Any help would be great

Found out my thaw transfer didnt work on Thursday so its been hard few days was told wil have my 3rd transfer starting with my August period so will ho ahead in September looking to see if any you lovely ladies have any suggestions wot i could do to help it finally work ☺xxxxx

[Olivia1980xxx]

Hi lynsey86. I had unsuccessful cycle in April and we only had one go on NHS . We sow the doctor in clinic talking all things thru and to discuss if we decide to go for another cycle self funding this time if there is anything to improve chances to work this time. We can use ASDA drugs which u can safe some money on that , then I can choose to have 2 embryos transfer using "embryo glue"... And they gonna do endometrial scratching... that gonna help and increase chances for transfer to work . Ask your doctor to use at least one of that to help u Hun 😃 finger cross x

[Hidden in reply to Olivia1980xxx]

So sorry to hear that 😟 ohhh never heard any that defo will speak to my doctor as u no its heart breaking when its all u want and its not happening next time will be my 3rd chance which am greatful for but its hard and draining each time i really wish u all the luck and pray u have your own wee miracle soon ☺xxxxx

[Olivia1980xxx in reply to Hidden]

Thank u Hun . It was and still is devastating when didn't happen for us....we making lots of sacrifices in our life , try leave by the rules,working hard and when we finally went to that point that we need to slow down , think and concentrate to have family ours self....😔 and when u try and try and is just not happen ...u thinking WHY ...what we done so wrong .... U see im dealing with that "my sad way"..,crying feeling depressed... My hubby keep inside him. We married over 9 years ....my brother in low married 4 years ago . His wife is going to be 23 and she is all ready pregnant 6 months ... We the oldest one me 34 hubby 38 😔 time is not on our side 😔😔 The reason I'm wrote to u is because when I sow my doctor she told me that with first cycle they normally try to do all that in just very normal way ...and if is unsuccessful they will know more what to do with second cycle to increase the chances like use embryo glue or endometrial scratching . I had 5 day blastocyst and embryo put in and didn't work 😔😔😔 Now I know more not because my doctor told me her self .... because I ask her for that .., Have confidence when u see your doctor asking for that ...ask if they can use those two technic to increase your transfer 😃 We all here went through so much that we all need just good news positivity that "the little miracle is going to happen to us all"... 😃 Did your doctor explain to u why those two previous cycles didn't work for u ? The reasons ? Xx

[Hidden in reply to Olivia1980xxx]

Its so hard to be so happy fof family and friends when they fall pregnant not in a bad way but just think why them and not me must be so hard your brother and partner being pregnant hun my cousin just had a baby boy my little cousin in pregnant and so is my best friend and when they tell me tgey werent even trying breaks my heart when ive been tryin for 7 years its sad in a way as i don't see my best friend much now as when I do its baby talk showing me wot shes bought as she found out shes having a wee girl this definitely takes over your whole life i dont see my nephews much thats my sisters two boys am just in a dak place thats why need to speak to lovely ladies like yourself thats going through the same pain yip hun we will all get our miracles when do you have another chance and no i dont no why but twice the blood test came back at like 5, big hug to you xxxxx

[Olivia1980xxx in reply to Hidden]

Hello lynsey86. I don't know about what means 5 in blood test😔 U had . Did doctor say what that means? How many eggs u had collected in first and second cycle? What grade/ quality they was? R they freeze any...and if they didn't did they told u the reason? Xxx

[Hidden in reply to Olivia1980xxx]

Think just means i wasnt pregnant hun and ive not had my 2nd cycle yet just had my 1st transfer in January but got 6 eggs on collection think there all at blastocyst stage tbh i dont take things in my parter takes it in for us both i phoned hospital earlier cause no one told me to stop taking my cyclogest and climaval and got told today i shouldn't still be taken them but have been the last 5days when i should be off them to get my periods xxxxxx