welcome to the site. Sorry to hear of your losses. I have also had an early miscarriage and it truly heartbreaking. I had my Nk biopsy done last week and waiting for results like jess. I had the biopsy as it also acts as a scratch for next cycle. It stung a bit but will be worth it if we can rule /sort something out. Good luck. X

[Liz22 in reply to Lamb82]

Thanks for your comment. Did they tell you how long the results are likely to take? Will u book in for treatment on your next cycle then? Sorry alot of questions lol. Hope your results come back ok xx

[Lamb82]

No problem ask away! Results could take 3wks. We were going to start this cycle but with the results taking so long we have delayed a month, so will be all go again in a few weeks! Fingers crossed for both our results. . X

[Hidden]

Welcome to the site I find it so helpful as everyone on here gets me, am sure you will enjoy nipping on from time to time speaking about to everyone hun, so sorry for ur losses so horrible, how far on were u? if u don't mind me asking, I had 3 fails 1 fresh 2 frozen then I had my tubes finally removed and got my nk cell test done and my 4th et worked and I got my bfp after 9 years I am only 6 weeks so it's very early, so I hope the test is what u have been needing and u get to finally have ur wee miracle sending you baby dust 💖

[Liz22 in reply to Hidden]

Hi yeh already found it helpful oh brilliant congratulations!! Both of my losses were early on at 5 weeks so they think i may be struggling to hang on to it so try again and hope for the best!! Do you have an early scan coming up? Got my fingers and toes crossed for you xxx

[Hidden in reply to Liz22]

Aww hun that's so heartbreaking did u just start to bleed? So sorry for asking as I am so para of losing, I really do hope that's not the case and u can carry, Yeah on the 15th am so nervous as heard cause type of scan u can bleed after it and don't no if that can do anything, aw thanks that's so sweet xxxxxx

[Liz22 in reply to Hidden]

I just started bleeding and it was fresh blood not like the spotting u can get in pregnancy. Dont worry there is no way they would do anything that could harm your pregnancy, so the scan will be perfectly safe. I know how u feel being scared of loosing its not nice and a very anxious time. Hugs xxx

[Hidden in reply to Liz22]

Yeah they did say that it wouldn't harm the baby I didn't think it would just worried coz didn't no they done it that way. Yeah definitely get so worried about losing ur so sweet really do hope ur OK xxxxxxx

[Marmo]

Hi, Liz! Sorry to hear that But you should know you aren't alone, and welcome to the crowd. This place is just great for talking the problems over. Though this is so tremendously difficult to imagine what you're going through now and find the right words to smooth the pain. Our 1st fresh IVF cycle with donor eggs was a failure (with a Greek clinic first). That was a disaster to me so for everyone of my big friendly family. Then we switched the clinics due to some reasons and our journey continued with Ukrainian clinic. I have never experienced a miscarriage myself so no advice could be done. Just know God blesses us for the waiting and struggling and hope. I'll be praying for your next time to be your rainbow! XX