BFN

[kc21]

Just did a test 2 days early and it's bfn for second time. I'm so devasted and don't know where to go from here. That was my last nhs go x what's wrong with me. Had 2 embroys 8 cell and 6 cell on day 3 and not stuck ....

[Hidden]

Hang in there just incase it changes on test date 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[kc21 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you but I doubt it will. I used a first response

What is wrong with button.why is this not working for me ?

[Hidden in reply to kc21]

When I test early with a first response I thought it was negative it was only when I looked shortly after could see a very very faint line, don't give up yet. Know how you feel though I feel like we are back to square one and also now having to self fund xx

[MommaBear16]

Sorry to hear this kc but don't lose hope, test again in two days so you know it's accurate. There's a reason they give us an OTD, some peoples levels are not high enough to detect early. The other night me and DH went out to discuss our next steps if we get a BFN (OTD a week tomorrow), it really helped to have a plan in place and know we were on the same page with how long we will leave between cycles and what we will do in the meantime. When you're ready to have that talk with your partner it may help you feel much better. Best of luck x x x

[Karinyaa]

I'm so sorry, hun! We had 2 failures too while passing DE IVF more than a year ago. Also 1 delay. (Because of OHSS (Ovarian hyper-stimulation syndrome). Drugs used for egg production stimulation enlarged the ovaries to dangerous extents. So we had to wait a little bit more than it was planned). I know how devastating you feel and confused with the point it's the last NHS. What explanation do they give to you? If you don't mind me asking of course. Is this connected with the egg quality? Or is this an issue of preparing home for the embies? Again, I'm sorry, hun. But you have to put yourself together. Take care of yourself and hope for better. I guess they will do investigation, find out what's the matter, probably make some changes to the treatment plan or offer you just another treatment option. Even a failure is a step for further success.

Our 3rd att was a rainbow. Though we had to survive 2 dreadful BFNs earlier. God blesses waiting, hoping and struggling. I wish your stay here is short and your dream come true soon. Take care and good luck, hun X